So yeah, met this guy on my friend's wedding, my friend's sister started teasing us [with this guy], the next day my sister invited my friend's family for her graduation dinner party, my friend's sister said that this guy would be there too. At her grad. dinner party well, everyone was there except this guy. My friend's sister said that they bumped into him in the mall and this guy said that he was too shy. The next day I get a phone call 8 o'clock in the morning... it was this guy... he called to say sorry that he didn't come to my sister's grad. party... Ever since he started to call everyday... and i started to like him... this one day this guy asked me out to the mall... and it was fun... really... it went on for months and i really loved him by then... this month of november it stopped, no more phone calls, no nothing. I saw him with this other girl the other day and it hurts... bad!!! i miss him so mch... i want to call him but i don't know what to say... please help..
2006-11-24 20:34:13 · 11 answers · asked by jaytyeddrei_13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do this:
[dial the number]... (ring, ring)
him: Hello?
you: Hey, how are you doing?
h: Who is this?
y: this is (your name)
then ask him how has things been
then jokingly <<< JOKINGLY, say "man, damn, you aint call me in like 3 weeks, wassup wit dat" and make sure u laugh
maybe he'll come up with a lame excuse but atleast it will open the door to a converstaion that will get u back in the game
then onenight u can get serious with him and ask him what the real deal is
2006-11-24 20:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation Baby confront him and do it publicly so if he is shy he will think twice about doing this to another girl. What is it about when a person says they are shy no one wants to embarrass them but they can do whatever they want Confront him and do it when you see him with another girl! If you think this is too harsh than then feel the pain and let him have his fun but as soon as you stand up for yourself you will feel better I guarantee it
2006-11-25 04:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by truely human 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, First of all he is just a player. And if you have to try this hard to be with him it isn't worth it. This guy obvious doesn't care about you to do this to you. You should look for something to get you mind off of this situation. He is being a jerk for not telling you that it's over.
2006-11-25 04:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Quest4Knowledge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much to say really, I wouldn't call him. I would go get a big tub of my favorite ice cream and rent "Sweet November" from blockbuster if I were you.
-NmD!
2006-11-25 04:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a punching bag and keep punching it with a photo of his, when frustation creeps in
2006-11-25 04:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by sudhir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like him? then tell him what you feel.. if you're too shy.. you should write a letter or ask a favor to someone to tell it to him because you're too shy..
anyway, there are lots of men out there.. just remember that "it is HIS lost, NOT yours.."
2006-11-25 04:38:34 · answer #6 · answered by Lala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened to me.and it stopped so suddenly it must be that new girl. put him at the back of your mind for now. may be few months later he 'd want to come back....
2006-11-25 04:41:58 · answer #7 · answered by tot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he found another girl to spend time with. Move on, he did. (Sorry bout that and good luck!)
2006-11-25 04:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it..
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2006-11-25 04:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say nothing. But you better be ready because he will be back!
2006-11-25 04:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋