Family & Relationships - 22 November 2006

My sister is going crazy from smoking to much you know wht she does not want help and she even talks to herself we try keeping her in a rehab put she wont stay How can i help her

2006-11-22 05:56:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-22 05:55:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father and brother live together. They are both alcoholics and when they drink they fight. They are having thanksgiving dinner at their house along with my uncle and cousin who are also violent (they have all gotten into a bad fight with EACHOTHER just this week) and my aunt who is also a drunk. My husband and I have a son who is not even 2. and I don't think he needs to be around all that.
There is no way to judge when the best time to go is because they are eating at 2 and they start drinking as soon as they wake up so by 2 the fighting will have already begun. How can I tell them we won't be there without hurting feelings or causing an arguement?

2006-11-22 05:55:22 · 21 answers · asked by Who Me? 4 in Family

My one year anniversary is coming up in December and my boyfriend and I will be on a plane on our way to Florida to visit my family! He has never been on a plane before! I was thinking something related to winter since its in December or maybe even something related to him never flying before! I dont know i just want something cute and creative!

Thanks

2006-11-22 05:54:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Some of my friends, including the family, left yesterday for the holidays to go out of town. They will be gone an entire week and I feel bitter about it because I did not want them to go. I am here with no where to go while they are in another state having fun! Am I wrong for feeling this way, what should I do to cope????

2006-11-22 05:54:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance and I live in California and we would like our friend to marry us. Is this legal if he gets ordained online? If so, what is a legitimate website?

2006-11-22 05:54:36 · 6 answers · asked by CA girl 1 in Weddings

There are always doubts in a relationship, especially when the romance wears off and it's time to start working at it. So what is it about your gf/bf that tells you whether it's worth it or not?

2006-11-22 05:54:20 · 3 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

i think she is going to break up with me because one day she was talking to her friend and i came up to her and she goes shhh to her friend and then when we were leaving she tells her friend i know what to do but i dont know how to do it

does that mean she is breaking up with me

2006-11-22 05:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by ilov3brianna 2 in Singles & Dating

a guy would instantly say yes. what would a girl say and why?

2006-11-22 05:54:01 · 17 answers · asked by pi 1 in Singles & Dating

HELP ME PLEASE! YOUR ADVICE IS Really Needed XXX?
A guy i went out with said i was wierd what does this mean besides the obvious?
this guy asked me out for a bit we went out i was going through a real hard time at work and probably acted a little strange he said i was wierd and left it at that. I sent him a text saying sorry for all the strange things that happened and he texted me back saying not to worry and that he was glad i could laugh at it with a mate and at the end put take care. Does this mean he still fancies me or he has forgiven me...should i text him back what should i put so he still likes and respects me...pleaase help i want him back he waas sooo the right guy just at the wrong time

2006-11-22 05:52:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend age 26 met my brother for the 1st time last night. we had a bon fired and drank alot! any hoo we all got wasted and when i went inside he told my brother that he owned 600 acres free and clear in tennessee which is where he's from. so then my brother started questioning him about why he hadn't told me about it ,and just to back up a bit, he just borrowed $200 from me, and so my brother wanted to know why he didn't just take out a loan. Then his story changed to it being 200 acres he owned free and clear and tried to tell him in middle tennessee its not worth that much per acre. so this morning my brother told me about it and i don't know what to think. is it normal or could it be possible that he was just super wasted and wanted to impress my brother? and if so how do i go about finding out whats the deal?

2006-11-22 05:51:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats something that people do or have done to you/said to you that drives you crazy in a good way? when someone flirts with you, what is a sure fire thing that someone can do to reel you in?

2006-11-22 05:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by U2 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok my boyfriend ask me to go with him and his family out on vacation for thanksgiving. (Been with him for about 1 1/2 yrs)
Its an all paid vacation, but the problem is i have never been away from my family during the hlidays. I want to go but i dont want to leave my family. And he needs an answer by tonight. What should I do

2006-11-22 05:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by trish 2 in Singles & Dating

He calls it a right of passage? For all you moms out there whats your opinion about this, and would you support? What should I do

2006-11-22 05:50:30 · 29 answers · asked by ri00 1 in Family

Gotta be careful on the wording of this i guess, not a boring one, an exciting one about different *ahem* positions for the bedroom??

2006-11-22 05:49:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still love my ex-gf but she likes this other guy. what should i do to get her not to like him and go back out with me?

2006-11-22 05:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean...it just drives him nuts! You would think i was killing him! Is this a control issue...or what?? Guys...do you feel like less of a man when or if your wife drives you? Ladies....does your hubby get in a huff when u drive him??

2006-11-22 05:49:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to help her stuff her turkey and mentioned bringing my long baster also.
The only problem is she is a vegan. What do you think she has in mind?

2006-11-22 05:48:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So i have this guy friend, we've been friends for about 4 years, and we both have feelign for eachother. I really like him, but he doesn't look liek all of my other boyfriends, he's not very attractive. All of my best friends seem to think he's a great guy to, but that he's not right for me becaus ehe's ugly...what should i do?

2006-11-22 05:47:47 · 21 answers · asked by acad_addiex3 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend was seriously ill and need a transplant at one time. I would always pay for trips/food and would cut VAC short if she got sick. Once she got the transplant and recovered she borrowed $ from me and promised to start paying it back the next month. She never made payment or acknowledged it. When I mentioned something to her, she completely ignored it. She knew at the time I was having money problems and had to borrow some from my parents. Since then we have not talked much. Also when she was recovering her family borrowed $1K from me and I had to fight to get that back, and she couldn't stand that they were not paying me. It is like she turned around and did the same thing. Should it just be a lesson learned or is it worth keeping? I have a hard time forgetting this because it seems like a lack of respect.

2006-11-22 05:47:42 · 6 answers · asked by Jennifer P 2 in Friends

Men, why do you go to strip clubs? It's expensive and you can't touch the girls, you can only look - isn't it frustrating?

2006-11-22 05:47:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 17
i do cuss at my teachers
i threaten my teachers
I do have sex......but not constantly
i do smoke
make good grades in school except in history
i like fighten
i jacked a car before
i have a habit of picking on people
older people say i am
i dont think so.........some my friends say im not

2006-11-22 05:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

when he got married i was terrified i would lose him i got ove it but now i've got that fear again what iis wrong im happy that i will be an aunt but i am still scared.

2006-11-22 05:45:54 · 26 answers · asked by Amdramida K. 1 in Family

2006-11-22 05:45:51 · 3 answers · asked by farewell_moose 1 in Singles & Dating

Was married for 12 years now single and scared of rejection

2006-11-22 05:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-22 05:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by JZ 3 in Singles & Dating

I have tried to tell her that I would like her to make an effort to spending more time with me. But it seems like the more I try to tell her or get mad or try to get her attention she pushes me further away or only agrees to spend time with me like so she won't have to hear it. I don't feel she is sincere anymore in spending time together. She has a very busy job and I told her I understand. She made some excuse that this is her job and she is not used to having to share her time with someone else whatever that's supposed to mean. I'm not trying to pressure her but she never acted like this earlier in the relationship. Now I am worried that I will have to fight an uphill battle the rest of my life. She says that she noticed that I haven't been happy lately but not with much emotion just more of a cold distant factual statement. She told me that if I'm not happy then I neeed to make a choice. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-22 05:44:53 · 19 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We hear a lot about men complaining about the wife being cold and distant in bed, what about the other way around....

Any women out there not getting enough?

2006-11-22 05:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They recorded a song for me && they thought I said it sucked when I didn't...&& I got all mad..Now there mad...But I'm sad now...&& I can't stop crying..HELP ME!
For Questions E-mail Me!
suicidal_lover_2010@yahoo.com

2006-11-22 05:44:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Hey guys,

um what do u like better a girl tht throws herself at you, or a girl tht makes it a challenge..i guess u could say play "hard to get"


Im asking this question cuz i see girls throw thereselfs at guys nd i wonder do guys like tht?..or do they like a challenge


thankss

2006-11-22 05:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by YEAH! 3 in Singles & Dating