We've been married for only 2 years and have a 6 month baby.I don't understand why he doesn't notice me anymore.What can I do?I feel desperate.Any comments,anything
2006-11-28 16:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You could talk to him and tell him how you feel. Tell him how you feel that he doesn't notice you anymore and you would like more of his attention and love.
If you haven't started taking care of your appearance, do so. Many will say, "oh, that shouldn't matter" etc and it shouldn't. But that advice is usually from women that are alone.
Communication is important. The most important thing. But that responsibility is not only on you, but him also. Love your baby and your husband.
2006-11-28 16:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you. It's just a thing called real life. You are both worn out, overwhelmed, in a daze. That's what kids will do to your lifestyle. Don't be the baby in your house -- your wedding day is over, you are no longer the center of attention, the dating has stopped. Try dealing with the things that really matter in life. Don't be so pathetic. Being in control and liking yourself will make you more attractive, and then.......you know --
2006-11-29 01:01:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes there is an adjustment period with having a baby. One thing that needs to be in place is communication. Once that is open, then you can do little things that you did to get his attention before. Play games with him....not head games. While watching TV, jump on his lap and straddle him and give a big kiss. Just a little surprise. Just add a little spark. Let him know that you still want the husband.......not just the dad. Try a little zing.....experiment to get his attention.......games, clothing, sexual talking, talk about the times when you were going together.....good times, fun times
2006-11-29 00:40:14 · answer #3 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by getting a babysitter for the evening so homecoming doesn't feel like having a second job.
2006-11-29 00:32:35 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tee shirt, no panties and high heels....dance in front of the TV...I did it and my husband noticed me...he said move your *** so I can see the football game.
2006-11-29 00:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by vanna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself,he married to u cause he likes u and loves u
If he doesn't anymore,he is an *** but i am sure it isn't true
2006-11-29 00:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by food freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress up sexy, make the atmosphere erotic. Talk naughty to him, tease him, play with your body in front of him. Make him desperate to have you.
2006-11-29 00:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by hard_2forget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New clothes and a new scent.
2006-11-29 00:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Walter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear high heels and get naked.
2006-11-29 00:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress really sexy, show a little boobie,tease my hints,etc.
2006-11-29 00:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋