Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

2006-11-24 05:54:09 · 23 answers · asked by Edel B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 05:54:06 · 6 answers · asked by brown_eyed_heartbreaker33 1 in Singles & Dating

We know and understand the risk with Foster to Adopt, but with this little baby girl, it was looking good for a long time, then all of a sudden the Aunt has pressured a cousin to submit application for the baby. Cousin was reluctant and wouldn't return phone calls to SW at first. Baby has LOTS of issues, which cousin wasnt too happy about, cousin is about to be married and has just found out she has fertility issues, so now is isn't SO reluctant! Now they are awaiting homestudy and are coming in from out of town to see the baby! OF COURSE they will fall in love with her!! Just because she is BLOOD relative, she is best choice? She's been dragging her heels since September, but hey, now that she has finally agreed to homestudy, so what, they'll just be able to adopt her? Baby needs LOTS of support in years ahead, need to be committed %150! We ALL love her! Reality is we'll likely loose her, but it just doesn't seem fair that their motivation doesn't seem pure or focused on THIS BABY!!

2006-11-24 05:53:28 · 11 answers · asked by ♀♥☼ alycat☼♥♀ 3 in Family

2days ago I was talking to my friend that I have dim feelings for. And so we were talking about what he wants in a girl and it sounded like he was describing me so I asked him. "Is it someone like me?" And he said "yeah". Then I said "if I wasn't daiting my bf would u date me?" And he said "probably". Then I asked him is that a yes? And he said "not sure". And he is shy and we are compatable. So what does this mean?

2006-11-24 05:53:16 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

A few girls, my ex bf (whom i don't tak to), and my crush. I hug all the girls and was thinking about hugging my crush to get my ex jelous, should i go for it.

2006-11-24 05:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by My dad ate my homework 3 in Singles & Dating

how do you know when your in love
is it when you watch them walk home
is it when there not there you wish they were
is it when they are there youre eyes sparkle like stars
is it

2006-11-24 05:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found an old newspaper clipping I want to share. Any pearls of wisdom to add to this? Does anyone have a guy like this?

"Definition of a Real Man" by R. Nelson Valentine

One who has self confidence but does not show it.
One who can be courteous in the face of discourtesy.
One who keeps his word, his temper, his friends.
One who wins respect by being respectable and respectful.
One who has a steady eye, a steady nerve, a steady tongue, and steady habits.
One who is silent when he has nothing to say.
One who is calm when he judges and humble when he misjudges.

2006-11-24 05:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by Californiamama 5 in Singles & Dating

Young is under 24. Many people do get married at a very young age, some even at 19 or 20. I read someone's question on this site and she married at 22 but is now very unhappy. I feel so sorry for her. But then I know a couple who is 24 years old and they had their first child recently. And they are smiling like children on Christmas morning. I am 23 but wants to marry when at least 28 years. I cannot see myself married for years to come! So, to those of you who were wed early, do you regret it?

2006-11-24 05:50:29 · 21 answers · asked by Blodeuedd 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 4 years. My problem is my huband misbehaved with my niece who is just 7 years old. I left my husband and now with my parents for the last 8 months. Now i dont want to live with him and he is asking pardon and want to live with me but i dont trust him anymore. Now he and his family are very much trying to take my son. They want to spend time with him 2-3 days in a month which i dont want since i dont have a plan to live with him. My question is am i doing right not to allow my son to their place? secondly, now my husband is asking pardon but i dont trust him, should i need to forgive and live with him? I could not resist his behaviour with my niece since she was brought up in my arms. I told him that i dont want to continue our relationship but he is not going away from my life. what should I do? Please advice.

2006-11-24 05:50:03 · 13 answers · asked by friend 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is expected to win, this is my first time and some of my friends at school are saying i suck and that iam going to lose! you know critiism is not going to feel down but it will make me stronger, becasue since this being my first ever race(7kilometers)
i beleieve that I can win it if i just believe truly in myself don't you agree?

2006-11-24 05:48:20 · 1 answers · asked by garnes d 2 in Friends

i have known my best mate since school, we allways had a laugh, he has a g/f who was also a school mate, but they only got together few months ago.any i am haveing suspicious thoughts about my firends g/f. i hve asked my friend wot work she does and funnily enough he doesn't know, but he did say she pampers him as she allways has a lot of money.i know her from school as pretty dim witted, not very bright so for her to hve a well paid job is out of the question.she seems to be away from him at awakward hours. and also she has offered me money and she told me that i don't have to pay it back which just arose my suspicion even further.so how do i know if she is on the game as i don't want follow her one day to find out ,what do people think ,should i be worried or will finiding out break up my friend ship with my best friend.what should i do?

2006-11-24 05:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by the_reporter 2 in Singles & Dating

i ve a friend who wants to marry her bf , but as they r from different religions and its not possible to do at our country , she doesnt know where they can get marry regardless thier religion.

2006-11-24 05:46:49 · 5 answers · asked by noura b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-24 05:46:47 · 19 answers · asked by Trisha S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy and he has a HUGE crush on me but i don't really have the same feelings for him. Then there is his BEST friend and i really like his best friend and i think hi best friend likes me to. Then yesterday his best friend asked me to go out with him and i said yes. So earlier today we went to see a movie and after we were walking home and he kissed me. But the guy who really really likes me saw us kiss and his best friend and i told him it was a dare and now he has no clue we are like dating. I NEED major help!! plz help if you can

2006-11-24 05:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by .:clairebear:. 2 in Singles & Dating

Are they into interracial dating?

2006-11-24 05:45:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My pregnant girlfriend is a recovering meth addict that is doing very well with her recovery.Every single adult in her immediate family are meth addicts. We don't like the thought of snitching but we tried everything else. We allowed her 19 yr old nephew and mother to move in because they were homeless under the terms that no drugs would be brought into our home.Despite our efforts we continuosly caught her nephew smoking ice in the basement and in the bathroom. He was meeting people down the street to buy and sell drugs. I tried talking to him about it but when that didn't work I slapped him a few times and put him out for the night. We would've just kicked him out for good but his disabled grandmother who was staying clean would have left too and became homeless and strung out again if we did so.I was worried at work and scared in my own home cuz I never knew what was in it. I didn't know what else to. We decided that turning him in would save his life. Are we wrong?

2006-11-24 05:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't know what's the matter with me but I find it difficult to love someone. I can honestly say that I've never been in love or even felt something special for a guy my entire life. ( I mean I'm 20 for god's sake!) Is it because I'm so cold-hearted that I don't know how to love? Also I find it extremely difficult to trust guys and I always keep my guard up. Why am I like this?

2006-11-24 05:44:39 · 12 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

I dated this girl for about 4 weeks. She did me wrong. Now she has another boyfriend. When I started dating her she had just gotten out of a relationship. and had been with two other guys in between.that time..So why in the He*ll do I still think of her. I know she was not good for me. But why do I still Think of her?

2006-11-24 05:43:41 · 11 answers · asked by bob 2 in Singles & Dating

I was asked to have the dinner in my home because I have the bigger home. I was OK with it. It made sence to me. I organized it so everyone had something to bring so I'm not having to do all the work. (You see my husban had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I'm having issues with my Lupus) I was hoping all I would have to do is make the ham and my canded yams set the table and be done with it. No His family told me that it was my job to do the dinner because I was having it in my home. I felt hurt because I have alot on my plate right now and for starters I was ASKED to have it here. To not be a brat I did it anyway. I need to find out if I did the right thing or should I have just told them no at last minute. How shoul dI feel and what sould I have done? Please Help?

2006-11-24 05:43:11 · 9 answers · asked by Christina Leah 2 in Family

My husband, well now ex, just left me and I'm devastated. I don't know what to do now. I have NOTHING. No money, no car, I live with my freaking parents. I tried killing myself twice, and now I am just hopeless.

What do I do? How can I get on with my life? I can't afford school, and you can't make a living working for $7.25 an hour as a cashier.

Someone please help.

2006-11-24 05:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Unknown to me, this poor woman who suffers from Lesbianism was invited for Thanksgiving to the same affair I was attending. During the meal, she discussed lesbian relationships and other factors related to her illness. She was horribly unattractive, perhaps this contributed to her eventual disorder.

Am I wrong not to talk to these hosts again for spoiling my meal and appetite?

2006-11-24 05:41:36 · 26 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've met this guy 2 months ago on one of the singles websites, we had maybe 4-5 dates, he asked me if I would like us to be more then friends, I said yes because I like him....we held hands we kissed...I know his profile is on a few other single sites - he doesn't know I know....I went on one of them just out of security and guess what- he just logged in...should I be concern?

2006-11-24 05:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by cocochanel 1 in Singles & Dating

I sure would like to know why women allways talk bad about men and say we are dogs. and yet they dont mind spending all of a mans money at the mall?.

2006-11-24 05:41:31 · 16 answers · asked by Lots of money but no sense 2 in Singles & Dating

This girl came over with my sister and she is real pretty. she is real nice. I wanted to say, "would you like to go on a date?" But couldn't find the right opening. With women you can so easy make a mistake. I didn't want to get laughed at like, "he thinks i would go out with him?" But when she left she said, "do you mind if I came back sometime with your sister to see you." I said, "sure anytime." then they left. does that mean she is interested or is that something you say just to be nice? I mean does it sound like I got a chance?

2006-11-24 05:40:37 · 3 answers · asked by Steven 6 in Singles & Dating

My family (husband, I and kids) had to stay with my sister and her husband for 5 days. She said that we were welcome to stay but I found out later from her husband that she was furious and said a lot of ugly things. She didn't really speak for the first two days and avoided me. We ( my family) did not eat there, kept the house clean and only used water and electricity for bathes. We mainly stayed in our rooms.
I did not know she felt this way or I would not have ever stayed with her until our house was ready.
We were out in five days.
I bought her and her husband a $50 money order and a 40 gift card for dinner in a nice restaruant and a thank you card and told her how much we appreciated them and the use of their home. I explained that I knew it was a great inconvience and said that the $50 dollars was to help with the utilities for the 5 days we were there.
Do you think I did enough? I will never tell her that I know about what she said about us. I still hurt a little

2006-11-24 05:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by egg_sammash 5 in Family

iam going to have a dinner and invited all who want to share my meal with me homeless ,friends anyone.

2006-11-24 05:39:46 · 1 answers · asked by annjilena 4 in Friends

after living together for some time, do couple who had forced marriages get devorced or can they learn to love each other?

2006-11-24 05:38:57 · 13 answers · asked by far_2_cute_4_you 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if so who with and why

2006-11-24 05:38:09 · 16 answers · asked by teri e 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i am the kind of girl who listens to her heart,soul,little mind,horoscopes,magic cards,dreams,etc you get the point.Well last night i had a dream that my boyfriend called me and broke up with me and i woke up crying b/c me and him are really close and i care about him alot.BUT ive been hurt too mny times and now i feel like if anyone is getting hurt it wont be me.But of course it will b/c i dont want me and him to be apart.So should break up with him b-4 he breaks up with me?Or should i call and tell him about my dream and how i feel about having a dream like that?im 15 i live in sikeston,mo not like you realy cared but...help

2006-11-24 05:36:10 · 12 answers · asked by tammyb752001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have an x-husband who won't leave me alone. He keeps wanting to drag me into court on a monthly basis for one thing or another...first he wanted custody of my son...son has drug problem and I have really bad nerves...so I gave him custody....my son's almost 17 and almost grown....the problem now, is that I'm unemployed, on the verge of being homeless, and my x-husband wants me to give him child support and go to parenting classes. My x-husband got re-married 2 years ago and should be moving on and leaving me the hell alone, but what does he do? He keeps on bothering me to the point now that it's affecting my health. I can't seem to get any good lawyer to help me and am seriously thinking of leaving the state for good to get on with what's left of my life...any suggestions before I go? Thank you.

2006-11-24 05:36:05 · 9 answers · asked by gimpstick_05 1 in Marriage & Divorce