I've been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now. The first 6 months were great, she's been the most dedicated person I've known and does everything possible for me. About 6 months ago though she started to get more serious about things, and around the same time we started seeing less eye to eye. I had broken up with her for various reasons at the time, but she begged to come back, even showing up outside my house at 1AM which I found creepy. I finally took her back but it's been in the back of my mind ever since. we've almost broken up a number of times, but she always talks about how good she is to me and how I'd never find anyone else like that. I've tried to make the best of it but I just don't feel it,but I cant bring myself to leave her.I'm to the point where she's tried to leave me but I beg her to take me back, and I'm not entirely sure why.My mom doesn't like her and my gf is trying to keep me away from her and anyone else who doesn't like her.no one left to talk to
2006-11-24 05:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get out - get out now. Run for your frickin' life. Don't look back - just keep running.
2006-11-24 05:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...this girl really loves u so why leave her?i cant stand people like u....what ,more do u want from her exactly?I mean she loves u and is willing to do anything for u....u know how sometimes its hard to find people like that,.I dont think u realize how much pain ur putting her through cuz its a pain like no other.U could be the cause of her suicide...she may never be happy again..or atleast for a while.When sum 1 loves you soo much of course there gunna do the dumbest things to get u back....but its not cuz there crazy..just simply because they love you...so why do u wanna break up with her?What more do u want.plz....try to work things out....its killing her....and i know this.Im sure its killing u as well....cuz i've been in a similar relationship and it was probably much worse cuz my parents didnt approve of my bf....it was hard and out of the nine months we've been dating we only saw eachother 3 times..outside.Sux but we made the best of it and worked hard to be in a reltionship and talked on the phone everyday.We couldnt be there for eachother as much as we wanted..but we tried helping with words and it was great....but now its over...becuz he just didnt wanna be with me anymore...yes i begged him back...but he didnt care....he cheated on me 3 times and i took him back several...but its over now,.What im saying is...be good to her....and i hope she's good to u...plz...dont hurt her...u dont ralize how bad it is for her...and i hope to god u dont get hurt either.Contact me if u want...i know alot bout this
2006-11-24 05:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by ramlover_92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is taking over your life. Get it back, soon! She's trying to control you, in one of the most pathetic ways I've ever seen. I think you will find love again, and be much happier with a girl that you can really see eye to eye with.
2006-11-24 05:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jenyfer C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your gf is co- dependent she needs help and you need space from her if you continue to be with her you will develope the same problem and by what you said it is already happening to you. The best thing is to seperate if you truly like her get it touch with a NON-phy councler like a good preacher who knows the bible. If he can't help then maybe he can refer you both to some one who can. Look up Rafa Christain Couceling. Be nice if you don't want to continue don't be hateful it will just make matters worse.
2006-11-24 05:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by alanpendragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER! IMMEDIATLY! SHE IS BECOMING WAY TOO ATTACHED!
2006-11-24 05:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋