I told him how I really felt about him & although I really didnt want to I told him in order for me to move on is to stop talking to him. I had waited for him for almost a year bcs I felt he was worht the wait (I usually rush things & he didnt want a gf) when I told him I wanted out of the friendship he told me he had feelings for another girl. Ouch! But he told me he wont go out with her bcs he cares about me & that it wouldnt be fair. He said he couldnt lose me bcs I was his best girlfriend & I meant so much to him. I think theres still hope here bcs if I wanted to end the friendship & he had the other girl why didnt he take the opportunity? We didnt end anything. Lately I havent been talkin to him as much to give him space & now he wants to hang out with me more than he use to, to show me he does care. I want to be friends still bcs I still love him & want him & believe theres hope. But then again Im really hurt & dont want to keep him back. What should I do? I really dont know!
2006-11-24 05:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by ¤My Goodies¤ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow..........I think there are two major possibilities here.
1) The guy really likes you AS A FRIEND and he thinks you are his best friend, and he wants to stay that way. He realizes that if you went out and broke up it could permanently damage or even ruin your friendship. He probably REALLY wants to hold on to the friendship and keep it going.
2) The guy likes you however he isn't ready for a relationship right now. He may be ready later, so he has no idea what to do. Who knows... he might be posting on Yahoo Questions too asking for help. Jk, but if he likes you give it time and wait and see what happens.
- I hope this helped you. Your heart will lead you through even if right now you feel it has stopped leading you.
2006-11-24 05:17:18 · answer #1 · answered by Tim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem. I liked a guy and I told him last year. He didn't ask me out, so I was hurt. But I just waited, like you did, until he was ready.We started actually going out in Oct., but he knew that I would wait for him forever. What you probably should do is find a good place and a good time to talk and talk to him about the problem. If he really does care, then he won't really find some excuse not to. I hope that will help you. Good luck!
2006-11-24 05:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by GG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, oh boy this sounds kinda complicated. You can't give up on this quite yet - it can't end while you both still have feelings for each other.. And that is what needs to be figured out ,how much does he really care about you. The fact that you waited almost a year for him says a whole lot...he's really lucky to have a girl like you, if he can get his act together you two could have something special. Keep talking to him & see what happens ...ok? .... good luck ...bye bye
2006-11-24 05:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl your in a bad situation but i can realate you should tell him the real deal tell him you dont want him as just a friend maybe hes feelings have changed since you told him how you felt
this comin froma friendly voice (Tiffy)
2006-11-24 05:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by tiffymarie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart feels, it will be the right decision in the end
2006-11-24 05:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋