wen we first started dating my boyfriend told me how "hot" i was all the time... he would make these really sweet, cute kinda corny comments and i know they were silly but i really miss them... he hasnt told me i was hot in a while... what should i say to him?
and also where do you put your hands when you're kissing someone???
thanks!!!
2006-11-22 05:08:14 · 17 answers · asked by 6-17-06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like we went to a big dance the other night and i was dressed all up and he didnt say 1 thing bout how i looked
2006-11-22 05:20:48 · update #1
i like to run my hands through the guy's hair. it's nice for me and it turns him on.
also, if you feel uncomfortable coming right out and telling him how you feel, why not try to act like your kind of joking about it? act like it's not that big a deal, and say something in a playful tone like "how come you never tell me i'm hot anymore, huh?!"
you can say it in a way that he won't know it's really upsetting you so that you don't feel vulnerable, but maybe he'll think about it and say it more.
2006-11-22 05:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to dress more sexy and more appealing when you are with him maybe he will comment to you again, sometimes guys usually feel a certain way when they are trying to pursue someone and once they acomplish that they set new goals but forget to rekindle the old ones. Be nice to him, turn him on and tease him, hope it works. When i'm being kissed i liked to have one hand behing my neck, and the other usually either through the side of my head or on my ear or cheek.
2006-11-22 13:14:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the comment that the honeymoon is over?? it doesnt just apply to when your married when you are with someone so long after awhile even though you dont mean to you just kind of get used to it and you tend to take what you have for granted you get busy ect and you just dont use the cute little words they you used when it was new... it doesnt mean he thinks any less of you or that he doesnt still think you are hott it just means he is so into you that he is used to what he has.. all you have to do it say hey it would be nice if you would compliment me everynow and then like you use to and i bet he will... as for the kissing it all depends on where you want that kiss to lead to as to where you put your hands
2006-11-22 13:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your first question, guys tell girls thing early on to sweeten the deal, its easier to get what we want by offering the niceties. You should try saying some nice things to him, telling him he looks good and be sweet. If he doesnt come back an say anything he might have faked his way in... Then all you can do is voice your thoughts to him. Ask him why, or tell him you like it when he says sweet things to you.
When yor kissing someone you should wrap your arms around them and hug them and they should hug you.
2006-11-22 13:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most relationships get like that after a while. u just become so used to someone. i bet he still thinks your hot. do u ever sit there and constantly tell him he is hot? it gets annoying after a while to keep complimenting your significant other.
pertaining to your second question, my hands pretty much go with the flow. if i am kissing him bye, its on my side. when we in bed it goes everywhere.lol
2006-11-22 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he under some stress right now? job, finances, family pressures?
My fiance' accuses me of something similar and its not that I don't love him, its because of all the stress in other areas of my life just don't make me feel all that happy and play ful.
Not saying thats for certain whats going on with your bf but its a possiblity.
2006-11-22 13:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by neona807 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do u ever say that he is hot? be vocal and tell him that it makes u want him even more when he tells u how good u look, etc. and u put ur hands all ova the other person's body to make it extra-enjoyable
2006-11-22 13:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by silentorderso4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you miss his compliments..
Men sometimes get lazy..
"Familiarity breeds contempt"...
I am a man so my hands just kind of naturally find
their way to a womans A.ss or Breasts...
Women usually put their arms around my neck or back...
2006-11-22 13:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not that hot anymore? Depends on what kind of kissing, might be down my pants.
2006-11-22 13:11:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st...comment to him.. saying "Am I hot or what?" and if he says yeah then say...well you havent noticed? if he says no...knock him out!! 2nd... caress their face and go all the way down to their butt. and the other hand just stays on their waist.
2006-11-22 13:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋