me and my bf hav been together for almost 2years. we are both 18 years old. I Love Him Very Much... But, we are both starting at different universities next year.. and the problem is that these two universities really are very far away from each other and we are never going to see each other. we decided, together, to end our relationship.
this was for me a very difficult decision and i'm still crying the nights through. we went on vacation and just returned. now for the harder part, how do i stop loving him? how do i stop sms'ing him and telling him to come over and watch a dvd, how do i stop calling him "love" and treat him like all my other friends? i can't, it's impossible..
at this moment we are still together and still very much in love, but when will be the right time to leave things and carry on with our seperate lives? this is the most difficult decision i ever needed to make, and now i dont know which way to turn.
any advice welcome, please help... :-(
2006-11-24 22:04:36 · 5 answers · asked by girl next door 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we tried to go to the same university, i got in and were accepted for the course i wanted to study, but he didn't make it. he had to go to a different one to study what he really likes and is really interested in. at first i was angry, but now i understand - this is his future! he can't stay just to make me happy....
2006-11-24 22:30:14 · update #1
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2006-11-24 22:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by al_ghost_is_zidoly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you had truly loved each other nothing could keep you apart. Why didn't you both go to the same school? Long distance relationships can work, you have to be careful and stay away from temptation and be sure and have unlimited in calling -he-he- but you never know. I dated a girl for 2 years long distance and it only failed because she gave in to temptation and started spending too much time with guys and ended up cheating on me. I still believe long distance relationships can work, but it does take a lot of work.
2006-11-24 22:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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how to stop loving my boyfriend ?? :-(?
me and my bf hav been together for almost 2years. we are both 18 years old. I Love Him Very Much... But, we are both starting at different universities next year.. and the problem is that these two universities really are very far away from each other and we are never going to see each other. we...
2015-07-31 00:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how you feel. i turned 18 this year, and was discharged from CPS, anyway, since i wasnt allowed to stay in the foster home, i moved to the ATX where i currently reside. And i know this girl loves me, it just tha shes the type who needs face to face comfort, so we're split, and she's been with two guys since. and as a man, it hurts me to see her date those guys cuz you know they only want sex...i mean shes an all-star cheerleader for PHS, and shes beautiful. It'll hurt. and thats coming from a man. trust me, he's going to start dating other girls, cause i mean its natural, but its going to tear you apart inside. Seeing or hearing him talk about someone else..it gets under your skin. I understand that you really love this man, but put your faith in your religious fathers hand, and there will be success with you both after a hurt. You really should brace yourself. cuz like me, i got it so bad, i wake up getting ready to go over to her hous, and im 6 cities away. If you are really meant to be, then it will resolve itself. But never say its completely over, always show confidence in him, and you to strengthen the love you will always share.
2006-11-24 22:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you two go your separate ways and you still feel strongly for eachother after 30 days. You two are definitely meant to be together and nothing can keep you apart.
But if after 30 days you both don't really feel anything between you two anymore; then it was never love.
2006-11-24 22:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard to do. Find something to do ..all the time. You'll be busy with school so it shouldn't be too hard. Just don't come home and jeopardize all you've worked for for a guy...it is NOT worth it. Study seriously, and you'll be rewarded. You're wayyy too young to be stuck with only one guy.
2006-11-24 22:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two were really in love you wouldn't have applied to a different universities. I assume you are not going away to school for another nine months... just enjoy the time you are going to have together. Once you are at school concentrate on your studies.
2006-11-24 22:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant turn your love on and off for him... this is hard...
cant you go to a uni close to him?
cant you study correspondence and be with him?
does he still love you and miss you the way you move and miss him?
i wouldnt break up with him, if you both love each other you WILL find a way for this to work.
Dont let him go, grab hold of him with both hands and give it your best shot and make it work
good luck sweety
2006-11-24 22:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by He moonwalked on my <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it helps, this decision won't seem nearly so bad in the future. Horrible things will happen that will make this seem mundane by comparison. That's the way life works. Just wait.
2006-11-24 22:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that not important ,, i think real love last forever ,, dont make ur all intrest about him ,, but about ur study,, and no body desierve ur tears ,, and no one in this plant deserve it , and u need make u r time so busy to delete free time and thinking about him so much ,, good luck
2006-11-24 22:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by BEST_HMS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your granma to have an affair with him.
2006-11-24 22:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by wombat2u2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋