Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

he's a really good friend who just got over a terrible relationship. i would like to be more than a friend to him eventually, but i can live with him being a really good friend for now.

2006-11-28 01:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by renee_freedom 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 01:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by briansquest 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 01:38:12 · 6 answers · asked by Keedie 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfreind but im not feel him like i use to i dont call him know more we be at school he be calling my name but i dont answer him i just not feeling him likr that.

2006-11-28 01:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by zambreisha t 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, here's my story. My parents split when I was 16 due to my father having an affair. That was 11 years ago and we're all past that now (mostly). He entered into a long term relationship with "the other woman" immediately after the affair. She and I don't always get along, but we have our good moments and try our best to treat each other with respect. Anyway, now that I'm happily married with a 2 year old daughter, Thanksgiving and Christmas have been pure hell for me. With 3 sets of people (My father, my mother, and my in-laws) wanting my wife, daughter, and me to spend time with them over the holidays, we try very hard to compromise and be fair to everybody. My in-laws(God bless them) are very kind and understanding. My mother is understanding. My dad and his wife...not so much. No matter what I suggest, it's never enough and I get accused of favoring the other sets of family and it inevitably devolves into a huge fight. What can I do to make the holidays fun again?

2006-11-28 01:36:28 · 15 answers · asked by constantstatic 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There are these the hot guys in my class. They all are really nice and are like my best friends. But I really want one of them to be mine. What should I do? HELPPP

2006-11-28 01:36:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well she rejected me. But for some reason has decided that she has made a mistake. At the time is was quite hurt by the rejection.
She keeps emailing me and txting me and I have been doing a bit of negative selling of my self. Saying stuff like she dosent even fancy me..... And that I hope that I will find someone as lovely as her to go out with me.

Is it wrong to play with her feelings in this way....? I do really like her but feel that she hurt me first and a little payback is in order.....

2006-11-28 01:35:17 · 55 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

How long sholud I ignore this girl who's on my mind all the time since she doesn't take our friendship seriously.

2006-11-28 01:33:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am currently dating a girlf for the past 4 months who just broke up with a boyfreind of 3 years. He is trying to come back but she tells me she wants to be with me but is still attached. Last night i told her i felt that we needed space so she can solve her attachment issues but she planned that we just date and take it slow till she gets over him. Did i make a mistake and initiate a break and probably lose her for that.

2006-11-28 01:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by velvetsmartguy 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 01:32:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think this would be a wonderful idea:
if you didnt hit it off the matchmaker would spare you any awkward embarassment and you could both withdraw gracefully.
also if the matchmaker insisted on id from both partners..you would feel far safer than newspaper adverts and the like, where you could meet any kind of freak whatsoever.
i would prefer this to meeting at a matchmakers house.
i know nothing about matchmakers...will there be at least one in every town or have i identified a gap in the dating market?
how do they operate? i would like the sort of arrangement where if we hit it off...we would buy a gift together for the matchmaker.
i wouldnt like it to be a strictly financial arrangement.
i can imagine this being a very emotionally rewarding activity for a sociable mature [50+] person with a lot of life experience.
maybe the ideal activity for certain disabled people?
are any of my readers doing this very thing in west yorkshire?
if not, are there websites run by trustwort

2006-11-28 01:32:01 · 4 answers · asked by catweazle 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok ive been gone from my house for a lil over a week... i got kicked out but then my mom said i ranaway... now im at the only place i have to go... my "sisters" house... ive known her all my life thats y shes like my sis... n her dad is like my dad... until... last nite, i have to sleep on the couch n her dad was touching me wen i was sleeping, i kno this bcuz i woke up during it i was jus too afraid to do anything... this is the only plzce i have to stay.. im 16 yrs old n have no money... and very lil clothes with me... her dad is a "sex addict" i guess n hes supposed to b having counceling for this... i dnt kno wat to do... i need help!

2006-11-28 01:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by *kat* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

also do you know one? or are they becoming rare breed...;0)

2006-11-28 01:31:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this 1st cousin Jessica that likes to go to this clothing optional beach in Miami and she is 27 and I am 33. She said she has been going topless for years and she said its fun and asked me to go. Well, I was a bit reluctant to go at first but then decided to give it a try. She says she never gets totally naked when she goes just goes topless with a g string. Well, when we got there we were lying on the beach towel and after an hour, I decided to strip away the swim trunks. I got nude. She really didnt look at me or make me feel weird as for the first hour nude I was lying on my stomach. The weird thing was that she wanted to take a walk along the shore and told me its ok to stay nude. Well, we were walking, and I felt weird cause she had her g string on still and I was nude. As I was walking, I ended up getting an erection in front of her and I noticed she was a bit embarrassed. I couldnt get it to go down. Was this very inappropriate? I eventually put my trunks on later

2006-11-28 01:31:15 · 12 answers · asked by eastwood1870 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-28 01:29:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently told me he still feels messed up by what happened with an ex-girldfirend, but he also said he wants to give things a go with me still. Now I'm worried that he's suddenly gong to change his mind because he can't get over his ex. What should I do?

2006-11-28 01:29:46 · 11 answers · asked by chocolate_jump 1 in Singles & Dating

most males seem to have lost the plot and are downtrodden miserable rude people and are shells of their ancestors...and most women are twittering and empty headed or so set on competing with men that they too have lost the true womanhood that they should own...

a real man or woman really stands apart now...thats a shame because both sexes have so much to offer but generally there seems to be a load of people just drudging their way through life ...do you agree? why do you think this is...i have my own reasons and explanations but im interested in what other people think too...;0)

2006-11-28 01:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of putting in a bottle of champers, some nice scented candles and rose petals. Anybody got any other ideas?

2006-11-28 01:28:53 · 23 answers · asked by donna ellen 2 in Weddings

I paid the registration fees(non refundable) at an institute.But since then I changd my mind for various reasons.Im not joining it anymore.One of my mates wants to join it.n she askd me to give my receipt to her so that that my fee can be transffered to her.This means she wont have to pay up the registration fee.I knew my fee would be wasted,n thats okay (cuz its not too much).But I don't feel like giving my receipt to her.I don't know why.I always knew my fee would be wasted-but I don't want my waste to be somebody elses gain-esp in this case.That girl isn't even a close friend of mine.I barely talk to her. And don't tell me to ask her to give me the fee instead of the institute,cuz thats just niche. If she were a good friend of mine, I would have given it to her without a second thought. But I'm not very fond of her.Am I being selfish? Its just that my conciesnce isn't allowing me to give her the receipt. Am I just a pathetic depressing loser? Or am I even a wee bit right

2006-11-28 01:27:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

men, would you date a woman if you found out she also had feellings for other women? Would that be a turn on for you, or a massive turnoff?

2006-11-28 01:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a single woman at the end of her tether. They have a shared reponsibility for their son. Her ex (the childs father, obviously) moved on and is living with someone else and they both work. Not sure if THEY have kids together. But ex is effectively bullying my friend into paying extra for things. Like "give me 20 quid for xxxxxxxxxx". She has said that if her son wants things then she will certainly pay for him to have them but not give him cash in hand, so to speak. Where does she stand?

2006-11-28 01:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by wrighty1976 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi Everyone.

I left my husband 4 years ago whilst i was going through some pretty awful depression. I needed to get away from what i knew not. We stayed friendly, living apart but we never discussed it. He went off with another woman when he thought i wasn't coming back. I was very awful saying things i didnt really mean. He decided we needed to divorce over 2 years ago but he still hasnt instigated it. He is still with the other woman but he has told me that he won't commit to her, yet he does nothing about talking things over with me either.

We meet up to take our 3 gradnchildren out every Saturday and share all presents for both families. He knows that i would like us to get back together or to just talk but it doesnt happen. I feel like i'm living in limbo, just as he did when i left him. I don't need a man but i do truly love my husband.

I suffered a mental breakdown when he left. Is he afraid to hurt me more by divorcing me? why won't he talk? many thanks

2006-11-28 01:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-28 01:24:06 · 17 answers · asked by Mary M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were to be in love for ever.she always told that. but one day as cruely as possible she forgot everything and let me down.
i told nothing.i did notind,........
what kind of change was it?

2006-11-28 01:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by nocturnalroar20 1 in Singles & Dating

You were out in the rain and your umbrella broke?

2006-11-28 01:23:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So much so that he is pawning things, utilities are getting cut off. I'm sooooooooooo angry we have 2 children and I think about divorce all of the time. Once upon a time things were really good and they have progressively gotten worse. I also found out he was talking to a girl at work before and after hours but he insists it is work related. Yeah right! Anyway, I'm only staying for a babysitter and (part of) a paycheck! That's bad isn't it?

2006-11-28 01:22:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister flipped my huband off when he complimented her new hair. She swears on the "life of her child" that she did'nt My husband is'nt the type to lie to me. It happened at a place that they both work. As a result of this, I missed Thanksgiving with my family this year.

2006-11-28 01:21:47 · 15 answers · asked by trcycase 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Professor, or Gilligan ? (or Skipper)... & why ?

2006-11-28 01:20:59 · 9 answers · asked by Justin 3 in Singles & Dating

Is not a turn on for a girl to look at a bloke stripping,does nothing for me even if hes fit its not sexual yet when a bloke goes to a quality lap dancing club hes getting horny from it, its sexual right?

2006-11-28 01:20:45 · 12 answers · asked by odd socks 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay , I don't know if anyone remembers but a few months ago I was having troubles with my two Best friends well, we recently got back together. But there's a problem , My friend L , who used to weigh over 200lbs has lost over 60lbs and is being very conceited about it. First of all, My other friends think she might be sick or whateva, only because she lost it so fast, and didn't exercise. She picks with my other overweight friends including her 20 year old sister who used to be thin but gained about 3 years ago. She says things like:
I hope I Don't Become Conceited
So and So Looks like They gettin Bigger
She Gets Mad if You don't give her a good Compliment
Always in The Mirror
Came to my other friends house at 11:30 at night just 4 sunglasses
Told Me that She was only going to our other Best Friend's dad's funeral just so folks could see how she looks
Cuts people off when they try to talk about how they are
Puts People down
Is Very Sassy with People

What Should I do ?

2006-11-28 01:20:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends