I can't believe this! I was just asking a question tonight about him and he found out! Now he says he is leaving me! I don't know what I should do? I Was told ealier tonight not to cry over any guy. but it is so hard. What should I do? I feel so alone.
2006-11-28 16:28:44 · 8 answers · asked by palestorm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to see if he will commuicate with you. If he isn't will to at least listen to you or try to work it out then he isn't woth having. One of the key things in a realationship is communication as well as compromise. If he can't give you that then you need to let go. I know it will be hard. Breakups always are. But just remember there are other fish in the sea. You need someone who will respect you as well as be able to compromise and communicate.
2006-11-28 16:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by lita ozzy bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pale: There is really nothing you can do and this time. You can not undo the past. Look at it this way. If he "drops" you for just posing a question about him then, there was really, no potential for this relationship to grow and thrive anyways. You went steady with him and he wasn't interested in you to the degree you thought he was. Might I suggest is that you take your time before committing to a guy. You would be much better off going out with different guys (play the field) to find the "Mr. Right" for you. Remember; any guy can SAY he loves you but BEING in love with you is a different matter. Good luck to you "pale" !!!
2006-11-29 00:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he broke up wtih you cause you were asking a question about sexual house then he's a loser. why would he get mad over that? maybe hes tryogn to hide somethign. it is a very omprtant thing to be concerned abotu when with a new partner. you and anyone your with should not be hesitated to get checked out. him gettign mad at this is just showing that he is very immature and that you deserve someone better to use a simple question as an excuse to leave a realtionship...............what was the real problem? you can alwasy try to sit down and talk to him abotu ti (and apologize for askign a question abotu you, even thogh its a silly thing to do) try talkign to him/ it takes 2 to make realtionship work. i hope things get better and you feel better.
p.s. cry if you want to! i cried over my bf when he's broken up with me a few times, every girl does!
good luck!
2006-11-29 00:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's going to do that then let him. Tell him the next time he calls "you just became another number to me and you can be replace and for all you know you've been replace."
And see if that wont hurt him.But I bet he'll come crawling back to you. Just show him that you DONT care.
2006-11-29 02:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are so sorry and that you love him. You can cry over a guy...I know I have!
Send him a gift with a i'm sorry card.
I just saw your other question and If he has a STD. Then Don't call him or date him anymore!!!! If he doesn't then get him tested and make sure he wears a condom.....better safe then sorry
2006-11-29 00:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by D'reux 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is right for you he will come around, no one on yahoo knows who he is so he should not feel embarrassed. We all have cried over someone and then got over it. Keep your self occupied and busy
2006-11-29 00:46:00 · answer #6 · answered by carmexornothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just explain to him that you are sorry and you did not mean to upset him, however if he acts like a jerk towards you after you apologize then I would just give him some space and see what he does then,
Good Luck!
2006-11-29 00:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by kaleigh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He'll come back, I promise, until then, ignore him totally. Don't call him or go to his place, just hang out with friends(girls) and look like you could'nt care less. He'll come back, they always do when they think you're doing fine without him
2006-11-29 00:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋