Me and this guy i have been talking to talked on the Phone on sunday. It got pretty late and he told me to call him back monday,. i asked him if he was going to answer his phone and he said yes. so i called him and he didnt answer. but then he called me back in a couple of minutes. we talked for 4 minutes and he told me he would call me back becuz he was eating but he never called me back. I was very upset about that. but the next morning i sent him a text message and he said he aplogize for hurting my feelings and i felt better. so the question is should i call him tonight or did we talk enough this week???
and please dont write grow up or anything stupid i typed this fast and there may be a few typos but you can get the point need to know
2006-11-28 16:25:59 · 18 answers · asked by ReceCup1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him call you. Give him space and an opportunity to miss you. Otherwise, you'll come off as needy.
2006-11-28 16:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? First you must learn to never show the opposite sex that you are desperate. I think you are showing him that you have too much time on your hands , by calling him a lot. Sometimes make yourself unavailable to him. Make him look forward to hearing from you not you always you calling him . Just back off a little and let him run behind you . Talk with others on the phone also and when he calls say you are busy and will call him back at your convenience
2006-11-29 00:33:48 · answer #2 · answered by carmexornothing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't call him. You sound a little overly sensitive. People are pretty active these days and it is hard to get to talk to everyone you want to all of the time. Seems to me he obviously knows your interested since you called him. Since he called you back, he responded. He apologized. Ya' gotta cut guys a break. High maintenance girls drop others energy levels. Don't let yourself look desperate. If he wants to talk to you, he will call you. If he does not then, chalk him up as not interested. There are many fish in the sea. But if you really can't take it, wait a couple of days and say, "hey."
2006-11-29 00:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by ambriannaone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't take much to use spell check............
How old are you? Very young I am assuming. DON'T you DARE call him. He shut you down twice. Just ignore him. Guys hate it when girls chase them. It makes them very nervous. It also makes them run away and hide on you.
I KNOW you won't do this, but IF (and that is a big IF) he calls you, play his game. Tell him you are doing something and you will call him back. Then call him back, but not until the next day.
Some people will tell you not to play games. With guys you have to play games. They don't mature too fast. If you don't go along and learn how to play them, you will lose every time..........
2006-11-29 00:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just my opinion but I think you should give him a chance to call you. If he doesn't call maybe he's just not interested. At any rate, if you keep calling him so much you'll never really get the chance to find out.
2006-11-29 00:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you could call him. Some guys don't initiate phone calls as much as we would like them to. I would call him and if he seems happy to talk to you then you will know. If he seems irritated that you called then I would probably wait next time until he called me back.
Good Luck!
2006-11-29 00:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by kaleigh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a few days then call him and ask how his day was. Keep the conversation short and sweet. Tell him it's his turn to call you next.Then wait and see if he does. Either way you will know if he wants to talk or if he is just too polite to tell you.
2006-11-29 00:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats a judgement call you need to make yourself. he doesnt seem very reliable, so if he says hell call you back dont expect too much. why dont you try waiting a few days? if hes really interested hell call you at some point. if you call him all the time, he doesnt get the chance to show you that (plus, youll have more to talk about when/if he calls)
2006-11-29 00:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by stephie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let him make the next move. Don't call him again unless you are sure he will answer.
If he's leading you on no good will come from your being too eager.
btw, I wish more of the women I'd dated were as interested as you are. I might have stayed single.
2006-11-29 00:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Let him call you or you will look desperate. Give them a chance to pursue you and not the other way around. If he does not call you then he is not for you.
2006-11-29 00:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by observer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋