i'm 14 years old and i want a bf and i dont care if its long distance or anything...i'm not being desperate its just so i can be happy again..i havent been happy since 2 years ago with my ex..i want someone to make me happy..not sad and hurtful..when u read this will u please leave your age,name,email from yahoo.and your name thanks
2006-11-22 05:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by RockStar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear
You are 14 and you had a bf 2 years ago? why not concentrate on school, playing with your friends, go to school sport activities, or help mom cleaning the house. There are many things you can do and bf should not be on the agenda. Lord have mercy
2006-11-22 05:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being this way. 14 year olds do not need a bf. It is silly that boys and girls your age are acting like 40-somethings desperate to get married before they are too old.
Focus on your school work. Trust me - girls who NEED a bf at your age get used.
And by the way - any guys older than 15 who want to date you are only interested in one thing....
2006-11-22 13:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm honey you need to not invite internet creeps to be your boyfriend. i'm sure you can find a real boy who's not some nasty old man that is willing to be your boy friend. i'm not calling you desperate or trying to be mean i'm just saying this is like an invitation to perverts (among all the decent people) to talk to you. i'm sorry you're not happy but puting your feelings in other peoples hands will just let you down. you seem like a nice girl and that you're in need of a change. it'll come soon enough.
caio
2006-11-22 13:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute.... you're 14 now and 2 years ago you HAD an ex?
Jesus freakin' christ!
Why not focus more of your time and energy into school, grow up and mature first, then go out to find a partner?
2006-11-22 13:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be happy by yourself and with yourself first. A relationship is not about making each other happy, but sharing your happiness with each other. Take care and stay true to you.
2006-11-22 13:15:29 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years old seems kinda young to be seeking love and stuff, i don't mean to patronize or anything but i think you will be happier making more friends that will make you laugh instaead of some pimple faced kid whos got nothing on his mind but girls and sex.
2006-11-22 13:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's not desperate then i'm a wooly mammoth typing with my tusks. relax girl. take it easy. hang out with your friends. you'll get to meet a lot of people. just don't sit at home doing nothing. tell yourself you deserve a guy that'll treat your right.
2006-11-22 13:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by phantasmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hun. dont try and generate a relationship by force. be patient, you're still very very young. you have plenty of time to find someone right for you.
2006-11-22 13:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need yo find a guy on yahoo answers that is not good
2006-11-22 13:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by kristinkiki95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋