My boyfriend would rather me play with myself, get myself aroused, and call him in when I'm ready, rather than have to be patient enough or DESIROUS- to arouse me himself. He is definately interested in himself getting off. He believes "making out" is for kids, not 30 somethings. I am getting tired of feeling sexually frustrated and undesirable, and thoughts of previous satisfying relationships are encroaching. I love him, but when I think about a lifetime of unsatisfying sex, I feel like running. I think he may be accustomed to women either throwing themselves at him, faking, or both. Help!
Update: We have been together 18 mos. and there was no foreplay in the beginning either. Also, conversation about what turns him on is non-existant. Talk dirty is the only thing he'll say, and he sure hasn't asked me, I think he's afraid of the answer!
2006-11-27
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