Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

My bestfriend for 5 yrs and boyfriend for 3 yrs is being emotionally blackmailed into getting married to a girl of his parents' choice (he came to learn the girl's name on the day of his engagement). The reason for this is that they r 4m a very orthodox brahmin family. I know i don't have any choice in the matter now but i feel tat my dreams of sharing a life with my soulmate is shattered. I respect and accept his choice (a duty according to him)but what makes it more hard for me to take is tat he's getting married within a few days time and he's depressed, rings me up and becomes emotional. We had even planned our marriage, the kind of house to build, how many kids to have ......and im watching it crumbling down like a stack of cards. What shd i do to overcome this state???? I've even started having nightmares and its worse when i have to smile thro my pain.

2006-11-22 05:11:11 · 8 answers · asked by garfield 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I like a lot is really shy and he is always staring at me in lunch. I only have one class with him--gym. I don't know wheather I should talk to him or I should wait for him to make the first move. I am also really shy around guys.

2006-11-22 05:10:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's a toddler pic where my legs are spread (nekkid obv). I want to steal and destroy it, do you think this is aceptable, even though the photo doesn't belong to me I guess? It also might look obvious that I took it out of the album. I think I will look dumb if I ask permission to destroy it.

2006-11-22 05:10:06 · 8 answers · asked by Staceyflourpond 3 in Family

that starts with an "S"

2006-11-22 05:10:03 · 5 answers · asked by luz m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom is so picky. One minute she says she likes boots next minute she wants a china set.

2006-11-22 05:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-22 05:09:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-22 05:09:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im 13 and just smoked my 1st cigarete and still don't know why ppl like them.Is that good or bad? and what should I do before my parents get home so they don't find out?

2006-11-22 05:09:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

wen we first started dating my boyfriend told me how "hot" i was all the time... he would make these really sweet, cute kinda corny comments and i know they were silly but i really miss them... he hasnt told me i was hot in a while... what should i say to him?

and also where do you put your hands when you're kissing someone???

thanks!!!

2006-11-22 05:08:14 · 17 answers · asked by 6-17-06 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:07:54 · 10 answers · asked by Wattys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 05:07:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive never used one myself but have heard a few... did they make you laugh or cringe?

2006-11-22 05:07:38 · 14 answers · asked by 2 good 2 miss 6 in Singles & Dating

I have been asking tons of Q's here and realize I am torn about her intentions. I am torn b/c she is torn between whether she wants more with me or not. Ah, the drama. And it hits me. Maybe we have to both be somewhere in between these two extremes we both see. She doesn't need to see me as the "one" yet but she shouldn't give up on this quite yet either, while I need to see her reluctance not as disinterest but not think her attention means she is head over heels for me yet either. Does any of this make any sense? Is this the key to making this work?

2006-11-22 05:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by K S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what people get out of them if they're never actually going to have sex with the person. Just a lot of masturbation? I was in one, but found it to be incredibly frustrating for the most part. The guy really seemed to enjoy it, and I don't understand why.

2006-11-22 05:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by charleston chew 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My good friend had me meet this guy she's hooked up with a few times. We're 21 and he is 28 so she told me she really liked him. The minute we to his house I thought the guy was weird. He increasingly became more and more flirtatious especially with me in front of my girlfriend.
After he drank me he made rude comments and seemed to pissed at me (we had just met) because I was tired and didn't want to drink much. He then proceeded to insist on driving home (it was his car) and because I didn't have another way of going home my gf, me and a coupel of his friends poured. in. After the guys were dropped off I wanted to go home and i think my gf did too and so did his friend that was a girl too.

when we were driving to pick up the cars he spun out the car on purpose and we were all freaking out. I wanted to get out but he kept driving. finally end of the night my gf takes me home in her car but he goes as well. when she drops me off he came after me while i was walking away

2006-11-22 05:04:57 · 13 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

in all openness, the truth of what one feels?

So many marriages end as two people realize they don’t know each other or wish they didn’t. Is this because people, once married, don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings and so do not reveal the truth at all times and often use little white lies to circumvent a possible confrontation, and in so doing with the intent to keep the marriage going, undermine communication, honesty, trust, and the oneness connection, and so damage the marriage beyond repair, but having good intentions the whole time?

2006-11-22 05:04:40 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 14 years old and i want a bf and i dont care if its long distance or anything...i'm not being desperate its just so i can be happy again..i havent been happy since 2 years ago with my ex..i want someone to make me happy..not sad and hurtful..when u read this will u please leave your age,name,email from yahoo.and your name thanks

2006-11-22 05:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by RockStar 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:03:49 · 18 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

wat do i do? i like my new bf but i still miss him?.?.?.?.?!?!?!

2006-11-22 05:03:44 · 17 answers · asked by that one girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:02:39 · 31 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy who goes to my church and for the past couple of weeks not only have i caught him staring at me during church his friend asked me to give him my number, so i did but he hasn't called so was it the rite thing to do or should i just forget about him? Is it just a guy thing or is there a cetain # of days you wait after u get a person's # to call them?

2006-11-22 05:02:36 · 9 answers · asked by strwbrrylover5 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a newly wed bride married this year I am 43 and I have had my tubes tired and my hubby has had a vasectomy My tubes were tired 12 years ago I don't know how long ago he had hes tired I think 16 years ok any way my last period was first week of Oct and this morning I throw up and I still feel sick and not hungry at all!!! is it possible for me to be pg???? I should be a grandma not a mother again Oh boy help any advice!!!

2006-11-22 05:01:28 · 17 answers · asked by mel416 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 05:00:11 · 19 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

I wasn't attracted to him or anything but sometime in March one of our co workers told me that this guy was interested in me. I was really shocked. At first I was just trying to be polite with him and he would give me drops home. But now I think I've fallen for him and that he might not be interested anymore. i don't work there anymore so we don't see each other that much. He only ever texts me and that's like once a week and his standard line is "How u goin?" He says he's busy with work and school but i think if he was really interested he would make time for me/us.What should I do???????

2006-11-22 04:59:35 · 17 answers · asked by Narissa J 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy last week from out of town. He approached me and my friend at the bar and we talked for hours. He asked me to dinner the next night and we went out the last few days he was here. He was supposed to leave Saturday but extended his stay until Monday. We went out the entire time. he said that he wants to still go out and that he could fly in to see me or I could fly out and see him sometime. He left Monday and since he's been gone he has only sent me two text messages which were brief that said hey there. and the other just replied to something I said. He hasn't called me just texted. I texted him today and he didn't respond. What is up with that? he persued me now he has just disappeared? Was he just using me for company while he was in town? Please help me figure this out.

2006-11-22 04:59:17 · 30 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-22 04:59:07 · 10 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

Find American men as sexy as we find you?

2006-11-22 04:57:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok can you answer this simple question my boyfriend ex girl friend kissed him in the mouth and thats when i came up to her and F**K her up..I WAS SO SHOCK...... Can you tell me what to do because i don't know what to do with him and he started laughing like it was funny i was very mad at him and his ex girl friend

2006-11-22 04:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by Joylissa M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have dating this guy for 6 months and he is a great guy. But he is out of work right now for an injury from July. He makes excuses for why he isn't back at work or why he isn't looking for work. I pay for everything because he can't. He doesn't drive so I have to drive 40 minutes to his house and he doesn't want to learn to drive. He is 30 yrs old and lives at home still. His mom has done everything for him, so he doesn't know how to do things himself. I caught her putting sunscreen on him one time. At times he can be immature and annoys me. I am currently a senior in college graduating in december and he is jealous that my school work comes first above anything else. He claims that he does everything and I do nothing, yet I drive him everywhere, buy dinner and other things for him. I feel right now I will be taking care of him for the rest of our lives together and he won't take care of me, because I was taught the man takes care for the woman. I need advise please!

2006-11-22 04:56:38 · 12 answers · asked by Kimberly M 1 in Singles & Dating