invite your ex to your wedding?
(you didn't have a bad break up and your ex wanted to go to your wedding)
2006-11-28 16:33:52 · 21 answers · asked by hhfe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i meant ex boyfriend
2006-11-28 16:38:14 · update #1
Yea why not , so he can see that the men you've choosen is better than him , make sure no more feelings from ur ex. otherwise it will mess up.
2006-11-28 20:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gut says no but I invited an ex and a former **** buddy to mine...only bc they were my very best friends and my husband agreed. Had he had any problem whatsoever, they'd not have been included on the guest list.
2006-11-29 00:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if were your husband to be, i wouldn't want to see any of your ex-boyfriends in our weddings. I wouldn't say it and even probably agree with you on inviting them, but i still wouldn't want it.
so, its a big no..
2006-11-29 00:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Taran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both are still good friends, and ONLY good friends, then why not? but the first thing you need to do is tell your husband-to-be. make sure he understands you and this ex are no longer together and all of those emotions and feelings from before are totally gone. then if ur h-t-b is fine with it, go ahead.
2006-11-29 00:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Suki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how the fiance feels. I am on good terms with my ex but I would definately consider my future husband's feelings.
2006-11-29 01:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by bustylaroo99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it would depend on the response of your new bride. If she/he is totally OK with it, then I suppose it is between the two of you. Your main goal is to maintain an honest and open relationship with your fiance. Not your past.
Hope this helps. Honesty is the best policy.
Jen
2006-11-29 00:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by smilinlikecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on my future spouse. I don't really keep in close contact with my ex's like that anyway. If my future honey had any problems with it I wouldn't.
2006-11-29 00:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by giya_98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would discuss it with your soon to be spouse they may be uncomfortable with having them there. But over all if you two are still friends and not carring a torch for the other I dont see a problem.
2006-11-29 00:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by d2347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex b/f or husband? I don't know...probably not. If it were a husband though and there were children between the 2 or you then I'd encourage him to come.
2006-11-29 00:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by butterflylover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... I would not want to make your future in-laws to think that you still have feeling for your ex. That move would make people talk.
2006-11-29 10:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kristi K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋