Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Ok girls (and guys), this is something that's been in the back of my head recently. I've been dating my girlfriend for 3 months and we're about to the point where we are going to begin sexual stuff. I think we both care about each other and we can talk about things fairly openly but I am unsure how to handle this. I am uncircumcised, and given that I live in the United States, I know I am in the minority. Should I tell her in advance that I am uncircumcised, or just let her find out when she sees it? I don't think she would like freak out or anything, but in the back of my mind I don't want her shocked either. How should I handle this?

2006-11-28 17:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by tyler w 1 in Singles & Dating

It keeps malfunctioning and shutting down, and I have a few internet stalkers that are getting angry about it.
What should I do?

2006-11-28 17:22:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 17:21:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got this girl in my class, she knows that I like her, she likes me too. she knows that I don't like her flirting with other guys in front of me or talk to me about guys, but that is what she does just to make me jealous.

2006-11-28 17:20:18 · 12 answers · asked by AAYY 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over two years. In our home it's my husband, and his parents. It's a big problem. I did not know before but my husband does not get along with his parents. Basically, they have no relationship. It started 2 years ago when they got into a fight and didn't talk to one another for 1 year. It took my in-laws 1 year to simply approach him and sit down and talk. When they did they just reminded him of what they've done for him. Forgetting that he has done so much for them too. It never got better and on top of that my MIL had the nerve to ask me to threaten my husband that I'm leaving if he doesn't talk to them. I hate her for this and our relationship went down hill from there. We live like strangers in the same house. It's uncomfortable and sometimes it really hurts. But I have realized that they are not very loving with us. They don't even say hi to us when we have come back from vacation. We need to get out but they can't survive without us! I can't do this anymo

2006-11-28 17:20:00 · 8 answers · asked by mindy25 1 in Marriage & Divorce

shes sends me one of those photo cards with her two kids printed with a generic HAPPY HOLIDAZE ....not signed, no note , nothing. Whats that supposed to mean? I exist but don;t matter? Should I send her a blank card back?

2006-11-28 17:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by Foss 4 in Singles & Dating

The guy that I have been dating (for only about four months...)made these statements to me:
"You're smart, beautiful and have a beautiful personality. Any man would want to love you for a long time." (After I said I was surprised that he said he loved me.)

After I told him about my new pet dog he said:
"You live in a zoo. I'm not going to live in a zoo."
(We don't live together and have never talked about it).

He also has made casual comments about if I want to have children one day, what I would want if I got married, etc....These comments are all kinda freaking me out because I don't feel like we've been dating that long...

What are everyone's thoughts on this? By the way, he's in his late 20s and I'm 24.

2006-11-28 17:19:52 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a bf and have been going together for 5 months. she 13 (so is he) and she already gave him a hj. should she slow down?
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2006-11-28 17:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by so_totally_awesome13 3 in Singles & Dating

ok i wrote one of these yesterday and asked for help about my best guy friend kissing me and i ask him yesterday if he would ever use me and he said " no. if so it would of been in the past.Aka never in the present" and i figured that meaned he used me for fun and is it ok to ignore him and hope he realizes what he is missing.. i honestly love this man more than anything but i want him to realize deep down he loves me thats why he kissed me

2006-11-28 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What qualities in a person are good for long term success in a relationship

2006-11-28 17:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by nitenite91 2 in Singles & Dating

I know doing this wrong, but this girl wanted to have s*x at my job and I didn't know if it was a good idea that I do that. I dont know why she couldn't wait...now she acts all mad at me.. Why is this ladies???

2006-11-28 17:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's a pastor.i wish to contact him via friendster.com but i can't find his identity on that site.

2006-11-28 17:18:38 · 2 answers · asked by myraritafelicidad 1 in Friends

i am very honest and i need a honest girl as a friend to share good things with her be it part of my life or my coming years things should be shared so that we should not have any communication gapshe should share things in my bad faze and in good also that is what i call friend ship if any one who feels that i am at best do feel free to call me on my cell 9837047479 or feel free to write me on my id nazimali1008@yahoo.co.in

2006-11-28 17:18:25 · 11 answers · asked by nazimali1008 1 in Singles & Dating

So i see my crush heading towards class to talk to the profesor. I was at the hallway talkiing to one of my classmates.
I then saw my crush exit the classroom and she walked by me. Now was this coincidence or do you think she purposely took the longer route so she could walk by me? I also noticed that she was looking at me when i was talking to one of my classmates, it was pretty obvious that she was scoping me out, she didn't look pleased.

2006-11-28 17:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Singles & Dating

everytime im with my mum she always say stuff that are really stupid i tell her to keep her mouth shut but she doesnt listen i just want 2 walk down da street with her and not let her say sumthin 2 sum1 i dunno how to explain to her without hurtin her feelings i have told her that she is embrassing but she didnt listen. man plz help me i wanna hav a good time with her but not have her embrasses me, i wanna b able 2 take her 2 partys and meet my mates and stuff.

2006-11-28 17:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me on our one month aniversary. She has a friend that did'nt like me. The next day she said that they were together. She also is showing signs of wanting me. I really love her but I don't want to get hurt anymore. What do I do?

2006-11-28 17:16:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anna L 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 4 year 1/2 by next year will complete 5 year of our marriage. I have never had sex with my husband cause he have no confident in him self and mostly of all no experience. He wants me to be the leader but I don't want to be. Should I just leave it that way or Pray to god for him to help me out? I love him dearly I can't live without him even though we have never had real sex (Mostly Oral). I am only desperate to know cause had always been trying to do something new but I end up fail or frustrated cause I am doing it all alone he only have time for football & work. But when we go somewhere he becomes different person very romantic person but when we are back home he become like cool hearted person why is it. When I come up & talk to him about it he listens and understand but next day he forgets all about it. I want him to read the books that really help us but he wouldn’t he would always fine excuse that the English is very hard for him.

2006-11-28 17:16:28 · 7 answers · asked by love_rescue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have very recently started dating my best friend. This is something that I have wanted for a long time and I find myself thinking that I love him and I know that it is far to early in the relationship for me to be thinking this. How can I tell if this is infatuation or really love.

2006-11-28 17:16:06 · 6 answers · asked by who said that? 6 in Singles & Dating

What do you think is the shortest amount of time a person needs to realize that they are in love???

2006-11-28 17:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by Manita 3 in Singles & Dating

hey humans, i want friends, to improve my english language, as my dad says i m a junk of english speaking, what say haaaaaaaan........ mayb voice chating on my mobile will be better................... so i want friend from pakistan (residents).... so continue...........

2006-11-28 17:15:16 · 3 answers · asked by jazz 1 in Friends

2006-11-28 17:14:34 · 31 answers · asked by smilingontime 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am pretty self concious about this, I was born with this thing in my teeth. The teeth on either side of my two upper front ones are shaped more like fangs, and are smaller or bigger then they are supposed to be... Would that make me unattractive? Oh, and btw, they are white, and straight except for those two...

2006-11-28 17:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Zach S 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my girlfriend are on a hiadeos (spelling?) right now but when we do get back together as i hope and return to intamacy, i'd like to be able to "make love" as corny as that sounds. she once said that all we really do is the "f" thing (not worded exactly, of course), but we really haven't "made love"? Is there really a difference?

2006-11-28 17:12:37 · 15 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3 in Singles & Dating

I went out with my husband and his friends the other night for some drinks at a local hangout. We all got pretty tipsy. I guess I was flirting pretty bad with one of his friends. I thought I was consoling his friend about his breakup with his girlfriend. His friend was feeling unattractive and lonely, so I was telling him that he's a good looking guy and I held his hand and listened attentively while he was telling me about the breakup.
The flirting got worse the more we drank. Nothing bad happened, but it left some weirdness in the air, especially because it was me doing all the flirting. My husband was upset after we got home that night, but he is kind of laughing it off now.
I don't want his friendship with this guy to go sour and I don't want my husband to think I'd stray from him. Other than apologising and never putting myself in that situation again, is there something else I should do or say to help things? or do I just let things be and hope it all goes away with time?

2006-11-28 17:11:54 · 22 answers · asked by MsLongBeach 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fav guy has the most symetrical features and the sexiest lips. I wondered if it was just me than was "into" lips.

2006-11-28 17:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

preferrably personalized items because i can't decide on what to give him. i don't feel like asking him what he needs because he doesn't like me buying anything in expense only for him.

2006-11-28 17:11:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how much wood could a wood chuck chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood?

2006-11-28 17:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 17:10:37 · 19 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got my pits waxed today and wondered about those women who leave their pits hairy.
To those women: Is there a particular reason that you like to have them that way.
To the men who have slept with them: I want to hear your hairy armpit stories...

2006-11-28 17:09:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has to pay rent in 2 days, should I help him out or ditch him?

2006-11-28 17:09:15 · 25 answers · asked by stella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships