we were to be in love for ever.she always told that. but one day as cruely as possible she forgot everything and let me down.
i told nothing.i did notind,........
what kind of change was it?
2006-11-28 01:23:12 · 14 answers · asked by nocturnalroar20 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a saying: "Don't make promises, just keep them."
It's silly for someone to say "I'll always be there, I'll love you forever." Unless they're a qualified psychic & can see into the future, they have no way of knowing what will happen, how they will feel or who they're going to be in a year, 10 years, 50 years. We are dynamic beings. We grow & change. Sometimes we grow apart. Look at the divorce rate. Sometimes you think you're perfect for each other, and maybe you are in the beginning but this changes over time & then you need to move on. Love is a gamble. It doesn't come with guarantees. I would rather someone not promise anything but stick around than someone promise the world & then not deliver. It's not that the person necessarily lied when they swore loyalty (though many people do lie). They may have meant it & believed it at the time. But this changed. Life & love are cruel, my friend.
Pick yourself up, dust yourself off & move on. Give yourself time to heal. Love yourself. No one can ever take that from you. & one day you'll find the right person & it won't end.
Look for someone who doesn't make promises, who just keeps them. Actions speak louder than words. Love takes work. It's a commitment to stay together day after day, through the years, even when it's not easy & you almost want to give up. Not everyone is strong enough to do that.
Let go. You will be ok.
Good luck. Take care.
2006-11-28 01:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you are hurting right now. There could be many reasons as to why her feelings have changed. It wasn't probably anything you did, people just fall out of love sometimes I know it hurts but that is the truth. You can look at it as it just wasn't meant to be and I know she hurt you but if it was meant to be she will come back. I really do wish you the best of luck.
2006-11-28 01:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Times bring about a change in peoples life's and so do promises that we make, nothing last forever, we just have to move on to the next phases of life as hard as it maybe..
2006-11-28 01:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, Your love wasn't in luv with u. I think she got bored of u and left u. Take it normally. Go on with your life and forget her. U can find somebody more faithful and loyal than her.
2006-11-28 01:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by || SMI || 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know to fall in love you must be ready to get hurt . That's the only answer and get a lesson from it.
2006-11-28 01:31:23 · answer #5 · answered by eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was no change am sure she just did not love you as much as u thought she did and she left.Sorry about that.
2006-11-28 01:30:08 · answer #6 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
promises are made to be broken. time changes, people changes.
there is nothing permanent in this world. move on and just live one day at a time.
2006-11-28 01:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only person who keeps their promise is God. For the others, promises anr made to be broke. I dont usually believe anything that someone promises me. They are usually lies.
2006-11-28 01:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by sweetre2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All is fair in love and war. You're just a casualty.
2006-11-28 01:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by tbonz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably met another guy with a 'fresh boyfriend smell'
sorry to hear that, but they'll be more.
2006-11-28 01:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Atousa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋