Family & Relationships - 28 November 2006

Hello, my wife, Carla, now spends over 90% of her time on the Internet. We have an 8-year-old daughter and I am the only parent that seems to be taking her out and spending time with our little girl. My wife used to be such a part of this. My wife now spends way too much time on the Internet. This Internet habit has withdrew her from our family. I have got to break her of this habit. What should I do? Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 17:07:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i m 6 1 tall, average built ,20 yrs old , working n studying, so wanna know me better

2006-11-28 17:07:27 · 1 answers · asked by john 1 in Singles & Dating

I heard this kind of advice over and over again. Is it true? I have my doubts. I'm asking because I am attracted to shy men, and I am curious about how to approach them without being pushy or aggressive. Shy men will ask eventually if they're really interested?

2006-11-28 17:07:17 · 20 answers · asked by dkuddle 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year and he doesnt know he was my "first" (there is a longer story behind how our relationship got start but it doesnt really matter)-i did tell him i was with one other guy before him because at the time for some reason i didnt want him to know that he was my first, i feel bad for lying and dont know what i should do- should i tell him now or not tell him at all - i dont want him to be upset with me for not tell him...what should i do

2006-11-28 17:06:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey i just started my period to day and i'm due to see my boyfriend 2morrow. What excuse can i give him besides that i am on my period an d i can't see you. Please tell me the most believable excuse i could tell him ?

2006-11-28 17:06:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my hubby working oversea for a long period and my children got to study in local school. is very hard decision to make whether to stay with my hubby or my children as both side i will miss very much. i feel very depress over this matter, when i am with my children people will advise me to stay with hubby as they said he will go stray and when i stay with my hubby my relative will say my children will not hv good bond with me. what will u do if u are in my shoes

2006-11-28 17:05:02 · 15 answers · asked by kitty katty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister, 17, has been seeing her boyfriend, 22, since she was 15 years old. I'm her oldest brother, 25. I used to intimidate this guy and threatened to kick his ***. Never actually did --cause violence doesn't answer anything, and as it turns out neither does intimidation.

I'm currently going to college and living at home. I see this man at my house everyday. For several months I've been catching them lying in the same couch at night time, which my parents forbid but don't enforce.

I'd like to know about what I can do to get this man out, because my parents like having him pay rent.

What should I do?

2006-11-28 17:04:49 · 22 answers · asked by Salvador G 1 in Family

Heres the story(4weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil

2006-11-28 17:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex and i had an intense make out session at the park...then his friend told him that she would tell his gf that we were making out. his friend said that she was the only other girl he could look at besides his gf...b/c w/e they have doesn't matter its all pretend. then when i told him that what we had didn't matter as much to me as it did him he got really mad.after skool i have ot see him at drama rehersal..he arranged all the stuff animals to look like they are giving each other oral, then he always tries to get me jealous, uses sexual references when im around and the his friend always has to bring up his gf whenever i walk by "how's your gf?" "awww!!1 how sweet that you two are going to go to the same colege together"

i dont understand why they are teaming up on me...i realize that he is my ex and she is my ex best friend..ehy is he mad if he rejected me b/c after he slept with his gf he relaized thst he loved her..so i left & now he watched me every where i go &follows me ..

2006-11-28 17:04:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am torn between two color schemes for my June wedding. My fiance and I both love red - but we can't decide between using red, pink, and brown or red, orange, and yellow. What would you choose?

2006-11-28 17:04:16 · 18 answers · asked by bustylaroo99 4 in Weddings

both we are married .. one day we chit chat thru phone and i expressed my true feeling that i am like and in love with her .. i visited her house the same night to get something from her mother .. when she saw me she was embarrassed to look straight on me .. what is her feel actually ?

2006-11-28 17:03:47 · 5 answers · asked by alanlee011 1 in Marriage & Divorce

K.... so this sound SO immature and i know it does but i really don't know! K... i'm 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we have been going out for about 3 months. He is my first boyfriend and i haven't ever been kissed. He tried a couple of times but i wouldn't let him. So a couple of weeks ago we had our first kiss. After that it wasn't so intimidating. We went to a friends party last night and started making out... i ended ontop of him and we just kept on making out.... so this sounds really dumb but do you think we were moving to fast??

2006-11-28 17:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is true love, care, desires and passion possible with opposite sex online internet relationship when you are at long distance of one part to other part of the world?

2006-11-28 17:01:53 · 13 answers · asked by aramaiya 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How does it goes?? Are Danish guys a good husband material?? What are their good & bad traits??

2006-11-28 17:01:30 · 3 answers · asked by Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just wondering if that makes me grotesque...I have never been this heavy before...Most of it is in my behind and thighs...But I am not flabby. So, guys this self conscious chick needs a couple opinions

2006-11-28 17:01:20 · 22 answers · asked by stella 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible for a 17 year old guy to love and have a relationship with a 22 year old woman?

2006-11-28 17:01:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am 19 and I have trouble with men. I like older men and am also sober for 3 years so don't like young men who drink and do drugs. I am mature for my age, work full time and think I am smart.

I have trouble with relationships. It is hard for me to commit to somebody. I crave for them to tell me they love me. I like to hurt men and make them feel bad. I cheat on them and play mind games. It depresses me that I can't have a normal relationship with a man. My best friend thinks it's because I had a very dysfunctional and abusive relationship with my father when I was a child.

I like two different men a lot. I know they like me a lot but I have cheated on them with eachother and told them. I know I can have them both any time I want, dont tell me I cant. I am told Im very beautiful. For some sick reason I like hurting them. I want to hurt them more but I want them to tell me they love me too. I know it is so perverse and demented don't bother telling me that. Whats wrong?

2006-11-28 17:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by catanomicsunset 1 in Singles & Dating

Name 3 things you would do with it.

2006-11-28 17:00:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's stressng me out she has threatened me a few days about anything about it's her house etc.... any info on what to do please?? can some one help please???

2006-11-28 17:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by andy bregeile 2 in Family

HEY a chance for girls to date a hansome hunk

2006-11-28 16:59:42 · 14 answers · asked by john 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 16:59:19 · 18 answers · asked by juss_qurious 1 in Weddings

I have a slight problem..there is a guy that i have been friends with since high school and we lost contact for over 4 years but now we met up again by coincidence and we have been casually seeing each other (friends with benefits) and before we started seeing each other we both agreed it would remain friends only and now he is wanting more (a r/ship) with me even though he knows i don't feel the same.How can i possibly let him down gently without hurting his feelings and remaining friends? (We are in our mid twenties.)

2006-11-28 16:58:47 · 12 answers · asked by Jonte` 1 in Singles & Dating

not saying i have one, just wondering.

2006-11-28 16:58:16 · 10 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

i knew this girl about 6 months .. she is married 43 and i am married 37 .. she called me once a week for friends gathering together with her husband .. is she interested in me ?

2006-11-28 16:57:54 · 6 answers · asked by alanlee011 1 in Singles & Dating

All right, this may just sound like i want a booty call, but do you think it's wrong that i don't want to be in a serious relationship with a girl at school i like, but would still like to get some action.

2006-11-28 16:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 16:55:27 · 10 answers · asked by luke c 1 in Singles & Dating

I wouldn't think that they would, since guys are more likely to get teased by their friends than girls, but a few people tell me that they do.

I'm wondering because recently when I was around both the guy I like and a friend of his, his friend kept teasing me and saying that I'm not being nice to the guy I like, I'm hurting his feelings, etc. The guy I like looked kinda annoyed, and he kept shifting around while the guy was doing it, but he didn't tell him to shut up. I asked him what the guy was talking about, and he said he didn't know and shot the other guy a look.

But then, once all that stopped, they acted like nothing had happened and they were cool with each other again. What gives? Did he tell the other guy he likes me, or is the other guy just a total weirdo?

2006-11-28 16:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy on and off for a really long time and over the summer we had this really nasty break up. And well, recently, we just started talking again but I was just picking the last couple pieces of my heart up when he came back and now I'm lost. He's the only person that can make me blush, smile, giggle, nervous and feel loved all at the same time. He makes me feel like the most important person in the world and I really want to tell him that when I said I'd love him forever I really meant it. I want to tell him that I'm still madly in love with him but I'm not sure it's the right move. Any suggestions?

2006-11-28 16:54:09 · 14 answers · asked by silence_within_chaos 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-28 16:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by alanlee011 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do of your girlfriend had a guy friend that she would mention and make reference to quite often? If she told you that she liked him before she got together with you but then realised they wouldn't work but then became close friends with him and got together with you shortly afterwards? How would you feel if you shared a laugh and she would text him to share the joke with him too? Or is she wasn't feeling that great and she speaks to him too? I'm just trying to get a male perspective on all this. Would you try to get him to feature less in her life, bearing in mind the frienship is only four months old, could it subside by itself? would you grin and bear it?

2006-11-28 16:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating