i have known my best mate since school, we allways had a laugh, he has a g/f who was also a school mate, but they only got together few months ago.any i am haveing suspicious thoughts about my firends g/f. i hve asked my friend wot work she does and funnily enough he doesn't know, but he did say she pampers him as she allways has a lot of money.i know her from school as pretty dim witted, not very bright so for her to hve a well paid job is out of the question.she seems to be away from him at awakward hours. and also she has offered me money and she told me that i don't have to pay it back which just arose my suspicion even further.so how do i know if she is on the game as i don't want follow her one day to find out ,what do people think ,should i be worried or will finiding out break up my friend ship with my best friend.what should i do?
2006-11-24 05:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by the_reporter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OHH COME ON!! WAKE UP!! if you can't read and understand wot u just said, your dumb, form the things you allready said she is deffo on the game,giveing you money is a giveaway,ask your friend in a polite way what your suspicions are, if he knows fine leave it at that, but don't try to find out for yourself as you could be suprised,
2006-11-24 06:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by mr.truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was you, I would talk to your friend and ask him if he doesn't find curious not knowing was is her job and how she gets all that cash at hand. If your friend is suspicious then you can help him out and see how to resolve the problem, but if your friend seems like he doesn't care, or doesn't want to talk about it - he probably knows what is happening and doesn't want to share or talk about it or he doesn't know and wants to be in denial. In this last case you have to just let him be and let him live his life like he wants to and just be his friend. Sometimes its hard to see our friends date someone we know it's not the best choice, but we have to respect it and the only thing we can do is warn him and be there if everything fails.
2006-11-24 13:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mary7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend: Tell him your feelings and suspicions. Tell him that things just don't add up, and that you are worried that if she's doing something illegal: She's going to get him busted to. Ask him where the money is coming from. And let him know that you don't want to destroy your friendship.
2006-11-24 14:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by jrsabbc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does she have to be a prostitute? Maybe she's a dancer in a strip club or something, a job most closed minded people seem to frown on. So what if she is? If your friend or you really want to know, just ask her. It saddens me that you treat her obvious generosity with 'I wonder if shes a whore'
2006-11-24 13:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by darkness_returns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could have rich parents or won the lotto. I wouldn't worry sounds like your "friend" is having fun. Enjoy it while it last.
2006-11-24 21:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by jessica a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen - if she's offering you money then your definition of on the game is well off.
2006-11-24 13:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by mark h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definite prostitute! why dont u tell her u want a b*l*o*w job else you'll tell her mate!!!!
2006-11-24 13:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
on the game?
2006-11-24 13:49:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋