ok ive been gone from my house for a lil over a week... i got kicked out but then my mom said i ranaway... now im at the only place i have to go... my "sisters" house... ive known her all my life thats y shes like my sis... n her dad is like my dad... until... last nite, i have to sleep on the couch n her dad was touching me wen i was sleeping, i kno this bcuz i woke up during it i was jus too afraid to do anything... this is the only plzce i have to stay.. im 16 yrs old n have no money... and very lil clothes with me... her dad is a "sex addict" i guess n hes supposed to b having counceling for this... i dnt kno wat to do... i need help!
2006-11-28 01:31:54 · 11 answers · asked by *kat* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you were kicked out at 16, your parents are still responsible for you legally. Don't you have any other family, or a boyfriend to stay with? Does it sicken you or are you offended by his actions? If so, then let him know (in private of course, the first time) that you knew what he was doing and that you don't appreciate it. Sick or not, if he continues or it gets worse, go to your friend and let her know. Maybe she can help without starting a major incident, or it results in you being booted. The other alternative would be to either allow it to continue or to give in, in order to keep from causing problems. Which road you take is completely up to you, but just be smart about it either way and use protection if necessary. I hate to even bring it up, but its sounding like your in a very desperate situation as far as living quarters go, and people will do almost anything in those situations. So, I'm just trying to cover all bases.
2006-11-28 01:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go into a shelter. Or go talk to your mom and work things out with her. Theres no place like home. Wouldnt you want to be in a place where you are safe?? You better not stay with these people. God only knows what else hes capable of. Go talk to your mom and apologize....shes your mom and im sure shes worried about you. Do the things you are suppose to do,,go to school and live by your moms rules until you are old enough to get out on your own.
2006-11-28 09:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no right to touch you at all sweetheart. I suggest you immediately go to child services and get them to help you. They should be able to find you somewhere safe to stay. After all, you are only 16 darling and you shouldn't have to put up with this. I also suggest that you never stop trying to make up with your mother. I don't know why you are having these problems with your mother and I wont pretend that I do, but the one thing that I do know is that as a young girl grows up she needs her mother. Have you thought about telling your mum about what your "sisters" father has been doing to you? Her reaction may surprise you. If some one tried to do anything like that with either of my children I wouldn't stop until I had the S%@ of a b*^#& put in jail.
2006-11-28 09:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by LEEANE G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, u must get back to ur house & live with ur mom. i don't y u got kicked out, but correct the situation & go back home.
eventhough u r staying at ur 'sister's house (best frind i suppose) i don't think it's a long-term solution. if her dad is a sex-addict & touching u, it's means he's sexually abusing u & must get away from there.
unless of course u like to have sex with this man, but u said he's like u r dad so i presume not.
u r in a difficult situation. perhaps u can go to some other place?
i don't know the whole story, but how on earth can u allow urself to get kicked out when u r only 16? develop a understanding with ur parents & go back to ur house.
2006-11-28 09:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get the hell out of that house! talk to your mom and tell her what happened. I know that might be hard but you CAN"T stay at that house!!! It will only get worse I know!!! I was in a situation like that once. If you can't talk to your mom and work things out you have to tell someone and find a new place to stay!!!
2006-11-28 09:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Emily S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to ur local council and ask to spk to a homeless officer and explain the situatuion they will help u with a place to stay untill they find u a house of ur own!
2006-11-28 09:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by zoe m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the law on him - he needs to be locked up fast - if not get outta there somehow...even if you have to go back home for a while...if your mom says you ran away - run back...tell her what was happening at your sisters too...no matter how bad it seems at home - that is your mother and she does love you regardless
2006-11-28 09:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you tell your "sister"...if not you should. Work it out with your mom....suck it up till you find your own place darling!
2006-11-28 09:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by Joni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO HOME ........!!!
WHY ARE YOU STILL HERE? GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOME NOW!!!
BE SMART......THINK WISE.......DONT BE FOOLISH..........GO HOME NOW......!!!
Let me Advice you something abt life;
There are really only two ways to approach life;
........................as a victim or as gallant fighter.
You must decide if you want to act or react. Deal your own cards or play with a stacked deck. And if you dont decide which way to play with life, it always plays with you.
SO WHT ITS GONNA BE?
2006-11-28 09:39:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
report him to the authorities so he can go to jail and you can use his bed.
2006-11-28 09:34:54 · answer #10 · answered by Atousa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋