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2006-11-27 11:35:53 · 17 answers · asked by Nicole W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not just bad, but it's outright betrayal. Let's forget for a moment that this ex-boyfriend will see you as another "trophy", If this girl is really your friend you should realize that if you date, or, DO this ex, you will lose this friend. To have a friend is to BE a friend. Tell her ex that you're not interested. Even if you are, you must allow time for your friend to heal from this broken relationship. After time passes, and if you are still interested in her ex, confide in your friend before dating him. Simply state that her ex-boyfriend has asked you out, and you want her opinion before answering him. That will keep the trust and bond that's needed in a friendship. Good luck, I hope this advice helps.
2006-11-27 12:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats pretty bad. I mean don't girls have like a rule that says you can't go out with your best friend's ex because when the boy breks up with them then he breaks up with you too.
2006-11-27 11:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by Being Myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, its very bad. Most boys do this to make a point to the ex that they can have her cheap and easy girlfriend too.
2006-11-27 11:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask her if she minds if you start dating her ex-boyfriend. if she does, then don't do it. If she doesn't then go right at it! If you want to be mean, then don't ask her at all. But it would be better if you ask her. That is what a Nice friend does.
2006-11-27 12:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only create tension between you and her. Besides, there are literally BILLIONS of guys in the world (of course not all in your age range) and it kind of means that you are shallow and not able to get something else.
2006-11-27 11:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. gotta tell ya the truth. Unless it has been a couple of months or if they only dated for maybe a week or so,,, and depends how mad she is of course
2006-11-27 11:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by May 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,i hope it was worth it because nine times out of ten she going to be mad especially if she likes him still.boys come and go but friends are the is until the end.
2006-11-27 11:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, it's bad. Have some loyalty to your friend and pick a different guy.
2006-11-27 11:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by steve d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you even ask that question? If you were really this person's "friend", you wouldn't have even considered it. You were selfish and only thinking of yourself. Your "friend" deserves better!
2006-11-27 11:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. whoever is going out w/ there friends ex is a not a true friend. also i can describe this some1 in your love affairs is desperate.
2006-11-27 11:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋