How do i tell a girl that i dont want to sleep with her and not hurt her feelings at the same time?
2006-11-24 22:17:08 · 28 answers · asked by funnycrazysoldier 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow i like you! most men would just sleep with her anyway! you are cool. er sorry,that didnt answer your question but well done you for not just sleeping with her cos you can!
2006-11-24 22:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I came to realize that for some of this things no matter how nice or whatever you would like to be.
There are two ways to do a thing
1. Look at someone in the face and tell them how you feel about a particular situation.
2. I really dont know about the second one but I understand it involves holding someones hand and telling them... honey... sweetie... I really...
Look why dont you just tell her that you dont want to sleep with her.
2006-11-24 22:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Oscar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight (not gay, its an excuse). "Sorry love I won't sleep with you because I don't feel about you in that way" Its simple. Then you can tell her that you want to stay friends etc if thats what you want.
Bullshit will only help confuse things again later.
2006-11-24 22:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your reasons for not wanting to sleep with her. If you're not in love with her, just tell her so, adding that you don't want to build up expectations you can't live up to. Tell her you don't want to hurt her feelings.. she may be disappointed, but that can't be helped. Being honest is always the best.
good luck!
2006-11-24 22:20:51 · answer #4 · answered by icqanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi :
I think it is very simple to say:
Just say something like this: You are a beautiful girl, but i prefer to be honest with you, i don't want to hurt you, i don't want to use you just for sex, i still have some feeling for my ex-girlfriend and i want to be clear about my feeling before involve myself with someone else.
Easy!! if she persist just she dosent care about herself and live the situation like that.
2006-11-25 00:15:57 · answer #5 · answered by shana90000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing to do is be honest with her, if you make up some excuse and she finds out she will be hurt even more. just explain to her that you want her as a friend and dont want to ruin your friendship
2006-11-24 22:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by mouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emphasise the friendship thng and for good meansure, tell her you are a little screwed up right now ... it's enought to sow seeds of doubt in her mind about your sexual orientation without burning your boats with her friends!
2006-11-24 22:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think that you can. is it still rejection no matter which way you put it. If i was on the receiving end then I would probably want to hear something like "i am not ready for something like that and think it would complicate things" or something like that. sorry i couldnt help more xxx
2006-11-24 22:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by SARA H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that your not that type of guy that just jumps into bed with anyone and that you would like to wait until the time is right.
2006-11-24 22:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peace of cake mate, TELL HER YOU HAVE AIDS OR A GAY.
If telling Aids she will have sympathy or stay away & by telling gay she will definitely feel protected for not asking you next time. Cheers.
2006-11-24 23:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by p4rk4r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋