why do men cheat and then when confronted lie about it, even if you know in your heart that it is true. It makes you feel as if you are the one doing something wrong. I asked my bf about another woman and he lied about it, told him I had her number and he said, well, call her and I did and found out he has been seeing her for 4 weeks. When I asked him about it again, he said, she wanted him, but he didn't and now she is the one not telling the truth.
2006-11-24 22:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by lot2talkabt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men will cheat as long as they think they can get away with it. If a man is smart, he will weigh the risk and not gamble with a happy relationship but many men are too immature to do that and will blame their wife or girlfriend saying "If you'd treated me better then I wouldn't have had to get it elsewhere" but that's a cop-out.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Where there's no trust, there's no relationship.
2006-11-26 15:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie Blue 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
The problem is in your question. If your experiences here are THAT pervasive then you might be looking (on some level) for guys who are going to do that sort of thing.
It is hardly limited to men in any case. Women cheat at least as much but tend to justify their actions where men often don't feel a need to. Cheaters cheat.
2006-11-25 06:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has the ability in them to cheat. Just saying men do it is dumb. I have been in relationships where the girl would cheat, get caught (she was not very good at it) and beg forgiveness, and do it all over again. PEOPLE cheat because they want adventure, or because their spouse is ignoring them, or because they are inconsiderate jerks. Dump this guy and find one who is more worthy of you, then pay attention to him and make your relationship adventurous. It is worth trying...
2006-11-25 06:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jim V 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men will generally take whats on offer, they want the excitement of an affair and someone to wash their socks and look after then when they are ill...the best of both worlds.
Fortuantely not all of them are the same....;
2006-11-25 06:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They cheat because they are still looking for that special someone and you are just a fill in until he finds her (he thinks there is something better out there for him)
2006-11-25 06:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For the same reasons women do!
2006-11-25 07:24:24 · answer #6 · answered by crimson king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do men cheat ???
Because they can.
2006-11-25 06:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by wombat2u2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men only cheat on girls becuz they can
2006-11-25 06:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by al_ghost_is_zidoly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men lie when lied to. i have found that my man is honest with me when i'm honest with him.
2006-11-25 06:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
When you find the answer to that question please let me know.... Guys and their Ego's its a mystry to me!
2006-11-25 06:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋