Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

Hi, my wedding is in December 07, I'm still not sure what colors to use and wanted to see if someone can help me pick however my fiancée parent's do not celebrate any holidays so I don't want to use anything related to Christmas. Can someone help me please?

2006-11-22 05:43:51 · 20 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Weddings

Ok i take it that me and my girl are no longer togther. i baed this on the fact that i haven't talked to her in 5 days. she won't answer my calls, or voicemails. i sent her an email but she rarely uses the computer so i don't think she got it. anyway everything was going good. no problems no arguing. its completly out of the blue. i don't mind if she is brekaing up with me but u figure she'd at elats have the curtesy to call me and tell me or even shoot over an email. why would a women do that? have any of u done this before? i never have. i think its really mean. and if she sin't breaking up with me, i'm gonna leave her anyway just for doing this.

2006-11-22 05:43:36 · 9 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Singles & Dating

he is really nice and really cute and funny. i just don't know how to tell him more about myself. help me. what do i do?

2006-11-22 05:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like crap, my brother makes me feel better, but he is not around, so it is up to you guys, please,
just words of encouragement :(

2006-11-22 05:42:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A complicated situation. A friends with benefits relationship with 35 year old mother of 3 divorced with bipolar. She already had another friends with benefits relationship with another man who had been living with his girlfriend for 3 years. The mind games were:- 1-Telling me she was having sex with a person she met in nightclub but did not tell the other man 2-Going on dating websites to find other men and not telling other man (I thought this was ok as at least she was trying to find someone more suitable) 3-Deciding she didn't want sex with me, didn't want to date and was happy with relationship with other man I then informed the other man what she had been sleeping around (unacceptable i know but done in heat of moment)

It's been 3 months now and I'm thinking about ringing her and apologising for above and asking if we can be friends in a few months time. Do you think I should do this?

2006-11-22 05:41:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is my story i meet a girl 4 years ago and we got marry and went she went on vacation for 2 weeks i meet any other girl then we started hang out one thing let to and other we had sex but she know s that i am marry too now she want me to marry her too,, i told her i can t but she doesn t mind being the second wife ...that not all i went back and told my wife about it she got mad for 2 day s , and then what suprise me with that she didn t mind if i wanted to marry the other girl too..because she say that her grandfather had 3 wifes too... so now i am lose and don t know what to do anymore ..help please...

2006-11-22 05:40:42 · 15 answers · asked by steve j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know what to do when my friends are gone or no one is home. please give me some ideas that i would have fun with. being a teenager is hard!

2006-11-22 05:40:23 · 4 answers · asked by lucky charms ♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-22 05:39:57 · 15 answers · asked by Hotty With Body 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:39:34 · 26 answers · asked by Chanele G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the low-down... We met as business contacts and eventually became friends who would share lunches quite often. She was previously divorced when we met and she had started dating another guy right before we met. Anyhow, they have recently split up and I expect her to stay siingle awhile, but I want to stay atop her list. She is 30 y/o and also the mother of a 6 y/o boy. Ideas?

2006-11-22 05:39:32 · 12 answers · asked by Beej 3 in Singles & Dating

pleaase?

2006-11-22 05:38:38 · 13 answers · asked by ( Naruto™) 2 in Friends

Okay, so on friday, me n' my friend went with our other friend to go on a date w/ a guy that she meet on myspace. [to be safe] well long story short, we ended up liking each other. & he asked me to hangout w/ him at 2 in the morning the same night that they had their date. we hungout from 2-7 in the morning. & by the end of the night we were kissing, holding hands, cuddling etc. we had a rele fast connection, & felt like we've know each other forever. Then the next day he asks me to go to the movies w/ him. & we were laying all over each other, & cuddling, holding hands, etc. The next day he tells me that my friend is the typical kinda girl he goes out with. & that he likes me, but he likes her also. So he said that he's going to choose her. Then i talked to him again, & i said that we connected so fast that it scared me. n' he said that he's never had a connection w/ anyone as fast as he did w/ me. n' that something mit happen between us later. Please help?? Is he confused, or scared?

2006-11-22 05:38:24 · 31 answers · asked by muzicisrocko 2 in Singles & Dating

a lot of grown folks say I am
i dont think so

2006-11-22 05:38:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it such a turn-off? Also, why is it guys want to try and "pick you up" once you are in a relationship? I was just wondering. Thanks!

2006-11-22 05:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by The one who knows 3 in Singles & Dating

I sing at the top of my lungs but I am a horrible singer! I also dance like it is my last time!

2006-11-22 05:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married in June and I have a tattoo on my upper arm. Out of respect for my mom, I want to cover it up. Any suggestions?

2006-11-22 05:37:48 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Weddings

Hi, I have a problem with my boyfriend to ask you all about. Recently he asked me what kind of engagement ring I wanted, (we've been dating for several years now). Well, I've always wanted a ruby engagement ring. I love victorian novels and am in love with the romance and wonderful sentiment behind a ruby for an engagement ring. It was considered a true stone of passion! I have wanted a ruby since I was a little gril.
Well I mentioned this during our engagement conversation, and he got angry with me saying that was "so ghetto" and that only a diamond was appropriate for and engagement ring. I told him I thought a ruby was a unique sentiment, to which he asked why I was always so "low class" and stalked away disgusted at me.

Do you think a ruby would make a fitting engagement ring, or was I out of line?

Thanks for your help!!

2006-11-22 05:36:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-11-22 05:35:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Example this morning while discussing a situation he said, "Something is wrong with you!" Then three to five minutes later when I mentioned what he had said, he acted as though I should be in the looney bin and denied completely that he had said that. Could not figure out where I got the idea that he said that.
He picked up the children yesterday from school. My ten year old had made me something at school that he was going to give me for Christmas. After we all sat down in the family room, the husband then said you should see what he made you today. My son was waving his arms begging his dad not to tell me, but he told me anyway and my son was brokenhearted . Then he acts as though it is my son's fault because he should have speifically told him not to tell while they were in the car. Then he had the gall to sit there and say that our son never waved his arms begging him not to tell.
The scary part is that he believes himself. Opinions??

2006-11-22 05:34:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am enrolled in 15 hours of graduate school and I work 20 hours a week. He is going to class as well 3 nights a week and works as a reserve police officer, and 1 or 2 days a week at another job. We are both tired, but I need him to help me around the house. Every time I ask him to do something he gets upset, and explains how tired he is and how he doesn't get any free time.

2006-11-22 05:34:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does anyone in here ever had an ex that will run to every friend that you make of the opposite sex and then tell them of all the horrible things that you did and then take them as their own friends and leave you out in the cold. Does your ex blog some very personnel items to everyone who will listen on the internet and then run to the cops every time she gets pissed off at you ?

2006-11-22 05:34:04 · 15 answers · asked by anton_29207 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Where should i begin Im 19 and my gf is 17 on my birthday in sept my girlfriend got in a fight with me an said i didnt deserve this and i deserve better and all that and said we should break up. a couple days later everything was fine and as months past up till now she had givin me alot of mixed messages and confusion. she would tell me she wants space but we can talk. i would give it to her and she still wasnt to happy. she said she needed to make herself happy before she can make me happy. well we would fight off and on sometimes about this situation and sometimes about dumb little things up until last friday everything was seemingly fine.. i gave her space for a couple weeks and she seemed fine and lovey and pretty normal well she wasnt. she saw me last friday and we still were doing the "i want space issue" so this was the first time i saw her in a week i go to her house and we do nothing. the next day we fight she says she does not want to be commited anymore and does not love me

2006-11-22 05:34:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with ths guy about 6 months ago. the relationship was sorta dangerous if you know what i mean. i can't stop thinking about him. i might still love him. what do i do?!?!?!

2006-11-22 05:33:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can you read a guy and tell the difference between friendliness and wanting to be more than friends. Hes fine round flirty gals yet awkward and nervous round me, What stuff do you look out for

2006-11-22 05:33:29 · 5 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

It just hurts so much- to fall for a guy friend, have soo many guy friends, but none have asked me out yet.

2006-11-22 05:32:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by NEWYORK-ARKANSAS 1 in Friends

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2006-11-22 05:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Matthew C 1 in Singles & Dating

It seens you start a relationship and everything seems great and then before you know it the guy that you are with is abusive. What do you look for in the beginning to avoid this?

2006-11-22 05:31:46 · 4 answers · asked by want2knowsoon 2 in Singles & Dating

and you were a guy on hard drugs like crack and mushrooms what wuld you want me to do about it? would you expect me not to care, would you want me to stop you or whatever......? i really dont know what to do so id really appriciate your help :) thnx

x...X...x14yr old gurl UKx...X...x

2006-11-22 05:31:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I never dated one, Brad Pitt's twin is interested in me, but this is the word in the black community. If so, forget it. The fella is truly nice.

I am not trying to be racist here. I am asking a question. I have even had some white British women tell me this.

2006-11-22 05:30:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating