So i have this guy friend, we've been friends for about 4 years, and we both have feelign for eachother. I really like him, but he doesn't look liek all of my other boyfriends, he's not very attractive. All of my best friends seem to think he's a great guy to, but that he's not right for me becaus ehe's ugly...what should i do?
2006-11-22 05:47:47 · 21 answers · asked by acad_addiex3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you care what he looks like? First of all, MOST of the cute guys are too stuck up their own butt to care about anything and second, if you're really focusing on just looks, then I don't think you're ready for dating at all.
2006-11-22 06:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by krazy_katie01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is never an easy position. I speak of my from experience, I have a very good female friend that I really enjoy spending time with and most certainly care and have feelings for.
However, I never developed a physical attraction for her, I didn't find her that physically attractive. I am sure we would be a great couple but that spark wasn't there for me. Many will tell you this is a superficial attitude, but physical attraction is a piece of the whole attraction puzzle and if it's not there, you may be best to simply remain great friends. Only you will know if you are attracted to all the qualities this person possesses.
P.S. - I am still great friends with my happily married female friend. We still talk, we laugh, we are great friends!
2006-11-22 06:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by ZiggyCool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about this guy puts looks aside. Looks dont mean the most. If you feel that you might have a good relationship with this person why let it go to waste because of what your friends think. Just go for it and everything will be just fine.
2006-11-22 05:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where does it say that a guy has to be handsome to be a great catch? Would you rather have a good looking guy that treated you badly and you didn't have anything in common with or a nice guy whom was left out in the looks department but made up for it in the manners and personality department?
2006-11-22 05:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by roncarolhillsstupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had this exact same thing happen to me, and it didnt last, and i felt soooo bad cuz i had to break up with him and crush him and it was horrible and i wish i could take it all back, but i cant. so def consider the future, do u think u'll last, do u think u'll still like him in a long time? for me, my friend was just a rebound from a long term ex, so evaluate the situation and realize that if it doesnt work out it'll mess with the friendship and sometimes friendship is better than all the pain and heartache from relationships
2006-11-22 05:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by foreveryoung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself. God, be sincere with yourself instead of asking other people. Anyway, you are friends right?. What's more important to you?, the friendship or the hormonal impulse of a relationship?. Remember depending on the maturity of a guy you'll know that if something happens to your relationship and you break up, he might or might not be ok with it. So before losing a good friend, ask yourself if it's worth it to mess with it first.
2006-11-22 05:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by head_blown_apart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. There is more to love than looks. Looks fade and in the end all you are left with is a personality. If y'all like each other what are you waiting for girl?? Start dating this great guy!!
2006-11-22 05:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-12 22:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're that shallow to have to consider looks over how great a guy he is then do him a favor and never try to be his boyfriend
2006-11-22 05:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mad Marvin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to understand what truly matters in a relationship. Keep being friends.
2006-11-22 05:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋