I thinking Im going to dump a guy who thinks I should weigh 120 instead of 130.
I am 5'5 and medium bone structure.
I play sports and have a pretty big chest.
I used to model and wasn't as happy being 120 and uner.
here is the conversation we just had online:
him^^^^: 130 is too much for 5'5
him^^^^: and if you fluctuate theres no room to breathe
him^^^^: at 5'5 130, something on you is bigger than it should be proportionally
him^^^^: most likely, a butt
me^^^^: 125 is what im shooting for and 130 after kids.
him^^^^: aXXXX was 5'5 125
him^^^^: i would shoot for 120 max
me^^^^: minute i hear guys care too much about weight Im running baby.
me^^^^: Havea great night i need to pack before i watch conclusion of bachelor in rome at 9pm
him^^^^: the fact that i like thinner women doesnt make me a perv
him^^^^: it makes me like almost all men, whether they voice it or not
him^^^^: the only men who like women with "meat" are liars
2006-11-27 11:41:46 · 22 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is wrong. I am a man who likes a woman with curves. I don't like a woman so skinny its like doing a skeleton. Sometimes it even hurts with a real skinny woman when doing it hard because of hitting the pelvic bone. Don't like too big either. 120-130 @5'5 is perfect. Don't change a thing!!
2006-11-27 11:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ITs the average weight range you should be in because I am 5'6 and 130 is a good ideal weight for me. You should be fine. And your friend is a jerk who is very vain. LOTS of guys like thicker women. There are guys that love a nice big butt and some guys are even afraid of being with a girl who is too thin becuase they are afraid to break her. He is a jerk, dont listen to him. If you feel happy with your weight, than that is all that should matter. He is the reason anorexia exists.
If you play sports, you must realize also that muscle weights more than fat. If you look good but are heavier, its ok. Weight is not as much of a big deal as your actual size and how clothes fit.
2006-11-27 11:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself!! Men that have these skinny model like women are constantly looking over their shoulder to see where to find the next one, or who may be looking at them. Nothing there but shallowness and jealousy. Men who are lucky enough to find a woman, who is comfortable as is, big or small, have the best personalities. These women are confident, caring, and the most fun to be near. All I say is BE YOURSELF, the men you wish to attract will flock to your doorstep without your having to be someone else. And No, 5'5" and 130-135 or so lbs is not heavy. Best wishes and good luck.
2006-11-27 11:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Gary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes an idiot first of all. No that is not fat. Your BMI is 21.6 and that is considered healthy. That is what matters most. YES guys that are not idiots do like women with some meat on their bones. My wife weighs more than you and she is 5'4" she has lost weight this year because she wanted to. When I met her 4 years ago she weighed more than she does now that did not keep me from seeing what was on the inside. I love her no matter what her weight.
2006-11-27 11:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by rottn30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 10:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
if you weren't happy when you were 120 lbs and under he should respect that. Im happy to see there is a person like you because too many people get influenced to lose weight. And when they do lose weight, it happens drastically. This is a matter or life and death. if you starve yourself, you can die(lemme rephrase that, you will die unless you try to change)anorexia and bulemia are big problems in our society.
2006-11-27 12:43:39 · answer #6 · answered by jkchen1114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just about right.
At 5 foot, a woman should be 100 lbs then 5 lbs for each inch after that.
So for 5'5", it'd be 125...but I think 130 is fine! Don't worry about it!
2006-11-27 11:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm 15 and i weigh 123 lbs and 5''8! Look ur boyfriend is a jacka-s
he is so stupid!!! 130 for a woman and 5''5 id so not bad!! I think u r skinny!!
2006-11-27 11:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely not too fat. Your BMI or body mass index (how much fat you have) is 21.6. Here are the rates:
BMI Categories:
* Underweight = <18.5
* Normal weight = 18.5-24.9
* Overweight = 25-29.9
* Obesity = BMI of 30 or greater
Don't loose weight because of a guy. You're fine!
2006-11-27 11:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by tictac_lvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to make a big deal over 10 pounds he is pretty shallow. Don't waste your time with him. Tell him you will lose 10 pounds when he adds 2 inches to his wingding.
2006-11-27 12:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by justanugget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋