Me and my boy of 2 1/2 year are takeing a "brake" to figure out stuff and find out who we are separetly... Soon as we started takeing a brake, my boyfriend started being really sweet and acted like we were still together, calling my baby and what not...It seems like he still want to be with me so why r we takeing a brake? He is my best friend and my lover... This is so painful...
2006-11-27 11:33:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Sounds like it didn't take him long to figure stuff out and find out who he is and what he wants.
Appears what he wants is you.
If you will excuse me for saying so, I am more than a little confused as to why it is painful, unless you are the one who wants to figure out stuff and find out who you are and what you want.
Darryl S.
2006-11-27 11:42:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you're going through that. it sounds hard. i dont know under what circumstances you two decided to take a break but i think that after all that time together, you should know who you are as a couple and you shouldnt have to be separated to know who you are as a person. you should feel comfortable and free enough in the relationship to express yourself and explore your personality as an individual. maybe now he;s being and sweet and stuff because he realizes now that he may loose you. maybe he really doesnt want to take a break...maybe he knows that he loves you and he doesnt want to loose you...he should be both your best friend and your lover and you should be able to talk to him about how you feel. tell him that the situation is confusing you and hopefully, you'll get the response that you want. good luck
2006-11-27 19:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by girlwiththegoodies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the relationship was getting too intense and he wanted to go back to the way things were when u first started dating... Or maybe he wants the freedom... You're gonna have to ask him. You've been with him 2 1/2 years. It's important that you can be open with eachother. Just let him know how you feel and ask him what's up
2006-11-27 19:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Valerie1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation. Im from the bottom of my hart I tell you to talk to him, Ask him if he really loves you, why are you guys taking a break? doesnt make sense? Tell him you miss him and cant go on no more. I hope you guys get back together. Good luck
2006-11-27 19:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him have his break. treat him with respect, but don't treat him like your boyfriend. he obviously wanted some space and there's no telling what he's using that space to do. since you have the opportunity, why not use it and be free, explore and find yourself. that's what this is all about right? boy transalation of "time to find myself" = "I wanna look for something more" hey don't take it to heart that you're not good enough or something... take advantage and you'll find out he's either really into you and misses you or he's just moved on and isn't happy with where he's at in life. hey that means it's time for you to do things better for yourself too.
2006-11-27 19:44:41 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Miss X♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie if u dont wanna lose him as a friend and as a bf
then tell him how u feel
by the looks of it it looks like he is tryin to confuse u and hats not right
tell him how ya feel gurl
2006-11-27 19:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by CuRiOUs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys do love each other so much, than why are u takin a break? he obviously loves you. just get back together and have a good life.
2006-11-27 19:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Look into the Air 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about the way you feel. nothing will happen if you dont do anything about it
2006-11-27 19:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might like it better with you two just being seperated
2006-11-27 19:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by MsJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god same here ppl answer plz
2006-11-27 19:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋