I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about about 3 and a half months ago. At first, I was ok and I felt like I made the right choice. Now I miss him and hate not having him in my life. I broke up with him because something felt off. I can't really even explain it more than that. Im starting to think that I was unhappy because I am not happy with myself. We have a lot of mutual friends so we hang out every once in a while and we always end up flirting and then I get sad.
Can anyone share a similar experience where you broke up and got back together? Did it work? How did you feel throughout the whole thing? How did you know what to do?
2006-11-27 11:40:49 · 16 answers · asked by Kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Currently Im going thru something similar. We broke up 6 months ago, and at first he wanted to get back together and I didnt. After he got tired and started dating. I felt like I lost someone really important. I told him how I felt and even though he didnt come back to me right away, he eventually did, things with the girl didnt work out and he came back to me. Now we are together. If the guy really loves you, he will get back together with you, its 2 yrs and I dont think he can forget about you that easy. Just call him and tell him how you feel. Good luck girl
2006-11-27 11:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 20:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ive had this experience last year with my ex. we broke up because he cheated on me. afterwards he was still sweet and i still had a tiny bit of hope that the relationship would work out, so we got back together. but it was a bad decision because once the trust is lost, you just cant rebuild it, no matter what. not only that, the bond is not as pure and strong as before and you start to get too picky about everything. you would ask for everything that he didnt give you in the first go, and when you have conflicts, both of you would bring up the history and hurt each other deeply.
a friend of mine also had a similar situation. the guy was very devoted since the beginning but the girl was so spoiled and selfish. she always went out with her male friends, and boasted how other guys are better than her own bf. after a year and half the guy got fed up and broke up with her. after 3 months they got back together. i think they are going to break up again...
my humble advice, look ahead and dont look back. there are plenty of fish in the sea, its not worth it dating your ex...its likely you'll end on bad terms. you are only missing him because you feel lonely and because of the 'what if'. if its meant to be, it would have worked out the first time, dont pressure yourself into an unhealthy relationship, you'll get hurt.
good luck and listen to your heart! :)
2006-11-27 12:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by lorivs89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend, c.h., broke up with me, but it was b/c of long distance. (our relationship is an l.d.r.). after about 3 months, he called me back, and after talking on and off for a few days, he asked me out again. i said no, but then immediately turned right around, and texted him at 12 a.m., and told him i was wrong, and to give me a second chance. he did. now we're back together, and happy. it did work. we just live 2 hrs apart, so don't really get to see each other all that much. i missed c.h. a whole lot after he broke up with me, but i had a good cry, and then put everything he gave me away into boxes and bags, into the back of my closet. i missed him---ALOT. i don't know how i knew what to do. i just did.
2006-11-27 11:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by K.D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I'v broken up with the guy of my dreams for about 4 months and felt afull! I couldnt take it any more and called him up and tould him how I felt about the situation and we got back together that night. Make shore you tell this guy that you were the problem not him. Good luck
2006-11-27 11:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by sweetie*pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me once. We broke up the first time because someone found out we were going out.
2006-11-27 11:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but it will happen like the next day or up to a week, anything longer than a month, you might as well forget about it
me and this chick did it like 6 times. the longest break up lasted like a month.
you never know...were you sexually involoved at the time.
maybe when your both sexually active that could make a difference
2006-11-27 11:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by jsav209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i broke up with my boyfriend to go out with this other guy and the other guy broke up with but now he wants to go back out with me do u think i should??
2006-11-27 11:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back if u broke up already, same situation will occur that made u guys brake up.
2006-11-27 11:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does happen. there is a good chance that you wil get back together. i had a boy friend that i had and we borke up 6 times and got back together. i have been going out with him ever scince and i think we are the perfect couple. (6 years)
Tori<3
P.S- GOOD LUCK! with your b/f
2006-11-27 11:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋