So I've met this guy 2 months ago on one of the singles websites, we had maybe 4-5 dates, he asked me if I would like us to be more then friends, I said yes because I like him....we held hands we kissed...I know his profile is on a few other single sites - he doesn't know I know....I went on one of them just out of security and guess what- he just logged in...should I be concern?
2006-11-24 05:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by cocochanel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be but there is a chance you shouldn't worry. Don't worry but don't commit yet. Chances are he is still seeking out the best options available. 4 - 5 dates are not enough to know a person or to make a commitment. I would not divulge that you know b/c you may look deceptive yourself (who knows, maybe it was one of his friends). Take a deep breath and enjoy your freedom and the joys of being single and dating. Continue your search for a mate and have fun. He may be the "one" but why not check out all the aisles in the market before buying what's on sale at the beginning of the aisle.
2006-11-24 05:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Barbie W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's single. Right? What do singles do? Date! Right? Until you two decide to be intamate and see only each other, what's to worry about? You have to let him know that he's the only one you want to see and you only want to see him if you're the only one he wants to see. Then you'll have commitment or he'll let you know he's not looking for a commitment right now. It's up to you to make that move. Him? He's not going to as you've found out he's on other single websites.
Maybe I should look into the single website thingy. I am single now. :-) Never even considered it. I prefer the bar scene and meeting by chance. Sounds sort of fun though!
Goodluck with him!
2006-11-24 13:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest with him and let him know that you are aware of the other sites he used and see what he has to say about it. Remember 4 or 5 dates doesn't mean much to some people even if they ask if you want to be more than friends
2006-11-24 13:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by laughtime 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's playing the field. If he suggested being exclusive and you want to date him seriously suggest he remove himself from the singles site before you begin a relationship.
P.S. Then log on a few days later and see if he shows up if so quit seeing him.
2006-11-24 13:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me personally would never trust on Net friendship cos u know it will become a habbit to go n search around n find gurls but as of right now u met him just 4 5 times and it is just 2 months give it some times it takes time to get to know him and it takes time for both of u to not to cheat
2006-11-24 13:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you know that youve seen him advertised on other singles sites-tell him how you feel about him and see what happens from there- its worth a try.
2006-11-25 18:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dear u sud b...u r at primary stage of ur relationship, so u sud try 2 know him, n think wid ur brain, use ur brain, but 1 thing is obvious, if he lie wid u than its wrong...we sud never lie wid our near n dear ones...so girl think wise, its all upto u, u r the boss of urself, so dont let any1 to let u down...all da best
2006-11-24 13:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Afreen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this guy seems like the type of guy that probably is friends with someone first....maybe he has friends on there...not like girlfriends....he could also be keeping his options open in case you dont work out.
2006-11-24 13:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by FairyKiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out for fun.He wants it where ever he can find it.He is not serious according to what you write. It is better not to pursue this relationship.
2006-11-24 13:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, YES!
Don't trust a liar. Once a liar, always a liar
2006-11-24 13:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋