ok i wrote one of these yesterday and asked for help about my best guy friend kissing me and i ask him yesterday if he would ever use me and he said " no. if so it would of been in the past.Aka never in the present" and i figured that meaned he used me for fun and is it ok to ignore him and hope he realizes what he is missing.. i honestly love this man more than anything but i want him to realize deep down he loves me thats why he kissed me
2006-11-28 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok.. my best friend kissed me and fingered me and then the next day he said that it shouldnt of happened that he wasnt himself and that he was sorry... and he knows i love him ive told him before and he said he liked me as a friend but that was a while ago and then he kissed me the other night and well u kno wat i just said... and well i asked him the other night if he would ever use me and he said " no. if so it would of been in the past never in the present" and to him the past was 5 mins ago.. but idk
2006-11-28 17:29:33 · update #1
girls...girls....girls...Why do you ask questions like? would you ever use me?...Will you always be faithfull to me?....Do I look fat in this dress?...These questions are drenched in insecurity...Us guys dont know how to fix your insecurity...I think we would much rather have you just ask us.."hey can you put down the remote and give me a hug...Im feeling insecure." Puting guys on the spot, just make us feel uncomfortable. Your friend obviously has feeling for you...He is having trouble defining these feelings...let your relationship just go on its own..and see what happens...dont force anything on him...he will just rebel like he did...And I dont think he ever used you...he just said that instead of " Hey back off.. your insecurity is backing me into a corner..just relax!"
2006-11-28 17:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by chris f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to try believing that he also loves you... Enjoy this moment as if you were dreaming... but be ready when the time comes that he will tell you that he never loves you and he just also dreaming like you... but what if its true! then at least you tried... loving sometimes makes us believe things, like a fairy tale of life ... just be happy OK
2006-11-29 01:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by maretsdb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW you are scattered. You need to take a huge step back , relax take a deep breathe , collect your thoughts , organize and redo your question.
2006-11-29 01:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just time pass, be careful.
2006-11-29 01:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by bhagchand m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt love u then he doesnt only him and himself can change that
2006-11-29 01:23:55 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why else do you think he kissed you, because its cold outside?
2006-11-29 01:25:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not making any sense.
2006-11-29 01:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt love u. he doesnt.
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2006-11-29 01:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by so_totally_awesome13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋