Hey guys,
um what do u like better a girl tht throws herself at you, or a girl tht makes it a challenge..i guess u could say play "hard to get"
Im asking this question cuz i see girls throw thereselfs at guys nd i wonder do guys like tht?..or do they like a challenge
thankss
2006-11-22 05:44:08 · 15 answers · asked by YEAH! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in the beginning hard to get, men love the challenge if it's going to be something more then a fling. but just a hook up throw away girl we love that as well.
2006-11-22 05:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the guy and what they are attracted to. They don't need to throw themselves at the guys or play hard to get. It should be a balance between the two and mutual. To me a balance is perfect. Shows interest and effort from both sides.
2006-11-22 13:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man want so to know his woman is special. If you throw yourself at him, you're just another fast slut.
You don't' have to do that to show that you're interested in him.
Make it a little bit of a challenge. A guy that's interested in you is willing put in a little work to keep you interested in him. Just don't make him jump through too many hoops. Let him know from time to time you're still interested too.
Once you see that happening, then you can put a little bit more of yourself out there.
2006-11-22 13:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd prefer a girl that's a challege. How many other guys has the girl that throws herself thrown herself at.
2006-11-22 14:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys know that they can play with girls that throw themselves, but it is the challenge they probably want, something to work for.
2006-11-22 13:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to show that you have respect for yourself so playing hard to get is good but don't make it chore.
Know what you want and be patient be a womans..woman
2006-11-22 13:51:09 · answer #6 · answered by Illust_Tech79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a little of both , not to easy and of course not too hard. just give me enough to let me know that i do have a chance with you or be just straight up and tell me you want nothing to do with me.but i guess its more of throwing your self on me that I like. it feels good to be wanted.
2006-11-22 13:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As with any question like this it all depends. Personally a delicate balance of both, you do not want to 'be chased' til he give up. Do not make it too difficult. Also let him know that you being 'caught' because if too easy you'll be taken for granted.
Your welcome.
2006-11-22 13:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by zman70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i like a girls that plays hard to get becuase i like challenges. i like it more when she likes me to where there is a benefit at the end.
2006-11-22 13:47:37 · answer #9 · answered by johnathon j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, challenge is over rated and not much fun. Give me an agressive girl anytime.
2006-11-22 13:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋