i still love my ex-gf but she likes this other guy. what should i do to get her not to like him and go back out with me?
2006-11-22 05:49:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love her then you would want her to be happy and if she really loves you then she will realize that she would rather be with you- you cant force anyone to like you or to hate someone else- all you can do is tell her honestly how you feel about her- maybe you werent giving her the attention she needed- she wouldnt just leave you if she was happy with you
2006-11-22 05:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by alexnjennlexychajon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over her. my ex is basiclly stalking me right now, because he wants me back. it sucks, and hes doing anything he can to make me feel guilty. theres no way to change her mind. if you 'love' her, then you'll do her a favor, and let her go, dont hold on to HER, just hold on to the MEMORIES of her. sure, memories make you miss her more, but they must have been good, and you had your time. Idk who broke up with who here, or why. but either way there was some reason, so its hard after a break-up to go back out with that person. trust me i know. its not worth it for you, because if she was to do like i did, go back out with yu because she felt sorry, then later realize its not what SHE wants, its want YOU want. stop thinking about yourself all the time... or right now, because its not all about you, its bout her too, and she dosent need you hanging on to her. If she likes someone else. be happy for her, incourage her. it'll hurt, seeing her with someone else. but she'll be happy, thats whats imortant, right? so it should be worth it. its tough, life/love its tough. but you'll get through it, and find someone, who feels the same about you.
Good Luck
2006-11-22 06:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if thats possible. The first thing I would do is find out how much she really likes this guy. If its a lot, chances are slim. I would just keep talking to her if she lets you... Do nice things for her.... tell her how you feel!
2006-11-22 05:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by U2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u really feel and then if she still says no than she is crazy becuz girls love guys that can express their feelings.
2006-11-22 05:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Monkee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to feed your own needs and not hers which doesn't equal love in my book. Move on.
2006-11-22 05:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Wont happen
2. Get over it. take a vaction, do things that will get her off her mind
3. get another one
4. if you still are persitant. wait till she dumps him. dont wait too long though
2006-11-22 05:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and find yourself someone who wants your love as much as you want to give it!
2006-11-22 05:51:17 · answer #7 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her decisions if you love her and let her decide what she wantts to do with her life.
2006-11-22 05:51:49 · answer #8 · answered by homeiggyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing u can do.
just let it be if it meant to be, she will be with u.
remember this u can't stop u from doing the thing she want to do
2006-11-22 05:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the other guy is a poopy-face.
2006-11-22 05:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋