Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

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2006-11-24 20:45:25 · 20 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4 in Marriage & Divorce

a few days ago, a frends family and mine went to the beach for a picnic...

My sisi was at the playground and i was just sittin there enjoying the hot juicy guys, and then i heard one of the other children(ages from 4 to 7) were laughin at my lil sisi, soo i went closer to them..
it turned out that the other children were stuckin sticks into my sis's pants. i felt lyk ****, they were not respecting my sister because she has AUTISM.

i told me parents bout it and all they sed was " How did they know trixie has a dissability?" and my dad just made a joke out of it,. i was pissed, i felt lyk punching the other children...but i couldnt becus their parents were nearby n i knew it was wrong but it realli hit me that my sis was being threated like that and all these years i thought being autistic whud be the happiest thing to have.

i need help, i want my sis to be threated like what shes supposed to be.

2006-11-24 20:43:37 · 8 answers · asked by Val 2 in Family

We often talk about marriage & he thinks that he will need to know my native language in the coming years so he is taking lectures... Please tell me what do you think?

2006-11-24 20:41:23 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Lasha♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm very sad because my father continuously let us down, to us, his family. I tried to complain in yahoo chat... but I just received a lot of "you are an adult, work and move out"But I can't move out (I'm 19) with what money I'm going to live? Girls moving out at 19 just doesn't happen where I live, because there is no way they can support themselves, and because it's two dangerous. I just wanted to... like someone that could hear me.
My dad has been like this since forever, he dinks, doesn't care about us, we always feel bad cause he is on and off working, and doesn't make money. He gets late drunk and violent. Why he can't change? He had so many oportunities! My mother even divorced from him, and now they are back together, and he supossedly changed, but thigs keep happenning. When they went through divorced he wanted to kill us or something and we slept all in one room and locked up at night.

2006-11-24 20:40:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ive been friends with her for 17 years now. For 5 years ive liked her more than a friend.

2006-11-24 20:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by I was wondering .... 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a lovely guy but he made a few comments that made me believe he might be racist. There is two women at work whom he doesnt like(both black). And he said to me that when one of them was eating she looked like an ape,i was kinda shocked when he said that. He also said he hates teeth sucking(which black people do alot). He is a policeman so i'm wondering if maybe he's had some bad experiences with black people i dont know.

2006-11-24 20:37:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think Love & Sex both r Important in life of Men & Women.
But I think Love is much more important then Sex. Bcos v can't pass our whole life with a person just 4 Sex & no Love. But v can pass & enjoy our whole life 4 someone when v come 2 know that someone is there who love us, even if he/she away from us.
V can control our sex desire, by different ways, like concentrating on our duties, become a health conscious or by increasing faith in God. I m saying this even when I m 24m single
But v can't control our feelings about Love. By concentrating on our duties v can do well & earn lots of money. And by money v can purchase anything & everything even sex but BUT !!! not Love. And when v have few minutes to sit v will feel alone.
Even when v try to concentrate on God, v will try to find love in God. So v can't stop our Love Desire.
On this earth there is more then 8 Billion People living together.
Just Bcos of Love !!
So What u Think ??
manojatindia@yahoo.com

2006-11-24 20:37:24 · 16 answers · asked by manojatindia 2 in Friends

Way before all this was happening we agreed that I would take him, but to hurt me she's trying to take him from me. She said that we'll go to court but I don't want to take it that far what should I do? He's so used to being with me all the time and I don't mind that I got him. This is a Fifty Fifty deal, and he's my responsibity to and I don't want him growing up not Knowing his father. Because I'd like to be a part of his life. This can get real deep, there is no makeing up and getting back together, already tried it. I just need some advice from someone that's been through it already.

2006-11-24 20:36:44 · 4 answers · asked by Gilly 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you think of older guys? I know there a lot of depends, but in general. Nice guy, decent looks, good body, regualr job. 41 years of age.

2006-11-24 20:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by scooterdude 2 in Singles & Dating

So yeah, met this guy on my friend's wedding, my friend's sister started teasing us [with this guy], the next day my sister invited my friend's family for her graduation dinner party, my friend's sister said that this guy would be there too. At her grad. dinner party well, everyone was there except this guy. My friend's sister said that they bumped into him in the mall and this guy said that he was too shy. The next day I get a phone call 8 o'clock in the morning... it was this guy... he called to say sorry that he didn't come to my sister's grad. party... Ever since he started to call everyday... and i started to like him... this one day this guy asked me out to the mall... and it was fun... really... it went on for months and i really loved him by then... this month of november it stopped, no more phone calls, no nothing. I saw him with this other girl the other day and it hurts... bad!!! i miss him so mch... i want to call him but i don't know what to say... please help..

2006-11-24 20:34:13 · 11 answers · asked by jaytyeddrei_13 1 in Singles & Dating

Does it show? Does your hubby give you grief?

2006-11-24 20:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by desertblue62 3 in Marriage & Divorce

In year 8 i was best friends with a guy (i am a girl). At the start of year 9 we were also best friends, he even slept over my house! And we would text and call each other a lot. But then another boy came to school and he started hanging out with my best friend and made him go to parties and hook up with girls. Now my best friend doesn't respect girls at all, and he has turned so mean. Calling everyone a f*****g sl*t every day instead of their names. He has turned into a total a**hole! Please help me, i really want him to realise hes treating everyone horribly and soon he will have no friends.

2006-11-24 20:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Friends

If you found out that the person you have been dating for 3 months
was actualy the opsite sex? What would you do? How would you re-act?

2006-11-24 20:29:56 · 13 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 20:29:11 · 36 answers · asked by jaspriya m 2 in Family

name stephen thomas bueker buried in idaho or ohio he died in 1976or 77. my grand mother and i think grandfather are also buried at the same place

2006-11-24 20:29:03 · 3 answers · asked by trishj_71 1 in Family

Is any girl from Hyderabad in AndhraPradesh in India interested in friendship with me. I am seriously interested in removing the fear i face when i communicate with girls.

2006-11-24 20:28:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

sometimes i feel bad about being w/ a guy younger than me, i don't undestand why.

2006-11-24 20:28:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive been with my bf for 6 months, i know he wants an ipod for xmas with the stand. Do you think £250 is too much to spend on him as we have only been together 6 months?

2006-11-24 20:26:18 · 47 answers · asked by Kate 2 in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I have known eachother for about 2 years ... almost 3.
We started dateing 2 months after we both broke up with our ex's, wich treated us horribly.
Everytime I see him I feel like I'm in heaven, Like nothing can take us apart and we're meant to be together forever.
We both can't stop thinking of one another night and day. We also try not to spend every waking moment of our lives together so we will not become tired of one another. I don't understand if I'm in love with him or not. Whenever we would say good-bye or good-night I always am about to say "I love you, bye bye" but catch myself before I do.
I don't want to scare him away by telling him how strongly I feel for him. He already tells me how much he cares about me and how he could never stand loosing me. Does that mean he loves me back? but maybe we're both scared to admit it?

please help. I'm extremely confused.

2006-11-24 20:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my soon to be wife / fiancé is a resident alien, we've been dating for almost 2 years, I can see her as my wife and things are going well... she'll need to leave the US in about 8 months if we aren’t married... now, what I was thinking is that we go ahead and get married but make it just "legal" like with a prenuptial agreement to keep our assets separate... no big ceremony because we both live in Hawaii with parents all over the world. This would be for convenience and would be treated like an engagement mentally... and then when we relocate in a year or so we would have a ceremony and have the families come when its easier... I know it’s not traditional and I don’t want to cheapen the experience… but we love each other and want to make this an easy transition, and under the circumstances this feels ok... any suggestions on how to make it go smoothly? Legal advice? Just don’t want to rush in, but I still want us to stay together. Thanks...

2006-11-24 20:23:23 · 5 answers · asked by Michael C 1 in Weddings

how do people like/love someone so much and hate them so much the same time?

2006-11-24 20:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by rosa 1 in Singles & Dating

I am such an idiot. What do I say? What do I not say. He's young, 14, but older than me. I'm just a silly girl. I need to grow up fast. What do I need to know? I don't know much about his illness. I don't want to make him sad, and I owe him my honesty. I just need real advice on being the best friend I can be. Please advise. He's my friend. We only meet on chat.

2006-11-24 20:21:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i will create my own wedding invitation but i really don't know who's name come first in our invitation. is it the name of the woman or man?

by the way i hope you can help me or give me an idea how to create a simple but elegant wedding invitation.
what website could i visit?
honestly i don't have idea, i tried to create using powerpoint but it's not nice...
if you have any idea kindly e-mail me to rili01@yahoo.com..
thanks a lot...

2006-11-24 20:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by yoplait 1 in Weddings

2006-11-24 20:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a good life.i dont want my teenage life to black out too..i have been thinking bout that lately...
i used to always wanted to commit suicide(that was 2 years till now).. becus of how my dad makes mi upset and always thinking how i will cope in life.

2 minutes ago, my dad had a talk with me...mom and the siblings r out. He sed he wanted to move out on us..
he kept saying

"This Month, i lost my wife and nearly my job and now i lost u..the whole day i was thinking bout what has been happening. And i will move out on u if u keep threating me like ****"

ALL I SED WAS "u stress me" AND HE DOESNT TALK TO ME FOR 4 DAYS TILL NOW
I AM SOO PISSED , I HATE THIS

pls help me..i wan my teen life to be better than my childhood

2006-11-24 20:19:28 · 11 answers · asked by Val 2 in Family

An ex-girlfriend and current good friend of mine is going on vacation with me and she is falling for another friend of mine whose house we will be staying at while on vacation.

2006-11-24 20:19:25 · 2 answers · asked by Eric C 1 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a guy howls at a woman?

2006-11-24 20:18:18 · 9 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

for example, you accept to have a love story with her in a foreign country with the condition to see her again 2 months after. During these two months, you and her maintain a strong link. You come to her and she say "it was a mistake" and she don t answer when you question her for explanations. Should you give up or let the time fly? You miss her a lot... thanks for the answers

2006-11-24 20:16:20 · 7 answers · asked by aulo 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay for a guy who is about 100kgs and not that good looking, who has a woman who is about 70kg and not bad looking to keep looking at other women even though she has told him she doesn't like him doing this.

2006-11-24 20:15:40 · 3 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 20:14:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family