2006-12-02 03:08:18 · 52 answers · asked by sassy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husband blames me for everything take for instance the key incident (read previous question) anything and everything that goes wrong is my fault awhile back he lost his car keys HIS keys i searched the whole damn house and get him shouting down the phone at me where do the car keys turn up where i'll tell u in his inside coat poacket when i said why he didnt check all his pockets he said it was my fault cos i probably put them there now tell me how is that fair!
2006-12-02 03:19:12 · update #1
I have no idea, but when things go "wrong" ( or wrong in the mans mind ) ..it is always the womans fault according to them..
Men have huge egos and do not take blame in relationships easily..
I guess it is just ther nature.
I have a good man, and he still blames me for everything that has ever gone wrong..untill he thinks hard about it and eventually admitts he has not been perfect and at some fault...
2006-12-02 03:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it goes both ways . In an environment with women only the man is the scapegoat and vice versa . The thing is that everyone likes to dish out blame and very few are reluctant to accept responsiblity . Lets face it , no one says in the heat of the moment , you know what I'm to blame .This is true of all situations so it extends to relationships as well .
One thing that may also help to answer your question is the nature of both sexes , most men are logical thinkers and women are emotional reactors so that's why guys may piece together and blame women more readily.
2006-12-02 03:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by cayetto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn he's cold. I reckon if his penis is not attached to his body he'd probably loose it as well. Its called passing on the negative energy. Look at yourself now. Just pass it back to him. You know how guys are with there ego. You just have to massage it sometimes. Next time that happens, look for the keys and if you found it somewhere in his jacket or whatever, just leave it there and tend to something more important. After that, tell him to check his jacket and when he finds it just give him a smile and a hug. =)
2006-12-03 16:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Macky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of women spend a lot of time bashing men for everything. PEOPLE are imperfect...some people are down right unkewl...we (people in general) tend to take our anger out on an entire group (like all men or all women) when we are in fact just upset with one individual.
I don't think men think women are to blame for everything...but those that have had multiple negative experiences with women, tend to have a bad taste in their mouth for the feminine sex in general (and same is typical for women re: men).
People need to learn it's the individual that did you wrong...that was the catalyst for your pain or anger...not all 3 billion or so of the people on the planet that are the same sex as the unkewl one.
2006-12-02 03:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same reason women blame men for everything.
I don't think it has much to do with the private areas. Just the good old brain.
Another answer, is cause the current man you are associated with, might be a jerk. Ooops. I could be over stepping but if a guy, blames your for everything, its probably cause somethings wrong with him.
2006-12-02 03:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our culture teaches women that they are basically along for the ride in life and that men initiate everything, handle everything, make everything happen and maintain everything.
The result is that women don't do their part, mostly, in relationships. This creates an uncomfortable reality for men. If we don't completely dominate the relationship, it tends to disintegrate. Men resent this, both because we hate having to be this way and the consequences of what happens if we refuse (or simply don't know we have to do this) are so severe.
2006-12-02 03:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are men and we either have to love them or leave them. I hear you about the keys. My biggest fight with my husband was over his glasses. They were ontop of his head. He wouldn't belive me for 2 hours he avoided all of the mirrors in the house so he wouldn't see them. I haven't laughed like that in a long time. You can find humor or no but, you have to decide if you are willing to put up with this for life or not.
2006-12-03 00:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by Julia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't...just some men think this way depending on what has happened to them in their lives. Don't get the idea that all men blame women for everything because it is not true.
2006-12-02 03:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cos men just don't like admitting they are in the wrong and blaming us women is the obvious way out.
2006-12-02 03:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by debs1701 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they find it difficult to pin it on themselves even though to start with there is a nagging thought with them that they are to be blamed. Once they begin hurling the accusations, they've stopped taking up responsibility for their actions. It's easier to pile it all on the women with simple words that go, "It is all because of you"...lol
2006-12-02 03:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋