Me and my girlfriend are on a hiadeos (spelling?) right now but when we do get back together as i hope and return to intamacy, i'd like to be able to "make love" as corny as that sounds. she once said that all we really do is the "f" thing (not worded exactly, of course), but we really haven't "made love"? Is there really a difference?
2006-11-28 17:12:37 · 15 answers · asked by donttrustsheep 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, no, kidding its done with love. i do love her. lots. i just want to make her feel it during intamacy too.
2006-11-28 17:20:11 · update #1
There is a huge difference. Attitude and feelings are the main difference. You can f anyone but you can only truly make love to someone you really love and care about.
2006-11-28 17:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by J T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there absolutely is. F-in is just the process to procreate, or release stress. Making love is about touch, teasing, intimacy, and connecting on the deepest level. It is very slow and passionate and should take as long as possible, it is soulful and wonderful. If you and your girlfriend haven't done this yet, it may be the cause of her wanting to take a break.... It should be done on a day after talking for hours, because it also is about communication, then a nice long massage, to release the stress. Then you can truly; make love.
2006-11-29 01:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I just want the f thing with out having to feel obligated to be held. Sometimes I say " is that enough of holding you cause I wanna go to sleep now". I am actually a woman but I've been told I'm sometimes more like a male. Probably because I grew up with male cousins. Yeah there is a difference. My boyfriend would always come visit but after awhile I told him I felt like I was his booty call. now he lives with me.
2006-11-29 01:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by already_enuff_spice_in_this 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The times my girlfreind and I have realy good sex, that last a long time and invovles lots of forplay, i think of it as love, and the times we just pound out a quicky, i think of its a f'ing. I would say if you make it romantic, and emotionaly intamit ans well as physically then its can be called makeing love.
2006-11-29 01:18:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dave H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the former is done with mutual love and understanding & the later is a mechanical way of sexual activity which also gives pleasure.
2006-11-29 01:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask your girlfriend what you do would make her feel loved in "f...". Making love is when both party feel loved and want to be one, not just getting orgasm. The latter is just doing the "f" thing.
2006-11-29 01:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by ele81946 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to make her feel really special, it sounds like you get all the attention, try giving her heaps!
Its about giving not taking!
2006-11-29 01:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by adnie25 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Making love is when you do it to someone whom you love and just doing the thing is doing it with someone who just wants fun.
2006-11-29 01:15:30 · answer #8 · answered by mared 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I dont get your question. But if you want to have sex do it cause u love her not casue u feel hot in the pants.
2006-11-29 01:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by twilight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
making love is when u feel the connection between u and her. f*ing is just for fun not love.
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2006-11-29 01:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋