My b/f and I have known eachother for about 2 years ... almost 3.
We started dateing 2 months after we both broke up with our ex's, wich treated us horribly.
Everytime I see him I feel like I'm in heaven, Like nothing can take us apart and we're meant to be together forever.
We both can't stop thinking of one another night and day. We also try not to spend every waking moment of our lives together so we will not become tired of one another. I don't understand if I'm in love with him or not. Whenever we would say good-bye or good-night I always am about to say "I love you, bye bye" but catch myself before I do.
I don't want to scare him away by telling him how strongly I feel for him. He already tells me how much he cares about me and how he could never stand loosing me. Does that mean he loves me back? but maybe we're both scared to admit it?
please help. I'm extremely confused.
2006-11-24 20:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend is your friend, he is not a stranger that you met and started dating. It is very possible you are both in love with each other. The only thing I have a worry about is that you both ended up dating so soon after splitting up with your ex's. Could it be a rebound effect you are both experiencing along with the honeymoon phase feeling...maybe it could be like me, the moment I laid eyes on my wife I fell in love and knew I was going to marry her. We married 9m later and have been together now for 6years...so you see, it could just very well be love. When you think about it, what do you have to lose if you tell him the depth of your feelings and the love you feel for him. He is already your friend and a true friend wont turn you away, even if he doesnt feel the same way that you do to him. I think the respect will still be there cos you already have a good foundation which is a friendship.
2006-11-24 20:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have been together with him a long time, and seeing as you still get excited when you are around him I'd say it's definitely love. It also seems the two of you took things slow after both coming out of bad relationships which ultimately ended up in divorce. Somehow you two survived, and your relationship with him flourished. Go ahead and tell him just what you feel. I think he feels the same way about you.
2006-11-24 20:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHAHA...year and a half....Wow....Would be nice to have a timeline. Love can be something you instantly know can happen and feel happening....There is NO timeline on it. Problem is it does take time to figure out if it is love or just attraction or something else. Believe me when you are actually in love you will know it as your wants and needs are forgotten and suddenly you spend all your time trying to make the other person happy and than in turn makes you feel wonderful. Love is something that is rare and special and hopefully that is what you have found.........
2016-03-29 08:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First 6 months of getting to know someone is the best time of the relationship. After that, you are no longer blind from love or what have you. Basically it's all downhill from there.
2006-11-24 20:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are definitely infatuated with one another, but that can change in a blink of an eye. Love is a learned skill and can take years of work to achieve, because it requires proving your devotion and commitment time and again.
2006-11-24 20:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you probably are in love
when he tells you how much he cares & says he could never stand loosing you tell him you feel the same as him
when he feels like you wont reject him that is when he will tell you he loves you
if he does love you but it does sound like he does by what he says to you
2006-11-24 20:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing why you are confused is because he didn't formally asked you to be his gf yet if i am not wrong.
1 way is to ask him to be your bf and you might know the answer.
either way, you have to be mentally prepared to retreat if 1 party rejects the other.
there are many guys out there waiting for commitment.
good luck!
mercury of love
2006-11-24 20:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you can spend the rest of your life with him you are showing signs of love. just hope he feels the same by asking him.
2006-11-24 20:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by §¤ŅG.¥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y not just be together w/each other?
u both want 2
2006-11-24 20:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz want you to know that "sorry" and "i love you" is the hardest thing to say =) so if you really love him you have to trust and have faith in him =)
2006-11-24 20:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋