If a guy says he will call you back but doesn't what does it mean?

Answer 1

It means he's not interested. It also means he's not worth your time. Move on.

Answer 2

well, there are many reasons that I have discovered as to why a guy doesn't call. If it is reasonable amount of time, like a few hours or a day, it is quite possible that he is busy. (I have discovered that men can not multi-task... we, as women, can wash the dishes, cook a meal, fold laundry and still talk on the phone to the person that we are interested in... men can't.) If it is a couple of days and he hasn't called, maybe he is playing a 'game' and wants your suspense to build up. This is never really a good idea. And finally, if he makes you wait a week, then sweetie, he probably isn't interested. Chalk it up to a learning experience. Write nasty things about him in your journal. Or heck, invite your girlfriends over, break out the vienna sausages and host an 'itty-bitty weenie roast' in his honor. But whatever you do, don't blame yourself! He isn't worth it.

Good luck!

Answer 3

It could mean a couple of things:
1) He was being nice to you, but didn't really want to go out with you again.

2) He likes you, but got the feeling that you weren't that interested in him, so he doesn't call you again.

3) He may have become super busy, and hasn't had a chance to call you, yet.

Since this is multiple choice, choose the one in the middle.

Thanks, for the two points.

Answer 4

Some guys for some odd reason say this then if they like you they normally call on the 3rd day..if he has not called by then he is not interested and just said he would call to be nice..

Answer 5

Unless this guy has a real traumatic, Organic or short term amnesia, your in Big trouble. He's showing you lack of interest. If a guy says, "I'll call you" and doesnt call, he literally means "I'm just a nice guy, and I dont want to hurt you... so instead, I'll say 'I'll call you' just for you to think that I'm not really interested." Sound like a big Ouch for you, but this is true, swear. He's just nice to you and dont want to verbally say his total lack of interest. It's up to you to understand this man, but this is true, because I always do this whenever I feel a needy woman who want to catch my attention always.

Answer 6

it could be a number of things. he could be out shopping , gone fishing ,playing the field ,ect. do you suppose he could be shopping for you? a family member? how about visiting a friend@the hospital, jail house, or out of town doing what he wants an just hangin loose some where. loosin up he could be sleeping , working, or studing. he said he'd call than let him call when he is able or you will loose him! i know been there done that one to many times and lost the best thing in my life.

Answer 7

It means he is a guy. They do that. Get used to it. Call him if you want.

Answer 8

Depends on the situation. Guys forget to do stuff and lose numbers all the time (and then some are too afraid to ask again). Depends how long ou talked to him, how recently, what you talked about, who gave who the number first, etc...

Answer 9

He is either putting you on or has a short memory. We old country codgers call it (sometimers disease) some times he remembers and sometimes he don't. Seriously though he sounds like a person who cant be trusted.

Answer 10

DUH! what do you think it means.
It means you are not at the top of his list of things to do and people to please.
He was just trying to be 'nice' and get out of a social setting without being rude.
He has a life and has OTHER THINGS to do with his time.
You need to get an interesting life so you aren't all boring waiting for him to call.

Answer 11

It could mean a number of things but I would go for either he forgot or he found someone he likes more.