Was married for 12 years now single and scared of rejection
2006-11-22 05:45:19 · 14 answers · asked by Victorio 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Majority of women hate pick up lines. Instead using a line I like it when a guy comes up and simply says "Hi, my name is (his name) ". If she is polite she'll say "Hi I'm (her name) after say "Well it's a pleasure to me you (her name)". She'll say "Nice to meet you as well." Then offer to buy her a coffee or a drink or whatever. That always works better than a pick up line. P. S. If she has a boyfriend or husband and is a woman of integrity she'll say no when you offer the coffee. Beware of the crazy ones out there. Best of luck to you!!!
2006-11-22 05:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No such thing as a good opening line. Say hi and go from there. Relax and be yourself. Also, it helps not to premeditate, because you'll only scare yourself. When you see someone you want to talk to, do it immediately, before you have a chance to conjur up all the terrible things that might happen. Feel the fear and do it anyway.
2006-11-22 05:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bastardo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, don't try to use any lines. Women hate that, because it makes guys look insincere. The best thing to do, is to just start a conversation about anything that interest you, or something that you think she may be interested in. What I and most of my friends find attractive in a guy is honesty, good sense of humor, being genuine, being polite( but not stuffy), patience, being considerate of others, and basically just being themselves. And don't ever let yourself think that looks are really important to all women. My cousin is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen, and her husband is not the male model type. BUT, he treated her with respect, and didn't try to be anything but himself around her, and she loves him more than anything in the world. If you're a good guy with a good heart, then nothing else is going to matter, trust me.
2006-11-22 05:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just be yourself and be casual women like tigers sense fear and will attack. You will be rejected but it's a numbers game the more you talk the better your chances.
Or you could try one of these pick up lines:
Hey baby is that a keg in your pants, cause I want tot tap that @ss!
Hey baby there's a party in my Pants, so why don't you put on your party hat and suck my ****.
Hey girl nice shoes wanna F@ck?
I would go with being your self though.
Sorry about the divorce, good luck and I hope I cheered you up a little.
2006-11-22 05:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ross B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women HATE "opening lines".
Walk up to a girl, say "hi, how are you?", ask her name, tell her yours, and then start talking - find out what she's into, tell her what your interests are, talk about stuff going on around you - for instance, if you're in a bar, and there's a football game on TV, ask her if she likes sports (these days, a LOT of women are sports fans ESPECIALLY girls who went to colleges with very good football or basketball teams)
No, it's not easy, and yes, many girls will shoot you down - and you might spend an hour talking to a girl and not even get a phone number (or you'll get a number, but if you call, she will let it go to voicemail and not return your message)
But you have to TRY..
Good luck - I know there's a girl out there for you!
2006-11-22 05:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and overhear them talking to someone and use anything interesting to you they have to say, and then say, "I couldn't help notice you talking about this" followed by questions about it. Or, if there's anything peculiar about the person of interest, go up and ask them about it. This could range from their hair being blue, to some outfit out of the norm.
2006-11-22 05:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Welgar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is be yourself- dont be something you are not. Girls like a man that is genuine.
I dont think pick up lines work personally- but thats only my opinion - ok.
2006-11-25 10:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to a hot lady and start a conversation of who you are, where you grew up, etc.
Happy Fishing!
2006-11-22 05:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by akjgo94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, if you were married for 12 years, you shouldn't be afraid of ANYTHING! Good luck!
2006-11-22 05:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
everyone is scared of rejection
just don't be afraid of your own shadow and you will be fine..
maybe make a little joke about being nervous..always works for me
2006-11-22 05:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋