He has to pay rent in 2 days, should I help him out or ditch him?
2006-11-28 17:09:15 · 25 answers · asked by stella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is one of those times that he needs to be taught a painful lesson
2006-11-28 17:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. Ditch him now!
If he's that irresponsible with money now, imagine what he's going to be like if you marry him!
Also, If he's with you, he shouldn't be going out to strip clubs.(unless it's a bachelor party or something). That's just down right disrespectful to you.
As for gambling in general. It's ok as long as it's done in extreme moderation, and you don't bet the farm or rent money on it. When I lived in Ohio, I would travel to Windsor, Canada (This was before the Detroit casinos opened up) to gamble once every 6-8 months. And even then I would only blow like $200 before heading out to the mall in Windsor and blow more money shopping. lol
Ahhh... them were the fun days! I miss them. I don't do that anymore and I haven't gambled since then.
2006-11-28 17:19:50 · answer #2 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. You will not get the money back. He definitely has a problem. I don't think there is anything wrong with going to strip clubs or gambling but if he cannot make his financial obligations first then he has a problem.
2006-11-28 17:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by whowhat? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ditch him, EXCEPT on the off chance that you happened to be the receiver of this $400, in that case, I would help him.
2006-11-28 17:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch.
2006-11-28 17:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Atheist Conspirator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out. And Fast, before it is too late!
Do you want to always uncertain of whether there will be milk and diapers? after his irresponsible spending sprees?
And what was he doing in astrip club? TOTALLY NOT COOL! Unless you were with him.
If you were by his side, at the casino, then help him with the rent. If he did it on his on,...... then let him deal with it on his own.
good luck
2006-11-28 18:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Mikez Bad Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not help him. Hes a man, let him deal with the consequences. Some guys will just end up taking advantage of your offer and then do the same thing all over again. Let it be a learning experience for him. And dont let him move in with you either.
2006-11-28 17:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I feel the need to play Devil's Advocate on this one.
If you'd tended his needs in the bedroom in the first place, he never would have had need to go to the strip club. You owe it to him to help him halfway, the other half is most definitely his fault. No woman can drive a man to gamble unless its strip poker.
2006-11-28 17:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by Takfam 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ditch him!
You can live with me!
I'm rich and 2 inches tall!
All you have to do is have sex with me!
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2006-12-01 05:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.John Smith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guy...ditch him. If he has to gawk at other women then he mustn't think you're not good enough to look at. Don't waste your money.
2006-11-28 17:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by redcoat7121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋