There is this guy and he has a HUGE crush on me but i don't really have the same feelings for him. Then there is his BEST friend and i really like his best friend and i think hi best friend likes me to. Then yesterday his best friend asked me to go out with him and i said yes. So earlier today we went to see a movie and after we were walking home and he kissed me. But the guy who really really likes me saw us kiss and his best friend and i told him it was a dare and now he has no clue we are like dating. I NEED major help!! plz help if you can
2006-11-24 05:46:46 · 8 answers · asked by .:clairebear:. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just be honest with this guy. If you have a little bit of appreciation for him, and you really like his best friend, then you must tell him the truth. If you don't, he'll find out anyway. So if you tell him the truth, you will hurt him. But it won't hurt as much as him finding out another way. That way you show him that you consider him, by letting him now what's what. You have the right to choose the person you like. But he has the right to know if he has a chance or not. Try it. And be well.
2006-11-24 06:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by garyenbaxter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that all 3 of you need to be honest with each other. If you don't have the same feelings as guy A does then why should you pretend you do?? Why not go with guy B who you like and who likes you back?? I realize that they're friends and all but you have to be happy too.... Think about it and if need be, all 3 of you sit down and talk, like adults, and figure out what to do.
2006-11-24 13:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like his best friend I would just tell the guy who likes you that you just want to be friends. It's hard and you might lose his friendship but you will gain a boyfriend that you like.
2006-11-24 13:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, hmm,,, my rule, never lie about anything,, it only causes more problems.. i realize this is young love here, but go on and be honest, it will make you feel better and in years to come, it will seem kind of a crummy thing to do to someone....
good luck
2006-11-24 13:52:13 · answer #4 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help it if he likes you, and his friend should have told him in the first place. It's not your fault so let them deal with it.
2006-11-24 13:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Mandy-Lu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is break it to the guy who likes you.he might not ever talk to u again but i know you'll work something out.
2006-11-24 13:51:05 · answer #6 · answered by lisette l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his friend needs to tell him the truth, not you
2006-11-24 13:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-24 13:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋