Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

Where to start well i ave been with my boyfriend for 4yrs and we ave a daugther together.but recently i ave started a new job and there is a fella who works ther and he is handsome and we get on so well i really do like him and he has tryed to make a move and i ave been tempted because i am not really happy with my current boyfriend well we ave our days but it make it harder win a child is invovled.Should i give the other fella a change or just get over it and forget the whole thing?????Good advice please because at the moment i am a really confused 19yr old!!

2006-11-24 22:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my friends has this obsession with this French guy, but all of my other friends know for a fact he DOESN'T like her. We try to tell her without blurting it out, but she doesn't get it.
The way we know he doesn't like her is because he always tells me how pretty I am and how nice I am. And my friend, Anna, seems to be just friends with him. Later, I told my friend he said Iwas pretty, and she like slapped me.I got really mad, but didn't say anything. Basically, I need advice of wheter I should like this guy or back off.

2006-11-24 22:18:47 · 4 answers · asked by Orange Lipbalm 3 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell a girl that i dont want to sleep with her and not hurt her feelings at the same time?

2006-11-24 22:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by funnycrazysoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

I admit that I've been that way in the past, I've had major crushes on a guy but as soon as they show interest, I get scared and don't pursue it. But the person never stays away - I'll still crush on them, just waiting for the right time and place, I guess.

So do guys like the chase, and once a girl reciprocates interest, does he find that a turn off and seek another lover?

2006-11-24 22:14:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wut characteristics do i have to consider if im looking for a bestfriend?

2006-11-24 22:11:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

..and I DON'T mean any dirty business just in an inocent way.

2006-11-24 22:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by bizzareperson 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 22:10:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

why do men cheat and then when confronted lie about it, even if you know in your heart that it is true. It makes you feel as if you are the one doing something wrong. I asked my bf about another woman and he lied about it, told him I had her number and he said, well, call her and I did and found out he has been seeing her for 4 weeks. When I asked him about it again, he said, she wanted him, but he didn't and now she is the one not telling the truth.

2006-11-24 22:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by lot2talkabt 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 22:06:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf hav been together for almost 2years. we are both 18 years old. I Love Him Very Much... But, we are both starting at different universities next year.. and the problem is that these two universities really are very far away from each other and we are never going to see each other. we decided, together, to end our relationship.

this was for me a very difficult decision and i'm still crying the nights through. we went on vacation and just returned. now for the harder part, how do i stop loving him? how do i stop sms'ing him and telling him to come over and watch a dvd, how do i stop calling him "love" and treat him like all my other friends? i can't, it's impossible..

at this moment we are still together and still very much in love, but when will be the right time to leave things and carry on with our seperate lives? this is the most difficult decision i ever needed to make, and now i dont know which way to turn.

any advice welcome, please help... :-(

2006-11-24 22:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by girl next door 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't understand it! I found out my wife of 18 years had been cheating on me. Not once, but with 5 different men! I found out she was having psychological problems and tried to salvage our marriage. A big mistake. Now we are separated and she borrowed money from her parents to retain an attorney and is now trying to take my kids and everything else. I'm disabled and on a fixed income and she knows I can't afford a lawyer. She's accusing me of beating my son and having sex with my daughter! (NOT ONE BIT OF TRUTH!)
Somebody please explain to me how a women can be so heartless?

Signed,
dazed and confused

2006-11-24 22:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by fnytms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well me and my boyfriend don't live like to far away but we go to diffrent schools and we see eachother only on Mondays or sometimes he comes over. Me and him are deeply in love he protects me,he cares for me,he respects me he is everything to me. What I was wondering is do most relationships work if your not seeing eachother everyday? Or will it? Cause we both said that we don't want to keep coming to eachothers houses otherwise we will get tired of seeing eachother and we don't want that.

2006-11-24 21:59:59 · 10 answers · asked by Laberta W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 21:59:55 · 17 answers · asked by cutestar 1 in Family

Please answer the following questions!

A. What makes a man not like oral sex?
B. Does pregnancy turn a man off?
C. What if my husband has never given me an orgasm... I have always done the work.. and if I want one... I have to do it myself?
D. He claims that he needs to see a doctor that there is something wrong?
E. We used to have sex almost everynight...now I am lucky if I get it once every two weeks... and its wham bam... thank you ma'am.

F. I asked my husband if he has always been this way with his ex wife or other partners that he has had.. he said,. " No... I have always pleased them first... I dunno what is wrong with me?

Tell me what is going on in your opinion... and please be serious and not rude!

2006-11-24 21:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anna Q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to honest for their own good. Because theirs this guy I work with and he once asked me to go on a dilivery with him. And the first thing I said when I was in the van with him was. I am surprised you asked me because you know I hate your guts don't you. And if you are wondering why I hate his guts its because I have a crush on a girl he is going out with. Anyway he is now scared stiff off being around me. And one work colegue said I hope you don't scare anyone else to day. I have really landed myself in it haven't I any advice would be apricated.

2006-11-24 21:54:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Make lovE?

2006-11-24 21:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by LIZ 3 in Singles & Dating

is it right to try to catch the attention of the one you really like by being his "servant" and doing him great favors like finishing his projects? my friend does this because she believes that she needs to do it because we are near graduation.

2006-11-24 21:52:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for me ...i go to my roooooom to avoid fighting with someone ...looooool

2006-11-24 21:52:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I dated this guy for 2 years. We broke up due to career reasons. He's very career oriented and doesn't want to have anything until he's completely done with his PHD. It's been about 2 years since we've broken up and I can still feel the love for him. And I know that he loves me deeply as well. The thing is we dont communication or see each other but I know the love is there. He wants me to give him couple years to complete his education and inbetween he wants nothing at all. I love him and deep down inside I know he is my true love. I dont know what to do...

2006-11-24 21:49:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to be given to my frends

plz no dirty questions

thanks
tom

2006-11-24 21:49:18 · 1 answers · asked by Remo 1 in Friends

Ive got to buy some christmas presents for girls, I have no idea what to get them, can you offer some suggestions? Anything at all, would be great if it was something a little different? What would you like to recieve from a guy this christmas?

2006-11-24 21:49:11 · 19 answers · asked by Mason 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we meet daily ,before 2 months,but there was fighting in us daily,he told me that i fight with him so he decrease the days of meeting from 7 to 3 . i know he loves me lot , but i scare becz of our quarlls we may seperate with each other.

2006-11-24 21:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are not dating just flirting but I want to make sure he really likes me before making a move.

2006-11-24 21:46:44 · 8 answers · asked by Michele 3 in Singles & Dating

What would you do?

2006-11-24 21:46:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell bout your opinion.plz i need it.

2006-11-24 21:42:32 · 15 answers · asked by rohan s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 21:41:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i am finding that as time goes on my partner and I are becoming less intimate, to the point that we spend very little time together, i work, she looks after our child. We have been married for 4 years, and get on very well, but there is a big hole in our relationship...when we argue it always (eventually) gets to the fact that we don't have sex, i'm frustrated, and i'm told that she has no interest in having sex anymore........what can i do!?

2006-11-24 21:37:19 · 27 answers · asked by Cy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My friend (a girl) got into a fight with another girl in a parking lot. I had been away from them. When I came back I saw the fight and I just instinctively helped my friend. The other girl was kinda bent forward with her legs spread. I came up behind her and kicked her groin from behind as hard as I could. The girl dropped immediately and started moaning. After about a minute she started dry heaving like she was going to throw up. I am curious to know what happened to that girl. I had used the tip of my shoe and I might have gotten her button you know. I think maybe she was going a little bit into shock, because she turned pale and her lips turned a little blue. And also, when I kicked I felt her bone, the bone right in front. Just curious to know if any one has experienced anything like this. I didn't think that would have been as effective as it was. I mean I'm only a 110 little girl and I stopped this taller girl completely...

2006-11-24 21:33:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married to my wife for 3 years and 2 kids later. I have decided enough is a enough. I love my wife but her habits are not like mine anymore. Bless her heart but she looks like a man eating whale in the tub and if I dont leave her soon she might eat all my money away. What are the steps to divorcing my wife. I am not worried about having custody of the kids I feel I need to start over with my life. Kinda like a muligan.

2006-11-24 21:32:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were in a situation where you like this girl/boy, for you to be able to catch her/him, how would you do it. Would you start a bond of friendship? would you straight up tell her/him? would you wait for a very long time without telling her/him how you feel?
well for mine, I have deeply fallen in love with her yet how I react is as if we are only friends and I have known her for 3 weeks so far. The important question really is, am I doing the right thing? share your thoughts.

2006-11-24 21:31:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating