My pregnant girlfriend is a recovering meth addict that is doing very well with her recovery.Every single adult in her immediate family are meth addicts. We don't like the thought of snitching but we tried everything else. We allowed her 19 yr old nephew and mother to move in because they were homeless under the terms that no drugs would be brought into our home.Despite our efforts we continuosly caught her nephew smoking ice in the basement and in the bathroom. He was meeting people down the street to buy and sell drugs. I tried talking to him about it but when that didn't work I slapped him a few times and put him out for the night. We would've just kicked him out for good but his disabled grandmother who was staying clean would have left too and became homeless and strung out again if we did so.I was worried at work and scared in my own home cuz I never knew what was in it. I didn't know what else to. We decided that turning him in would save his life. Are we wrong?
2006-11-24 05:45:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Exercise tough love, turn them all in! Take care of your girlfriend and you. Do you think those people would look after you? Get real and get tough.
2006-11-24 05:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by jack w 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong.....he may be mad but you could possibly be saving his life and the life of the grandmother!!!! i have told my kids that if i find out they do anything illegal i would turn them in to the police because they need to learn not to do those things!!!! You have been more than nice in opening your home to him and he isn't following the rules and has no respect for you or your home, you can either turn him in or take the chance of losing everything you own!!!!! How would you feel if the cops showed up at your house one day doing a drug raid? it is in your name so you would be held responsible!!!! Call the cops now before your life gets ruined too!!!!
Good luck and God bless!!!!
2006-11-24 05:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're right. obviuosly he is not learning his lesson when treated with kindness, so he needs to learn the hard way. it might not save his life, but it is the only thing that could. plus, one less person on the streets selling that drug is a win! good luck to you and your girlfriend and congratulations! it takes a very strong person to kick that habit, and keeping her away from that influence is the best present you can give her and your baby!
2006-11-24 06:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by gabriela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could lose this child to ice.child protection . being shot by a drug dealer.or clean up your own life and stop fealing sorry for them and clean house.. i am a disable grandmother so do not give me that shiiiiit.it will help the family..then turn him in.....
2006-11-24 05:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by tysgrandma99 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn them in, it cant be good for you and your girlfriend to have that in your home. Plus with the baby coming you need to get this taken care of as it could jeopardize your baby.
2006-11-24 06:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by mnwomen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your job to keep that child safe, and if you ever get married, it will be your job to keep your wife safe. Don't let anything get in the way of you doing what you need to do for your family. If you don't, who will?
2006-11-24 05:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by therealj5girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will be for his good, do it and don't feel bad
2006-11-24 06:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me? I am not reading all that.
2006-11-24 05:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋