Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

I told him how I really felt about him & although I really didnt want to I told him in order for me to move on is to stop talking to him. I had waited for him for almost a year bcs I felt he was worht the wait (I usually rush things & he didnt want a gf) when I told him I wanted out of the friendship he told me he had feelings for another girl. Ouch! But he told me he wont go out with her bcs he cares about me & that it wouldnt be fair. He said he couldnt lose me bcs I was his best girlfriend & I meant so much to him. I think theres still hope here bcs if I wanted to end the friendship & he had the other girl why didnt he take the opportunity? We didnt end anything. Lately I havent been talkin to him as much to give him space & now he wants to hang out with me more than he use to, to show me he does care. I want to be friends still bcs I still love him & want him & believe theres hope. But then again Im really hurt & dont want to keep him back. What should I do? I really dont know!

2006-11-24 05:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by ¤My Goodies¤ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 05:12:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend to bits. we been together for 9 months and i've never been happier. except i can't seem to be able to trust him. if he talks to another girl of enything i get jealous. i dont know how to stop and im scared he'l leave me because of it. he is the most honest person i know an i know he would never do anything i was uncomfortable with but theres always that doubt in the back of my mind that he'l meet someone else. i know i will trust him someday but its been 9 months and its starting to push him away. can anyone help me with this??

2006-11-24 05:11:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

plz only guys answer this one...i havnt had my 1st kiss but my bf has. will he be nervous to kiss me becase we've never kissed each other before, or will he not be nervous at all becuase he has had his 1st kiss.

2006-11-24 05:11:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Generally , do women really think of men as stupid or is it just frustration?
Well, i don't think men are stupid.....most of the time.

Thanks.

2006-11-24 05:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Its a bit early to be asking but next thursday i have a date and it's been a long time since iv been on one. Help me make the most of this

2006-11-24 05:10:22 · 18 answers · asked by Boney 2 in Singles & Dating

okay im a pisces girl
i was wondering do looks matter or what?!?!
what would you say most leo guys look for in a girl?

2006-11-24 05:09:36 · 4 answers · asked by sknowhite 1 in Singles & Dating

I always teach my Friend Algebra and Calculus but he said she don't wanna hear it anymore because he can't understand it but im just trying to help him.When i say OK i will not Teach you anymore he never talk to me anymore.Is he mad at me im just trying to Teach him?

THANK YOU VERY MUCH !

2006-11-24 05:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 in Friends

2006-11-24 05:09:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

answer as complete as possible

2006-11-24 05:07:43 · 12 answers · asked by Javier T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I asked a question a few minutes ago and got some great answers. They made me think about it and youg guys are probably right. This brings up another question though, what should I do now. He's taking forever to make a move and I don't want to wait. My friend tells me she's gonna work onhim to get more info. I'm shy and don't want to make the first move. Should I ask him out or let him do the asking?

2006-11-24 05:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by Mandy-Lu 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 05:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to a therapist to help me decide to end a relationship that had too many red flags and issues for me to deal with all the dysfunction from the guy and the relatioinship. After my therapy was complete my therapist let me know that since I was no longer a client of his that it was ethically okay for him to ask me out. I'm wondering since he knows so much about me that I have confided in him as my therapist, would it be a good idea to pursue such a relationship with him?

2006-11-24 05:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by rhythmoftheblues 2 in Singles & Dating

my & this other gurl are considered the two prettiest gurls in my grade [ 7th ]
and we both like the same guy who kindov likes both of us. how do i snag him first while still being friends with the other gurl who likes him? THANKS!

2006-11-24 05:06:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how am i supposed to live anymore without his care and attention?

2006-11-24 05:06:20 · 4 answers · asked by angelina 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together for almost a month and i think that he thinks i'm losing interest in him so i want to show him that i'm not lol!! =]

2006-11-24 05:06:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend and i used to be very sexual... we used to watch porn together... I am bisexual and have always wanted to have a threesome with him but he absolutely wont... its like he is discusted by it.. and now he doesnt even watch porn and claims to never masterbate... and worse I feel like I cant even watch porn around him or talk about it... if I talk about sex in general too much i get looks and an attitude from him..I dont get it... please someone tell me why he would be like this? I know he is not cheating.. he has no opportunity to... and he swears he is still very attracted to me... I know he is not happy with his looks right now (weight) but that doesnt bother me... could this really be the reason his sex drive is next to nothing?

2006-11-24 05:05:38 · 14 answers · asked by unsatisfied 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay here it goes the best I can type it! I use to date this guy but we broke up and deside to be just friends. Now hes sending me mixed messages. One moment he wants to be togeather the next he dont. Everytime we talk he brings up place we "ya know" from the past and things we did together and saying he loves me still. Everyone keeps telling me he only wants to be with me for the "ya know" and that he dont really love me. I dont know what to do because i still love him and want to get back together but if he wants me just for "ya know" then no thank you. Well with the mixed signals thing its werid. One day he will talk about "ya know" and the next about how he dont need a girl for that he has his hand and he dont want me just for that. He even talks of marrige! *tears. I dont know what to believe. Please help me. Some input or something.... anything at this point.... *Kerri Ann

2006-11-24 05:05:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 05:04:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now. The first 6 months were great, she's been the most dedicated person I've known and does everything possible for me. About 6 months ago though she started to get more serious about things, and around the same time we started seeing less eye to eye. I had broken up with her for various reasons at the time, but she begged to come back, even showing up outside my house at 1AM which I found creepy. I finally took her back but it's been in the back of my mind ever since. we've almost broken up a number of times, but she always talks about how good she is to me and how I'd never find anyone else like that. I've tried to make the best of it but I just don't feel it,but I cant bring myself to leave her.I'm to the point where she's tried to leave me but I beg her to take me back, and I'm not entirely sure why.My mom doesn't like her and my gf is trying to keep me away from her and anyone else who doesn't like her.no one left to talk to

2006-11-24 05:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has the perfect body! I am in the 6th grade, and I am 5'5, and I weigh 130 pounds! My cousin is 14, and she weigh 125 pounds, and I feel like a GIANT pig around her! She is 3 inches shorter than me, but I still fat! What do I do? I tried working out, diets, and everything, and I havent lost weight! Will someone please help me?

2006-11-24 05:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by Jessica D 1 in Friends

ok my name is kellie im a white 16 yr old girl.... ive been with this guy named derrick for 6 months... my family doesnt like balck people derrick is black.. i like dating all sorts of people.. i love derrick my dad doesnt accept me for this he tells me he's gonna take everything away.. he took my cell phone and even the door off my hinges!!!! WHAT DO I DO!! Even my twin sister kristie dates a black man 4 almost 2 years!! PLEASE HELP!! can i get emancipated? Can i live on my own..? what can i do?

2006-11-24 05:03:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am going to be honest and I am hard-of-hearing. i have an interpeter my whole child hood. I never really had a bf in school. only like my ex-bf in 6th grade, but that was a long time ago. do guys don't like me cuz I am hard-of -hearing. I know its not my looks. I talk but with accent.

2006-11-24 05:03:06 · 7 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys out there, I hope you know that you are the most confusing things to us girls. It's almost annoying. So if you like us, ask us out. If you dont, tell it to our faces. Goodness golly gosh, how am I supposed to put up with you?

2006-11-24 05:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 05:01:38 · 13 answers · asked by michael r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 05:01:37 · 24 answers · asked by gorgeous_ami 2 in Singles & Dating

She & He have going together for 2 years and every holiday has been spent with his family. I asked him " How's your mom? I hear she's having a lot of company including the grandchildren today". He kind of gave me a dirty look and took awhile to answer. "Fine", he said. I'm wondering if I touched upon something "sensitive" with him. I want any holidays to turn out well if they spend it with us. Do you think I asked the wrong question?

2006-11-24 05:01:35 · 13 answers · asked by hillaryc59bc 4 in Family

Usually buying them something will make their legs spread.

2006-11-24 05:01:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend is 24.Hes living with a 17 yr old girl. He met her on myspace one day. The next day, he moved in with her. I don't think this is right. I think he's too old for her. And it all happened much too quick.

2006-11-24 05:01:00 · 12 answers · asked by highgirl_4ever 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Cute, sweet, and funny

2006-11-24 05:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Monkee 1 in Singles & Dating