Unknown to me, this poor woman who suffers from Lesbianism was invited for Thanksgiving to the same affair I was attending. During the meal, she discussed lesbian relationships and other factors related to her illness. She was horribly unattractive, perhaps this contributed to her eventual disorder.
Am I wrong not to talk to these hosts again for spoiling my meal and appetite?
2006-11-24 05:41:36 · 26 answers · asked by everyyoungwomansdream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the hosts had a pity party and invited all their "horribly unattractive" friends...including you.
2006-11-24 05:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
"suffered from lesbianism"?
It's not a disease, it's a definition for a pretty common type of human being.
Take a good look at yourself, pal. If your meal and appetite were spoiled by a "lesbian," the problem is in YOU, not your hosts of any of the other guests. Maybe next year you should just go have thanksgiving dinner with the KKK...where they won't talk about homosexuality (but there will still be some homosexuals there, they'll just be hiding it!).
2006-11-24 05:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
SUFFERS from lesbianism? Are you ignorant? It is not a disease. It may be in poor taste to discuss one's love life at the dinner table (and I agree with you there but I wouldn't want to hear yours either) and you are certainly within your rights to speak to whomever you wish but...
please do educate yourself. Homosexuality is not a disorder. I also do not believe, in many cases, it is a matter of "lifestyle" or of choice. If you are on the web, surf a little. You are in the dark ages, honey.
2006-11-24 05:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a huge jerk!! Being gay isn't a disease or an illness. And the fact that she was "unattractive" is only your point of view! You are a dick and don't care about other peopels feelings. I have a gay aunt and FYI she has no illnesses. You are so ******* rude and you know what, your hosts were friends with that woman, and it would be terrible if they invited you to the same affair again, so you should never talk to them again, because they don't need to be friends with a big ******* dick like you!
2006-11-24 05:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW
First -- Being a lesbian is NOT a disease
Second -- Albeit in poor taste for her to discuss her situation amongst people who are not close friends or relatives, it is not the fault of your hosts.
Thirdly --- Appears there was both a lesbian and a homophobic at the table.
2006-11-24 05:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try not to be so uptight. I know that's hard for some. But the world is full of different people for all over. I enjoy people who are different from me. It ads color and spice to what would be bland existence if all of us agreed on everything or sounded alike or looked and dressed in the same manner. Its a great strength of being an American, which is supposed to be an enlightened society.
2006-11-24 05:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Indeed, these hosts were quite insensitive for not giving advance warning to you of this poor woman's condition. Perhaps instead of offering her thanksgiving turkey, she should have been offered a nice Christmas 'goose', this may have put her on the road to recovery
2006-11-24 05:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Harold Hobbs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lesbianism, as you so clearly put it, is not something one 'suffers' from!
Are you really this narrow-minded or do you just like to read your words on paper.
It might be a good idea to educate yourself on this subject.
I don't think you'll have to worry about talking to your hosts. If you came across around the table as you have here on this forum, my guess is you'll never been invited or hear from them again.
2006-11-24 05:50:56 · answer #8 · answered by Renee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a provocative post....Lesbianism as a disease. Oh well.
I love lesbians! I'll look at lesbian porn all day. In fact I encourage my wife to go Bi any time she wants!
However, a dinner with mixed company is NOT an appropriate venue for discussing one's sex life, be it straight or gay.
2006-11-24 05:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Are you mis-informed or incredibly close- minded? As others have pointed out, it's not an illness. "horribly unattractive" is damned judgemental. and yes, they were wrong to invite such a cad as youself, so do them a favor & let them know how you feel so THEY can stop talking to YOU.
2006-11-24 05:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Clycs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋