everytime im with my mum she always say stuff that are really stupid i tell her to keep her mouth shut but she doesnt listen i just want 2 walk down da street with her and not let her say sumthin 2 sum1 i dunno how to explain to her without hurtin her feelings i have told her that she is embrassing but she didnt listen. man plz help me i wanna hav a good time with her but not have her embrasses me, i wanna b able 2 take her 2 partys and meet my mates and stuff.
2006-11-28 17:16:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she does it purposely thats the thing
2006-11-28 17:31:15 · update #1
They lack a critical enzyme that prevents them from saying all that embarrassing stuff
2006-11-28 17:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here it is, I was on your side, until I became a mom. Now I am the mom, and I know I will drive my daughter crazy. Luckily she is only 2 years old right now. Its this thing, that when you become a mom, you are given this wierd maternal thing, and you cant help it but be a mom. I think you should be honest with her. Just be nice about it, let her know that you love her, and that she means alot to you, but then let her know that she is driving you nuts by doing these things, be very specific. It will hurt her feelings, but then she will get over it, and hopefully understand what it took for you to say all this,and improve. But it also might just hurt her feelings. So be very carefully with what you say,and how you say it. Good Luck.
2006-11-29 01:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by Rupi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All young people are embarrassed by their parents from time to time and I doubt there's anything you can do to change it if you've talked honestly to her already. It's really nice that you want to party with her but unless your older than I think you are you shouldn't be parting with your Mom, your tastes and likes are bound to be very different. You Mom is supposed to be a mature adult and an adult has no business hanging around a bunch of kids. My daughter and I are very close and I would never consider parting with her or allowing her to go out with me and my friends. You can and should be friends with your Mom but there are limits as to what you should do together. Can you imagine you Mom getting tipsy and coming on to one of the guys you hang out with, now that would be embarrassing!
2006-11-29 01:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mum does that too...She just happens to say what comes to her mind at the moment without considering. Can be embarassing. I explained to my mum why we shouldn't say stuff which are not appropriate at times.. But then again I also know its her nature to blurt out stuff without keeping anything in heart. Perhaps you can sit down with her and tell her things nicely.. Put it to her why you find it embarassing as well and most importantly be patient. Am sure your mum will understand over time.
2006-11-29 01:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every mom is like this. What I would personally do is look to your mom straight in the eye with a searious face. Tell her how you feel about her talking about you. If she really loves you, she will stop =) well hopefully. Just ask her to stop.
2006-11-29 01:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom has embarrassed me on numerous occasions. it's okay though, i now embarrass my own children without meaning to. your mom probably doesn't mean to be embarrassing to you, why would she do that on purpose? cut her some slack, keep inviting her to go with you when you can, but encourage her to have her own friends and interests as well. maybe you can hang out with her and some of her friends and see if you can't embarrass her right back if that would make you fee better.
2006-11-29 01:23:02 · answer #6 · answered by iwondersoiask 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she is just being herself. And it is really too bad that you can not even allow her her own individuality just because its getting in the way of your fake facade. People don't have to do whatever it is that makes you happy!
2006-11-29 01:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by k_ahhhhhs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? Most mothers just wants the best for their children, stop worrying what other people think and enjoy spending time with her!
2006-11-29 01:22:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jaqie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think how embarrassing you were with your stinking diapers and loud crying. Your mother deserves your respect. She took care of you and she will always be there if you need her.
2006-11-29 01:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you care to much about what other people think? Is your mom happy? then you should be and never tell her to shut up that is just disrespectful.
2006-11-29 01:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋