is it right to try to catch the attention of the one you really like by being his "servant" and doing him great favors like finishing his projects? my friend does this because she believes that she needs to do it because we are near graduation.
2006-11-24 21:52:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yap.
2006-11-24 22:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by songram khan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a good way to be taken advantage of if that's what your friend is looking for. She's not doing him any favours by finishing his projects because he won't learn anything like that so what's the point. I'm sure she has attracted his attention but probably not the type she's looking for, he probably thinks she's a soft touch now and when he can cope with life or can't be bothered to take responsibility for himself she will sort it all out for him. If that's what she's looking for in a relationship then, well yes, she's going the right way about it, if not, I'd rethink that approach. But you can be sure she will ignore your advice and do what she wants anyway so let her get on with it.
2006-11-24 22:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach other people how to treat us. The situation you described is an interesting training course. Not a relationship I would want. Right or wrong is up to the individuals involved. JMHO.
2006-11-24 22:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not right but it helps u to get near to the person u like
2006-11-24 21:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to do favours for your friends doesnt make u a servant. so be a bit broadminded if you really want to have a relationship.
2006-11-24 21:57:16 · answer #5 · answered by smartkid2000 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no he has to like her 4 herself not 4 over helping him
2006-11-24 21:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by themad 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not right..
if that guy will like her..
its because she helps him..
not because he loves her..
and a relationship will not last..
if that's the case..
hopes this helps..
God bless..
2006-11-24 22:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by Purps.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her choice. U cannot judge her.
2006-11-24 21:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinion is that, "It's not right."
2006-11-24 21:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not right
2006-11-24 22:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by TIMEPASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋