I have been asking tons of Q's here and realize I am torn about her intentions. I am torn b/c she is torn between whether she wants more with me or not. Ah, the drama. And it hits me. Maybe we have to both be somewhere in between these two extremes we both see. She doesn't need to see me as the "one" yet but she shouldn't give up on this quite yet either, while I need to see her reluctance not as disinterest but not think her attention means she is head over heels for me yet either. Does any of this make any sense? Is this the key to making this work?
2006-11-22 05:06:06 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
B-I-N-G-O, You are on the right track now! Love is patient it takes time to build a relationship.
2006-11-22 05:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing that right thing by asking question to help figure out what you are doing, although I would not read too much into so you don't confuse yourself even more. The key in any relationship is communication, talk about you feelings to one another and find out answers to each other questions is the key to find out what each other wants and needs. Finding out from her directly what she wants might help you figure out your other questions, she could be confused about somethings and afraid to talk to you about it, but if you tell you want to know what is going on then maybe she will open up and tell you what she is thinking, let her know you care a lot about her. You and her can make the relatiosnhsip work if both parties are willing to make it work. I am sure she is just a confused as you but like I have said talking to her when you have time to sit down and talk to each other would be your best bet, that way she knows you have some interest in her.
2006-11-22 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I figure that's how it is. She just isn't that sure if you are the ONE. No need to press. Just a little more space. It's more like making your relationship comfortable and pleasant. You sound like a sensible kind of guy. She should be able to see that and realize how lucky she is. Not many men are like that.
2006-11-22 13:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Know-It-All 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here's how you get her. stop paying attention to her. it's all about the chase. girls are a strange animal. just put more time to bettering your life and she'll be attracted to the ambition you have. plus if it doesn't work out, your life will be better off.
2006-11-22 13:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by phantasmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the whattty and what the fuckyyyyy????
2006-11-22 13:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Girly-Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THAT SOUNDS ABOUT RIGHT. :-)
2006-11-22 13:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this waffy?
2006-11-22 13:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋