Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

how many of you dated a girl just long enough to get some and then ended it? and how many of you dumped a girl as soon as you realized ya werent gonna score?

2006-11-28 16:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

invite your ex to your wedding?
(you didn't have a bad break up and your ex wanted to go to your wedding)

2006-11-28 16:33:52 · 21 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Weddings

Alright I checked this one website and let me say it rocks.

www.gifts.com

Good luck with the xmas shopping!

2006-11-28 16:33:01 · 2 answers · asked by Hideo Okino 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single black Christian male looking for my soulmate. I'm 37 yrs. old 5'6" athletic built. I weigh a 144lbs., I'm a soccer player, and I'm looking for a nice looking woman between the age of 25 and 35. She must be athletic as well. My ideal mate would be 5'2" to 5'5" very loving and compassionate. Never been married, kids okay. I love kids. Race doesn't matter. E-mail me and lets talk. I'm in the Dallas area. Serious Inquiries Only. r.byoung@yahoo.com

2006-11-28 16:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by SimplyYoung 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is 15 years old and had sex and shes proud and shes like an alcoholic. do you agree shes being stupid and immature

2006-11-28 16:32:02 · 13 answers · asked by blahblah b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I believe I'm going to be telling my bf of 2 years that I no longer want to have s*x at all unless he's prepared to make sure we are BOTH satisfied. I'm so tired of having unsatisfying s*x where he's the only one who ends up being pleased. I'm tired of hearing "I'm sorry" and then he goes to sleep. And it's not like we go at it for hours. I'm lucky if I get 20 minutes of actual intercourse. Usually only 10-15 minutes. Sure there's foreplay, but it's all spent on him - he's got difficulty getting erections so I do all the work both manually & orally to get him aroused, then we go at it and he's been brought to climax & I'm left feeling WTF!!!

So guys - if your woman told you that she is not prepared to have s*x with you unless you were going to make sure she's pleased as well, would you agree with her or would you just quit having s*x altogether?

2006-11-28 16:31:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 16:31:27 · 38 answers · asked by College Gal21 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend. We had sex probably 4 or 5 times before our relationship collapsed. I never felt anything at all. He was pretty experienced and was decently sized. I never had a problem climaxing if he used his fingers (I would climax almost immediately and would feel pleasure the entire time), but oral and actual intercourse did absolutely nothing for me.

I've dated since then, but have not slept with anyone else, so I don't know if it was just him or if it's me. I have a feeling it's me.

Does anyone have any idea why this is? Anyone with similar experiences?

2006-11-28 16:31:08 · 20 answers · asked by It's Only Me 1 in Singles & Dating

"bringing love back for the new generations"
does this mean that this person is looking for new love or what?.,...lol

2006-11-28 16:31:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend just got the one of the lead roles in our musical production for next year, and i am trying really really hard to be happy for her, but all i ever am is jealous. i becme jealous of her singing talent (and of almost everything else about her, because shes almost perfect), and that makes me cry because i wish i was like her, but then i get even more upset because i know im being a horrible friend, and im so confused because i want to be happy but i cant seem to stop the jealousy from overpowering it...also, i think i might b a bit depressed, because i know i have a good life, but i always cry and get upset over nothing for no reason, and i dont know what to do, its making it really hard. i really need some help from anyone...

2006-11-28 16:29:58 · 9 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I currently live in Madison,Al. Where is a good place for me meet someone that is mature and ready to settle down. I don't want anyone from the clubs, because they are not looking for anyone serious. Sorry chocolate brothers, but I'm looking for white chocolate this time.

2006-11-28 16:29:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got this girl in my class, she is right next to me we have a class that 2.5 hrs. every 15 min. we star at each other's eyes for about 8 seconds but she doesn;t smile. I stare at her because I like her but I am not sure why she stares at me.

2006-11-28 16:28:54 · 15 answers · asked by AAYY 1 in Singles & Dating

How can I find someone that I have not seen in 46 years. I don't have the money to hire someone, I need to do this on my own.

Any advise from anyone is welcome.

2006-11-28 16:28:53 · 2 answers · asked by rosem_07663 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't believe this! I was just asking a question tonight about him and he found out! Now he says he is leaving me! I don't know what I should do? I Was told ealier tonight not to cry over any guy. but it is so hard. What should I do? I feel so alone.

2006-11-28 16:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by palestorm 1 in Singles & Dating

We party together often and we usually kiss, all in good fun, nothing serious. But last weekend we got really into it and she seemed to really go for it. Was this just because she was drinking or is she maybe into me?

2006-11-28 16:28:42 · 2 answers · asked by krystal_lynn_87 1 in Singles & Dating

I apoligize for going off on my last question, it was unproffesional. But ya'll really have no idea what we are going through over here in iraq, you don't see have the **** we go through just by watching the news...and personally i've had to do some things i'm not proud of but i've done what i've had to do to complete the mission and stay alive......-SPC Guerra, Military Police

2006-11-28 16:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

We've been married for only 2 years and have a 6 month baby.I don't understand why he doesn't notice me anymore.What can I do?I feel desperate.Any comments,anything

2006-11-28 16:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes another of these questions lol.

The situation:

My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 years. Recently he cheated on me with one of my friends who has been continually throwing herself at him. He says he's totally sorry, etc etc and wants to be back together.

I always thought, "once a cheater always a cheater" however now its happened to me and I love him so much even though he's done what he has.

He says he will do anything, he never loved her, doesn't know why he did it.

So my question is..... how do I deal with this? He is a great guy with a very kind heart, my best friend, and someone i thought I'd be with long term. Now although I want to get back together, I'm scared. I love him but i still have the pain. How can I work this out?

2006-11-28 16:26:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm 23 and finishing my last year of college. My boyfriend is caring and supportive and the best boyfriend that I've ever had, but he is 26, only works one day a week, and still lives at home. He doesn't seem to have any aspirations of a full-time job or of ever leaving his parent's house. He spends most of his time with his mother (lunch together, going to movies, watching tv, shopping, etc) when he's not with me or at work. When he stays with me on the weekends, he will talk to his mother/family on the phone 2 or 3, sometimes more, times a day. How do I tell him that I don't feel like I am as important to him as his family? How do I tell him that if we are going to have a serious relationship, he needs to take on more responsibility and start acting more mature?

2006-11-28 16:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by des07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering what the general census is...

2006-11-28 16:26:03 · 20 answers · asked by lynette g 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy i have been talking to talked on the Phone on sunday. It got pretty late and he told me to call him back monday,. i asked him if he was going to answer his phone and he said yes. so i called him and he didnt answer. but then he called me back in a couple of minutes. we talked for 4 minutes and he told me he would call me back becuz he was eating but he never called me back. I was very upset about that. but the next morning i sent him a text message and he said he aplogize for hurting my feelings and i felt better. so the question is should i call him tonight or did we talk enough this week???

and please dont write grow up or anything stupid i typed this fast and there may be a few typos but you can get the point need to know

2006-11-28 16:25:59 · 18 answers · asked by ReceCup1 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay I went out with this girl and we broke up becuz we both got more responsibilities ( job, school, ya kno). We are trying to start this relationship aain becuz of the troubles we had b4, i was first just friends wit her but it develop into more than that.I love her more than anyone i've ever met, im 18 y/o, and i've dated girls b4 and after her but NO ONE compares not even close. Is it wrong to wait for this girl and i to hav more of a closer relatiionship, what is the best thing i can do, I would do anything 4 her and her the same. Someone pleaz direct me to the right direction to go with this girl of mine?????

2006-11-28 16:25:36 · 10 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Singles & Dating

All right. There's a girl at school who I find attractive, and she's single. She and i have known each other for a while now and i want to get a relationship going, but i don't want it too serious, i feel i am too young to get into something long term. how exactly should i go about asking her out?


NOTE: I aint got a car and she lives in the middle of frickin nowehere

2006-11-28 16:24:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like my older brothers friend but latley i have also started liking my guy friend who is my age. I like them both just as much and i dunno what i should do

2006-11-28 16:24:16 · 4 answers · asked by caitlin g 1 in Singles & Dating

this already happened a few months ago, but im wondering what kind of advice yall would give me anyway.

i found a homecoming date for the dance and she was going to go with me, until my parents said no because she is black.
she is very cool person who i met at the dance the week before homecoming, and i was glad to finally have the chance to do something interesting on the weekends.

i argued with them over the next two days about it, finally gave up and obeyed.

since then i really havent talked to her because i decided afterward to just sorta let it fade away because it seemed pointless

now its faded and kinda too late anyway

looking back i wish i had disobeyed and picked her up and gone and had a good time anyway.

what would you have done?

2006-11-28 16:23:34 · 16 answers · asked by kitty is ANGRY!™ 5 in Singles & Dating

she doesn't mean to do it but it is starting to make people very angry.

2006-11-28 16:23:26 · 1 answers · asked by sweetheart 1 in Friends

Ok so i've been doing this for the past 3 months because my friend gave me this coin where it will tell you true or false and i was like huh it's just a quarter and for like a month it kept on giving me false (tails) and i've wanted a boyfriend for soooo long and i kept on saying this guy is going to my boyfriend but after a few days of giving up i said to myself no i'm not going to ask if lewis is going to be my boyfriend because he's the hottest guy in the school but i thought i'd try it anyway so i did and i got true and i did it again true and i did it so many times and kept on landing on heads!! Isn't this weird???

2006-11-28 16:22:21 · 16 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

my friends mother recently commited suicide however she was taken to the hospital fast enough that they saved her. her dad took cusotdy of her while her mother was in the hospital and she lives with him now and goes to school in a differnt city but now she dropped out and is going to be homeschooled b/c she doesnt like to be around people right now. i am supporting her so much but she doesnt ever say shes really sad or depressed hwoever i feel she is. please give me advice to what i can do or say or why shes acting like nothings wrong

2006-11-28 16:21:33 · 16 answers · asked by dancerbaby1111 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 16:21:28 · 18 answers · asked by daissy f 1 in Singles & Dating

going out a year and 3 months.. she likes romance, but is also very pro-women rights/equality, and is a bit of a hippy.. any creative ideas girls?

2006-11-28 16:21:09 · 13 answers · asked by burnaby_sk8rboy 2 in Singles & Dating