to honest for their own good. Because theirs this guy I work with and he once asked me to go on a dilivery with him. And the first thing I said when I was in the van with him was. I am surprised you asked me because you know I hate your guts don't you. And if you are wondering why I hate his guts its because I have a crush on a girl he is going out with. Anyway he is now scared stiff off being around me. And one work colegue said I hope you don't scare anyone else to day. I have really landed myself in it haven't I any advice would be apricated.
2006-11-24 21:54:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Do people actually read the question before answering. I am a GUY. And I don't fancy him I fancy a GIRL he is going out with.
2006-11-24 22:10:37 · update #1
You sound like a complete and utter pillock!
2006-11-24 22:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is a big difference between being too honest and just down-right rude and mean. If you hated the guy's guts, why did you go on the delivery with him in the first place? Remember, if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all? Try for a little tact, it won't hurt you to just say hi and keep walking. How would you have felt if someone had said that to you? So what if he's going out with a girl you like, do you have to act like a little kid whose favorite toy has been taken away? Act like a grown man and maybe one day you will be.
2006-11-24 22:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're just being frank and it's an admirable trait. however, it should also be done in a proper time or when the situation calls for it. not all people would react to what you did the way you want them to be. just tone down a bit and when somebody asks you about what's on your mind, then that's the time you give them a piece of what's really on your mind. apologizing the person for "scaring" him would also help, that is if you want to....you didn't want to scare him in the first place.
2006-11-24 21:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by justine b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, of direction there is. in certainty, there are hundreds of human beings who balk on the sound of "extreme college Musical". It was once ok till now each and every thing, it did no longer hassle me that plenty, yet now it rather is purely stressful. And it rather is everywhere--i can not flow at some point without seeing the words 'extreme college Musical' someplace.
2016-10-17 12:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by corridoni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain that you don't really hate him. Personal things should not come on the work scene. Work is for work. You will always have to work with people you don't like. You don't need to let them know how you feel. Just be friendly or quiet. Tell him you are sorry you said that and it should not have anything to do with work, and work with him.
2006-11-24 22:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is a pansy if you dont like someone dont be to faced and pretend to you did the right thing by telling him you dint like him well done honesty is always best you will get yourself in more trouble being dishonest rather than honest. Well done babes keep being honest xxx
2006-11-25 00:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea honesty has cost me a few friends and even an ex husband. Sometimes honesty can put you in worse spots than telling lies. Maybe you should just explain to the guy why you hate him and that you're not going to hurt him...are you? lol, lets hope not. Anyway, I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-24 22:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i got brought up to speak my mind and i dont think it is such a bad thing asltough i have been known to put my foot in it a couple of times.
I dont see the problem with telling someone you dont like them it's better than being 2 faced.
2006-11-25 00:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by SAMANTHA P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dint think your too honest for your own good.i think your just out right rude and nasty..because if you were just honest you would have declined his invitation to go with him and then been honest and told him why....i notice you said a work college not a friend ...do you in fact have any friends...my advice is to figure out the difference between being blatantly honest and just rude
2006-11-24 22:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by joejoe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What a stupid thing to say. If you tell someone you hate them (and hate them for a really selfish, silly reason), what do you expect?
2006-11-24 22:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋