we fight all the time,very often,one day after another,etc. i hurt her alot with my words,actions,and emotions.when we fight at school,we makeup after a few hours.then if we fight on fridays,we usually call each other up and say we're sorry.she takes up for me,and i never really have the guts to tell her thanks,she keeps my secets and i do keep hers.one thing,shes a little bossy,she says that she does it cuse she takes up for her self,{by the way,im a girl,with a bff,that is a girl!}
2006-12-02 03:11:39 · 8 answers · asked by broken_heart_of_an_angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe you should go to couples counseling and if your bf doesn't then you should go and leave your bf!
2006-12-02 03:14:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is not a healthy one and stands almost no chance of being salvaged, not as a romantic one, anyway. I was in a similar situation - fighting-wise - with a girl I loved very much and she loved me very much, but we could not stop fighting to save our lives. Fight, apologize, fight apologize, etc. It just wears you down in every aspect. Life is simply too short to live that way. It's time to move on.
How do you get over her. The advice that's been given to me in the past and that I have found to work is to cut off all communication for several months. Then reestablish communication as friends. Without the break, you never allow the romantic feelings to extinguish and they will always overwhelm the friendship. It's not easy, but it works.
Of course, if you're in a situation where you have to or simply will see each other on a regular basis, it's going to be much harder. Good luck.
2006-12-02 03:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u want to get over her? are u tired of fighting? well i guess just make a new friend. My best friend told me she didnt want to talk to me anymore b/c i am a bad influence on her and it hurts but slowly if u dont hang out with them for a while they begin to fade from ur mind.
2006-12-02 03:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you argue? What do you argue over? Who starts the argument? Why can't you stop arguing? Who will take the first step to stop this destructive behavior?
2006-12-02 03:18:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depend if she is a real true freiend or if she always wants stuff her way
2006-12-02 03:13:06 · answer #5 · answered by misschrisboo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This relationship can not be saved. Sorry...
2006-12-02 03:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my friend and her friend do that a lot and the same person with my other friend last year....................... try again or give up and fina nother friend
2006-12-02 03:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
handle your ****
2006-12-02 03:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by mokieman_12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋